How to take a convo from boring to sexy
After working my first night last night after 2 months off in a new club I was rejected by every customer except the smelly Mexican guy who clearly just came to the club from work and I only made $60 :( I'm not a very good hustler cus I have the looks and vibe and dancing that make me sexy but I have such a "normal convo" habit. I start off with a customer saying hey baby or something like that but then it goes to how are you etc etc. I'm very awkward with talking (always been my biggest downfall) so what are some to give the sexy hint without being like "enough about the weather lets get me naked!!" Cus that's not my style and I won't have the attitude to pull it off. i guess in other words how do I start off a sexy convo (or even how do I get him to start it) so It doesn't even get to that awkward part of the convo when I have like no way to make the sale (in a reasonable way) lol
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So you want sexy hints but you say you cannot and will not say sexy things like "let's go get naked now"? Just confused lol
You really need to learn how to do that. Stripping a lot of times means getting out of your comfort zone, and as a dancer you need to learn to be sexy and sexuctive. Girl, I feel you cause I have the exact same problem!! But you really need to practice. Maybe get your confidence level up more. My awkwardness and lack of sexiness stemmed from fear of rejection and embarrassment. And that's just smthg I HAD to get over in this industry.
Start w a touch on the shoulder/neck/arm/leg and do major sexy body language. Whisper in ears. Give fuck me eyes. Keep convo centred around a sexy subject if you must do a bit of convo. A lot of guys will be good to go w a brush on the neck,and cleavage in the face and a sexy giggle w a cute line.
but if you can't even say "let's go have some naked fun" I'm not sure what lines I can give you to say lol
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Thanks for the quick response I guess I'm just feeling down. But I like that idea doing a sexy gesture first so maybe when I first sit down I'll really empathize rubbing his leg or shoulder (cus I usually just put a hand there and that's it) then go from that. I will try that tonight and work on talking sexy to my dog until work lol
Re: How to take a convo from boring to sexy
I used to feel weird saying cheesy lines like that, but you'll get used to it if you stick around. It gets easier with time.
What I'm actually talking about with customers is usually not that sexy... I like to connect with the guys, ask them where they're from/what kind of work they do/etc, but I'll rub their shoulder or leg the whole time and use sexy body language. The tone of your voice also makes a difference... Try to use a seductive voice, and it won't matter what you're actually saying.
Then hit him with "You look like you're ready for a dance."/"I'm going to rub myself all over you now."/"Let's get me naked!" With a nod of the head. More sexy body language/sales tactics to keep him from saying no.
There are also a lot of great threads in hustle hut on how to have conversation and ask for dances. Try stuff out and see what works for you. :)
Re: How to take a convo from boring to sexy
Tell him he's sexy & ask if you can hold his hand. Your hand on his leg works wonders too.