SD jerking me around, need hustle advice!!
So yeah help plz!!!
I have a regular/SD of 3-4 years. We meet (met) once a month for an afternoon for, let's just say 800. Then we would also meet once or twice a month on top of that for an hour at 200.
I got pregnant and he said he didn't care, he was attached and didn't want to find a new stripper. He's my sole source of income pretty much, at least steady income.
Tonight (we were meeting for the one hour date) he said he didn't wanna do the whole afternoons anymore because "it was too strenuous for me at this stage" *eye roll* . The crafty old bastard knows I'm out of options and is trying to pay the least he can, so now he inly wants to meet for the one hour time slots. Yeah ok, there goes three quarters of my income!!>:(
but it's not like I can tell him to go fuck himself cause I can't strip like this. I'm still very slim and I take care of myself but yeah, you can tell I'm pregnant, I hate being out of commission and feeling dependent!!
But on the other hand, I know what he likes and he's used to me and all, should I play hardball and be like "ok but I want more money now that we aren't meeting for the afternoons".
And how do I say it gracefully?? He's the kind of "gf experience" customer, in that it's paramount that he continues the illusion that I really like him and this isn't 100% business.
I can't believe I get no loyalty after all these years. Man, fuck some of these men lol. (Numbers may not be exact, just to cover my ass, I don't like talking about exact income)
Re: SD jerking me around, need hustle advice!!
We had a rabbit like you,
First rule of the sugar bowl is that there is no loyalty in the sugar bowl. Girl, I thought about this post for a few minutes and I would say that you have a classic sugar daddy getting out of the situation move. Some sugar daddies leave after they feel it is getting too hot for them. Frankly, you need to negotiate the terms of your arrangement slowly. Maybe suggest a dinner date during this following week? Wear something nice and discuss your allowance during the dinner. Usually, I would talk about the arrangement during dessert. Just order a small dessert and talk during that time. Also, take small bites before you get down to business.I do not negotiate during lunch or coffee dates because guys are more relax during dinner. Then I get the allowance that I desire after dinner :) I hope this helps. Meanwhile, if you still want to sugar than you should try to find more sugar daddies :)
Quote:
Originally Posted by
We had a rabbit like you
So yeah help plz!!!
I have a regular/SD of 3-4 years. We meet (met) once a month for an afternoon for, let's just say 800. Then we would also meet once or twice a month on top of that for an hour at 200.
I got pregnant and he said he didn't care, he was attached and didn't want to find a new stripper. He's my sole source of income pretty much, at least steady income.
Tonight (we were meeting for the one hour date) he said he didn't wanna do the whole afternoons anymore because "it was too strenuous for me at this stage" *eye roll* . The crafty old bastard knows I'm out of options and is trying to pay the least he can, so now he inly wants to meet for the one hour time slots. Yeah ok, there goes three quarters of my income!!>:(
but it's not like I can tell him to go fuck himself cause I can't strip like this. I'm still very slim and I take care of myself but yeah, you can tell I'm pregnant, I hate being out of commission and feeling dependent!!
But on the other hand, I know what he likes and he's used to me and all, should I play hardball and be like "ok but I want more money now that we aren't meeting for the afternoons".
And how do I say it gracefully?? He's the kind of "gf experience" customer, in that it's paramount that he continues the illusion that I really like him and this isn't 100% business.
I can't believe I get no loyalty after all these years. Man, fuck some of these men lol. (Numbers may not be exact, just to cover my ass, I don't like talking about exact income)
Re: SD jerking me around, need hustle advice!!
Thanks! Yeah if I wasn't almost six months pregnant I'd dump his ass like a hot potato in search of greener pastures and give him a wake up call, but he knows I'm in a position where I have to,wait and he's playing on that :( that jerk off lol . Thanks for the advice!!
Re: SD jerking me around, need hustle advice!!
Maybe the fact that you're starting to show means it's becoming real that you have a guy at home whereas before he could be in a state of ignorant bliss.
You can still drop him like a sack of hot potatoes you'll just have to hustle and/or be alert to other more viable options for income.
Re: SD jerking me around, need hustle advice!!
Is there anyway you can create pregnancy fetish clips? So you can get some passive income in.
Re: SD jerking me around, need hustle advice!!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
We had a rabbit like you
And how do I say it gracefully?? He's the kind of "gf experience" customer, in that it's paramount that he continues the illusion that I really like him and this isn't 100% business.
I can't believe I get no loyalty after all these years. Man, fuck some of these men lol. (Numbers may not be exact, just to cover my ass, I don't like talking about exact income)
This suggestion is not for everyone but there is also the fake cry. I haven't used it in dancing but I've done it at the airport to change a flight lol.
Cry or be sad until he asks you what's wrong tell him it hurt you that he wanted to spend less time with you, maybe he's not attracted to anymore and cry. You can also throw in you are having a stressful time or that you might have to move to a place where it's easier to support yourself blah blah blah. Maybe he'll offer some financial help.
I think if you were to just cut him off he'd eventually crave what he can't have and come back but that takes time and if you were to take him back the money still wouldn't be the same as before. He'd just see you every now and then from nostalgia, unless his real problem is that the pregnancy is ruining his fantasy - as opposed to he's getting bored and getting ready to move on.
Re: SD jerking me around, need hustle advice!!
Also, is it possible to waitress at the club you used to dance at? My old club would let the dancers waitress if they were pregnant.
Re: SD jerking me around, need hustle advice!!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Gia2608
Also, is it possible to waitress at the club you used to dance at? My old club would let the dancers waitress if they were pregnant.
At my club, pregnant dancers are also allowed to work the door. Maybe that's an option?
Re: SD jerking me around, need hustle advice!!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
We had a rabbit like you
He's the kind of "gf experience" customer, in that it's paramount that he continues the illusion that I really like him
No offense but it's done. The fantasy (with you) is over for him. When it comes to men, actions speak louder than words. If he continues to jerk you around, he's telling you that he's not interested. I knew a girl in this exact same position as you are. She would hound the guy for money and when they finally met he would make her "work" for it. Horrific position to be in. Like I said, move on. Not worth it.
Re: SD jerking me around, need hustle advice!!
Thanks everyne. Yeah I want to make clips but I need to buy a new computer :( I not have an iPad and iPod. And then teach myself how to do it lol.
I've been ignoring him since then , he can find another stripper if he wants to treat me like a cheap quick option!
Re: SD jerking me around, need hustle advice!!
Re: SD jerking me around, need hustle advice!!
Quote:
Originally Posted by
audritwo
OMG, THANK You, Aud!!! That's great, they show the service compatability, I bought a phone from Ebay & having probs trying to return it, I know eventually it'll happen but meanwhile ugh. Couldn't get service for it.:(
& thanks also, for mentioning about the camera in it:-*
Sorry for the thread jack too!
Re: SD jerking me around, need hustle advice!!
Also..possibly you could guilt him, for one more time? Idk him but up to you if it's worth a try, good luck