no...she is right...abs are easy...
..............when you are 22.
30.....takes some work, and good diet.
40....takes ALOT of work....and good diet.
50, you realize how little it matters
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Every gal you ask this question will give a different answer. There is no standard answer as to aesthetic preferences. In my experience, younger and less mature people place more emphasis on their aesthetic preferences when approaching others (whether dancer/customer interactions or just general social interactions). As people grow more mature, they place more emphasis on just whether someone appears to care for and respect themselves with good manners, hygiene, and social graces. Most dancers I've gotten to know value these things over pure looks, in addition to valuing customers who don't waste their time, who are ready to party and who are willing to pay for it.
No even semi-professional or serious stripper gives two shits about a customers looks. In fact I'll approach the homlier ones way before the "hot".its about money not attraction or finding love so I'm not sure how that fits into this conversation...
Unfortunately I don't think older people are any less shallow either.
To be fair the topic is bout fat men being attractive...
But now that you mention it. Assume you have two customers, you can only hustle one, both are equal spenders. Do you go for the homelier over the one you are attracted to? isn't your game better with people you don't have to fake too much?
Do I get 5 minutes to talk to them first?? If they are spending an equal amount I would prefer to make my choice off personality, not looks. I don't care how hot someone is if they spend an hour trying to push my boundaries. However if we are just going off appearance I'm more likely to choose the ugly one unless he's so obese that he's hard to dance for.
It is a difficult question to ask, since not all women are visual like men.
The reason men are so visual is because we can make a split second decision if we are interested or not (seriously it is shocking how quickly we can do this), if we have to approach first (aka real life) we want to go for what will make us happier, ALSO the inverse (fighting our desires and going for someone you are not attracted to) negates the law of attraction and literally makes things awkward.
I am wandering if it is the same with dancers, clearly you want spending which is theoretically invisible, but assuming all things being equal (spending, hygiene, personality, regular potential, etc) would going for what turns you on make you into a better performer? Just a thought experiment.
^ not really, for me haha, I have no desire for any customer so their looks mean zilch. Polite, smell ok, hands to yourself, spending?? That's literally all that matters to me. Customers don't turn me on. I have a man, I'm all set, and even if I didn't my mind is 100% on my money and I just look at them as customers at this point, that's it.
You sound like you like to imagine that strippers get off at work regularly. Work is work, we are actors, we play a part. Being titillated is in no way necessary for us to make money. My sexuality has nothing to do whatsoever with any of the adult jobs that I have done and all of the strippers and camgirls that I have known personally(and I have known many) would say the exact same thing.
Well if I know that they both spend the same, that means that I have dealt with them before and know what they are like, so in this instance I will pick whichever one is easiest to deal with. Not which is hotter.
I have a buddy who loves chubby guys. She dumped her last lover for "only" weighing in at 300 llbs. (Rumor has it)
lmao..well, I will say theres a difference between being chubby and grossly overweight.
After dealing with both of my ex's..Id take chubby any day. The first ate only the purest of foods..my daughter and I have a running joke about kale chips because of him. He started to get that lanky weird body vibe. Found out he was sleepign with some sort of health nut and thats why...he looked way better when he was eating burgers than when he started the whole vegan lifestyle thing. I think he eventually stopped cause he doesnt look all gaunt anymore.
My last ex spent all his time in the gym and playing sports. I have to say..he looked mighty fine for a guy over 50...excellent shape. Unfortunately, after working out, playing basketball, and playing tennis, come night time he just wanted to pass out. Hed proudly tell me that he works out and takes care of his body for me and Id be like...how do you figure? Youre always tired so I never see you naked. HA HA youre so funny babe! Ill make up for it after I get back from my tennis match. /:O>:(
Yeah, Id rather a guy with a bit of a pudge, who we can eat real food together and work it off in the bedroom. None of that perfect body stuff..I dont want it lol