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^ew. That just sounds disgusting!
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1- Most indian never cologne/deodorant. Its not their culture. When you see indian customers tell them to use deodorant.
2 - Most indians dont know the club rules,also they are shy to ask about rules. So explain them about rules.
3 - Most indians are cheap. if they bargain on dances , just cut the conversation and move on to next one. They don't do many VIPs. They want to save save save money all the time.
4 - 10% of Indians are super decent and spend aggressively at clubs. Try to make them as regulars.
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Darkblue
1- When you see indian customers tell them to use deodorant.
2 - So explain them about rules.
3 - just cut the conversation and move on to next one. They don't do many VIPs. They want to save save save money all the time.
4 - 10% of Indians are super decent and spend aggressively at clubs. Try to make them as regulars.
never would have thought of that...super thanks.
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A lot of girls at my club won't talk to indians. I use it to my advantage because they all refuse to talk to them and I do so no competition with them and I'm almost always the one doing dances with them. My manager actually called me the "indian whisperer" lmfao. To me anyone's money is good. But I admit the vast majority are a lot to deal with. And I would agree it's probably a cultural thing because the ones born in america seem much more typical. The ones who grew up in india tend to be a lot more grabby and pushy during the dances and tend to go for the cheapest dances and ask for extras. I've heard it has something to do with their culture and how they view women. Also honestly a lot told me they were virgins or in arranged marriages and I think they were deprived and overexcited and confused about the whole situation.
Personally I wouldn't refuse any customer based on their race. But I do prioritize them based on my experience. Being a skinny girl with no tits or ass or I generally talk to black guys last because in my experience they don't like me except for a few rare exceptions, but I would not turn one down if they asked for a dance.
I have a friend who will not do dances with anyone female because she finds it weird. I still don't totally understand girls who turn down dances with customers honestly, especially because they seem to usually be the ones who need the money the most.
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All customers have the potential to be assholes in the VIP. The majority of my bad experiences have been with drunk white men. But I also understand how they are socialized because those are the type of idiots Ive had to deal with since hitting puberty. I know what to expect from them, how to control them, how to tell them off etc because unfortunately I've had to do it too many times.
Guys from other backgrounds are generally socialized differently. As problematic as white guys but I just don't have as much experience with them and feel more vulnerable when were alone in the VIP.
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catlover0106
A lot of girls at my club won't talk to indians. I use it to my advantage because they all refuse to talk to them and I do so no competition with them and I'm almost always the one doing dances with them. My manager actually called me the "indian whisperer" lmfao. To me anyone's money is good. But I admit the vast majority are a lot to deal with. And I would agree it's probably a cultural thing because the ones born in america seem much more typical. The ones who grew up in india tend to be a lot more grabby and pushy during the dances and tend to go for the cheapest dances and ask for extras. I've heard it has something to do with their culture and how they view women. Also honestly a lot told me they were virgins or in arranged marriages and I think they were deprived and overexcited and confused about the whole situation.
Personally I wouldn't refuse any customer based on their race. But I do prioritize them based on my experience. Being a skinny girl with no tits or ass or I generally talk to black guys last because in my experience they don't like me except for a few rare exceptions, but I would not turn one down if they asked for a dance.
I have a friend who will not do dances with anyone female because she finds it weird. I still don't totally understand girls who turn down dances with customers honestly, especially because they seem to usually be the ones who need the money the most.
Reminds me of a white escort I know who only sees black men. It's posted in her ad that she only books with black men.
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November_Scorpio
I have seen this a lot at the clubs and it really bothers me. Strippers will come up to me and say they will never ask that guy over there for a dance *points to him* simply because of what race he is. They may have had a few bad experiences with black men, or Indian men, or Asian men, or latino men ... because of those few bad experiences they make this really unfair stereotype of all men of that race and judge every man of that race to be a bad customer which I find to be honest a very rotten way to treat people. There excuse was they have had dances before with men of that race before and they were all bad experiences so therefore by their very illogical reasoning -> all men who are of that race must be that way.
You know I am Caucasian and I have acted inappropriate sometimes at clubs and I have observed many Caucasian men act inappropriately too. Yet I don't see these same strippers saying because they had a few bad experiences with Caucasian men -> they all must be this way and that is why they refuse dances from any customer who is Caucasian.
I felt bad for an very smart young man who came here from India. He was an Electrical Engineering student at the University of Chicago, really sharp guy. The guy did nothing wrong, but a dancer who was more than willing to give me dances and sit with me wasn't willing to give any of her time to this young man simply because of his race. She pointed him out to me as we talked and told me she would never do a vip and dances with that guy, he had kept asking her for dances and she avoided him. She said the reason was she had a few bad experiences with Indian men and therefore they all were this way and she avoided them at the clubs. I felt bad for the guy because he was doing nothing wrong in the club. He spent good money on other dancers and he certainly had way more money than I did, he drove to the club in an expensive BMW. His father was an engineer and he came from a family of engineers.
I always remember that incident and I made it a point everytime I went back to club to refuse getting any dances or VIPS from that dancer anytime she asked me for dances or VIPs, she always asks me but I say no. I thought about telling her why, but I don't want start a fight. Not the kind of person I want as my friend or to spend anytime with.
Why do dancers do this? It really bothers me when I see this behavior and truthfully when a dancer engages in this behavior I tend to lose all respect for them as a person.
Some of the stereotypes are true.. I went all the way to Thailand and the same problems women have in the United States the Thai women were complaining about the same issues. In Thailand women are reluctant to see Indian men because they smell bad and are cheap. They are also are reluctant to see black men because they worry that penis size is too big.
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We had a rabbit like you
The only race im loathe to dance for is Indian men , and that's because of their culture not skin color. I had a great young Indian custie who was 2nd or 3rd generation and was respectful. But in my half a decade or so in the industry he's been about the only one. Most cultures on this planet have fucked up views of women and consent but w Indian men it's hardcore and it's about protecting myself from as much assault as I can in a night, it's not personal or that I believe ppl of a different skin tone are beneath my attentions. Fuck.and this does not stem from just "a few" bad experiences. I'm also leery of guys in suits and frat boys
I have been overseas to countries where men are less chivalrous and it appeared that women were "put in their place", but you know something, I noticed that those women had more respect for their men.
In my opinion, women don't respect nice men.
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Luckyguy09
I have been overseas to countries where men are less chivalrous and it appeared that women were "put in their place", but you know something, I noticed that those women had more respect for their men.
Respect, fear, tomato, tomahto.....
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Yea that just made my fucking flesh crawl
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Genoveve
Respect, fear, tomato, tomahto.....
Yeah, I would say lots of us have true respect for a lot of men in our lives buuuuuut
They actually have to earn it. I'm not just going to bow down because you have a fucking penis. I can buy a bigger one, what else do you bring to the table.
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Vyanka
I don't do foreigners, bc back in their home country they only have brothels. They think the strip club is either the same or "stupid American culture shit"(I've heard this from a European) that makes no sense to them. Oh well. In all fairness, the only Indians I've been lucky with are the ones who come from London. I've been lucky with two business Mexicans before....generous and gentleman.....but that is so rare. Usually, I would not approach neither.
White men can be a fucking nightmare too. Especially the privileged one who thinks he can do whatever he wants, bc of his status.
I just go with who the staff is ass kissing to and his mannerism.
Those foreigners are right. Dancing/stripping is cool, and it has its place (nothing like a beautiful female body in motion), but for strip clubs to be the main and only source of sexual entertainment that is legal in America is a scam.
The American strip club culture is environment where men kept in sexual arousual for as long as possible without getting them off or providing any real sexual relief. It's unhealthy.
Overseas in countries where sex work is legal or tolerated stripclubs are minimal or they are merged inside brothels so you can watch women dance and at any time pay a fee to take the woman of your dreams back to a designated area inside the building or back to your hotel altogether for full on sex.
American guys don't know what they're missing. Germany probably has the best set up with the most beautiful women.
https://youtu.be/RNahisHBDE4
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My ex prob exp this, he lived in Ger for awhile, had a beamer too.
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Sometimes small ethnic groups in clubs can get a little out of control, just as the locals can. For the less experienced dancer, this isn't problem. I often wondered why I so often see "no black men" in escort ads. Then someone told me that they tend to want to talk and negotiate incessantly, always asking for more, expecting the girls to be excited about having a black man, etc. I know professional black men who are gentlemen, but I also have friends that fit the stereotype haggler/negotiator.
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Luckyguy09
Those foreigners are right. Dancing/stripping is cool, and it has its place (nothing like a beautiful female body in motion), but for strip clubs to be the main and only source of sexual entertainment that is legal in America is a scam.
The American strip club culture is environment where men kept in sexual arousual for as long as possible without getting them off or providing any real sexual relief. It's unhealthy.
Overseas in countries where sex work is legal or tolerated stripclubs are minimal or they are merged inside brothels so you can watch women dance and at any time pay a fee to take the woman of your dreams back to a designated area inside the building or back to your hotel altogether for full on sex.
American guys don't know what they're missing.
If you despise stripclubs why are you on stripperweb lol. You whining about the fact that strippers here don't put out plus your belief that women need to be put in their place(and what place is that exactly?) just makes you sound like the typical misogynist who's pissed because you feel like you're automatically entitled to respect and admiration from women and yet aren't getting it. Go back to Saudi Arabia. Btw if you keep experiencing women not giving you any respect you might want to look inward.
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Yup let's bring back the acid attacks and stonings, that'll teach those damn females the respect they should feel for all penis owners lmao. Ew. No wonder you get no respect dude, you straight up deserve none...and especially not for having a Y chromosome. Sorry hun. I love it, of a male isn't dominating the household it's a "broken home" haha
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Luckyguy09
1. What attracted me to this forum was the "other work" section pertaining to escorting.
2. Genoveve, nobody is whining that American strippers don't put out. The conversation was just the comparisons between American adult entertainment vs overseas adult entertainment. But of course, I knew someone would get upset and feel threatened for agreeing that overseas adult entertainment is superior.
3. You prove my point just by the way to talk to me. What's the point of lashing out at someone who brings up wanting to be treated better?
Like I said, women in other countries have more respect for men. To be fair, foreign women tend to grow up inside intact families with their fathers and adult male family members playing a pivotal role in their life unlike here in the United States where it seems like nearly everyone comes from a broken home.
Reminds me of a young woman from Egypt I met here in the States. Her words will forever resonate with me as she described how she grew up with her father and brothers and how she felt so safe when she was around Egyptian men where here in America she didn't get that feeling of security from American guys.
How exactly is she supposed to talk to you? With her head low and slightly bent over? Knock it off! This is a sexworkers forum comprised mostly of women so of course your words are offensive. You are just another troll trying to covertly say that sex workers have Daddy Issues. I see you and other members of the forum see you as well. This is not the place for negging.
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Luckyguy09
2. Genoveve, nobody is whining that American strippers don't put out. The conversation was just the comparisons between American adult entertainment vs overseas adult entertainment. But of course, I knew someone would get upset and feel threatened for agreeing that overseas adult entertainment is superior.
Well seeing as how I'm not a stripper I don't think your attempt to paint me as merely being defensive works very well.
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Luckyguy09
3. You prove my point just by the way to talk to me. What's the point of lashing out at someone who brings up wanting to be treated better?
If you can't grasp that coming onto a forum that's mostly women and talking about how you think being disrespectful to them is the way to go in order to get treated decently by them is ideal is going to offend........you must be pretty dense. I'm going to guess that your denseness is the real reason behind the trouble that you seem to regularly have with women. And yes, I will talk to you in whatever way you inspire me to.
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Luckyguy09
I have been overseas to countries where men are less chivalrous and it appeared that women were "put in their place", but you know something, I noticed that those women had more respect for their men.
In my opinion, women don't respect nice men.
Are you a troll? Of course Women in other countries will pretend to respect men when they are BEATEN when really they just wish their husbands would keel over. Respect is earned and never given. It is obvious why you are so hateful to women. Take this crap to the blue forums. You don't need to be posting this on a SUPPORT site for sex workers.
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Lmao also anyone who has to label certain men as "nice" is a huuuuge red flag for "actually an asshat".
We've all met, dated, and worked with etc men who are legitimately good people- i.e. guys who actually treat everyone decently and do kind things for others whether those actions are likely to lead to sex or not. They don't call themselves "nice guys" because it's obvious by their actions that they are kickass human beings.
otoh the internet is full of guys crying "I'm a nice guy? Why won't any of these stupid bitches have sex with me????"
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SuperJa
"I'm a nice guy? Why won't any of these stupid bitches have sex with me????"
THIS! OMFG I have a really close friend who says stuff like this all the time. He really doesn't get it. I love him to pieces and have known him since 12 but homeboy has no clue how to handle rejection. ONE woman years ago did him wrong and now ALL women are stupid bitches if they aren't into him. Except for me. Im cool and I pass his approval regiment. Lucky me
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LMFAO this fucking topic. Nice guys don't expect women to fuck them just so guys on customer conversation know.
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Selina M
Aren't you just a saint for caring about that guy.
What club are you at where all this nonsense allegedly happens? You make it sound like all the dancers just talk to and give you alllllll the inside info and drama ::)
Middle eastern guys tend to get ignored because they generally smell bad, are handsy, and often cheap.
I tend to ignore black guys simply because they 9/10 times they don't want a thin white girl. Waste of my energy.
Not racism, just knowing my market.
Funny, I use to be that type of black guy and looking back I was so ignorant. Black and Hispanic guys are kind of raised in a culture that glorifies big booty pear shaped women to such a degree that we just completely overlook/write off thin and petite girls.
As I started traveling around and having more experience I got with thin white girls just for kicks thinking I really wouldn't have as much of a good time only to be proven so wrong and have my mind blown and full out catching feelings which doesn't happen to me...lol
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Same reason a dog licks its asshole: Because we can, sometimes it's necessary, and sometimes it feels damn good.
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Luckyguy09
Those foreigners are right. Dancing/stripping is cool, and it has its place (nothing like a beautiful female body in motion), but for strip clubs to be the main and only source of sexual entertainment that is legal in America is a scam.
The American strip club culture is environment where men kept in sexual arousual for as long as possible without getting them off or providing any real sexual relief. It's unhealthy.
Overseas in countries where sex work is legal or tolerated stripclubs are minimal or they are merged inside brothels so you can watch women dance and at any time pay a fee to take the woman of your dreams back to a designated area inside the building or back to your hotel altogether for full on sex.
American guys don't know what they're missing. Germany probably has the best set up with the most beautiful women.
https://youtu.be/RNahisHBDE4
Then stay the fuck out of our American strip clubs, if you or anyone else finds it "unhealthy". GTFO here with that shit.
If a man has the urge to fuck after visiting a strip club, he can go to his SO/fuck buddy, go online, pay an escort, or go to a regular bar....
There are options out there.