I'm thinking about getting into escorting. I've been checking some of the posts on Backpage and I notice there are a lot girls writing "No Black Men". Why is that?
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I'm thinking about getting into escorting. I've been checking some of the posts on Backpage and I notice there are a lot girls writing "No Black Men". Why is that?
I've been told by escorts:
1) They constantly haggle and "hey baby.."
2) They ask if they can get a free one once hard
3) They prefer to pound relentlessly for kicks rather get a good climax
Oh no! Here we go again!
Theres plenty of threads on this exact topic.
I'd say focus on your own advertising and preferences than trying to understand something thats going to boggle your mind.
+1. You'll find very recent discussions on this exact topic all over the board right now. Here are a couple of them:
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...-by-their-race
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...g-down-clients
Ah yes here we go again! Sometimes it's because girls have bad experience with a certain type of client. Me personally I see all races in fact I even make a point that I'm a snow bunny just because where I live there is a large amount of black men with money and are established.
I thin you'd also be surprised that many escorts do have boyfriends and there boyfriends are okay with them escorting so long as they don't hook up with black men.
:banghead::help2::gnasher:
*Sigh*
OP, why not contact one of the ads & ask?::)
Here we go thru the same thing! :) Anyways, it could be many factors that determine why providers do not want to see black men. It could anything from racial stereotypes to having a bad experience with black men period. However, there are tons of providers who will see black men and love them. So, Julie, you can determine what type of clientele you want to have.
I've been escorting for awhile and I honestly can't remember ever having any serious problems with black clients and I've had a lot of them. I seem to get a lot from when I advertise cause black men seem to love a short thick white chick lol. The ones I've had issues with are young white guys.
I've been curious about learning more about escorting myself so I've looked up some ads too and noticed the same. Personally I've never dated or been with a black guy but if I was going to get into escorting I don't think I would even think about denying a certain race. Its 2017 for crying out loud. I guess people have business decisions as to why they limit certain types of people. The way I look at it is business is business.
Yep this topic is like like beating a dead.... well dead something lol.There's alot of reasons it can be anything, & it all comes down to personal preference.I remember when I used to work with this very beautiful white girl & she would always say: Man I couldn't imagine being an escort & having sex with black guys, they're so fucking huge lol.
She always thought about escorting but she said she didn't think she'd see many black men not out of being racist, but more so size.She cracked me up :)
Pokey!
How're the snakes?
I always thought it was pretty stooooopid of anyone to openly reject someone in an ad based on ethnicity. Just do a proper screening and then work from there if it really matters to you. The reason why I say it's stupid is because by discriminating you are now opening yourself up to all sorts of ridicule sometimes violence. Lots of sickos out there of ALL RACES, just looking for a reason to mess a ho up. Anyways placing ads on Backpage and putting a Bullseye on your back is pretty much synonymous.
It could be any number of reasons but one of those reasons could definitely be that the sex worker is racist.
Let's stop pretending like racism doesn't exist, people!!
On the subject of size, black men seem to be bigger on average but I have only seen a handful of novelty cocks and they were all on white guys.
If a woman chooses to screen out a large category of men that she'd rather not have sex with for whatever reason, that is her prerogative.
If the escort customers act like the guys in rap videos, no doubt a lot of women find it annoying to say the least, especially if they are trying to conduct a business transaction. (That would include the white & latin rappers.)
Of course, not all black guys prefer rap--had a great customer in my last club in Daytona 10 years ago that liked Metallica, and I had a black customer ask for Seal 5-6 years ago. And plenty of white guys ask for rap, though they are almost invariably young.
I'm not sure where some of you get this stuff from but no one is targeting "hoes" because of their no blacks allowed policies. I know a lady that chooses not to see black men because she lives in a small town and is well known in her "community". For a long time I refused to see Indian men because the ones I encountered smelled like onions and curry. They were safe, paid me with no issues, tipped well but they smelled so damn bad - and class had nothing to do with it. These men were very well off financially. Everyone has their own reasons for why they run their business the way they do. The last thing a "ho" needs is another chick trying to tell her what she should do with her body. An escort can make pretty damn good money without having to see black or indian men so it's no wonder a lot of women have those policies.
And Rock music isn't misogynistic? Rock bands are known for having hella groupies and objectifying women in their videos just the same.
And if men aren't being negatively influenced by misogynistic music they'll see or hear it in porn, movies, hell media in general.
Rap is entertainment. Only numskulls act out what they hear. There are warning labels on those cd for a reason. While SOME rap music is misogynistic not all is and I'm positive one could play tons of good rap music without hearing lyrics that disrespect women.
The reason misogynistic rap get air time is because it's provocative, it's free speech that most people can't get away with repeating in various scenarios, and the beats are catchy. The club here certain djs will allow rap (white dancers who dance to rap get first dibs). I rarely dance to rap but when i did I refused to dance rap that conveyed a message of disrespect to women and rap that had use of n* word.
I could see where women would not want to associate with men who listen to misogynistic rap thinking they have been negatively influenced by the lyrics. But not all rap is this way. Not all black people listen to rap or misogynistic rap. If they do they probably have common sense not to act out negatively.
I think a woman/escort can sleep with/date whomever she wants however openly advertising your racial prejudices is a bit uncouth to me. If a person is prejudice/racist keep that under the table or save for an alt right meeting. I think that's what phat girl dynamite was meaning or how i interpret what she was saying. Not that a serial killer is targeting racist backpage escorts (although anything is possible) but that Openly advertising you are racist in the wrong place can get you in a world of hurt because some people see a racists as a threat. Back in the day racists were also known to be unstable, violent, and more likely to commit hate crimes.
Like phat mentioned i would think screening would filter out the people they don't want so why put that on Backpage ad unless the Backpage ad is their only screening? To me reading those ads are just same as reading those segregation signs in 50's. I think escorts whose personal racial prejudices are reflected in their ads might get a rush out of advertising in a way that is provocative and a way in which the average business cannot advertise.
Oh hell yes rock is sexist. One of my favorite intros, from the 'commie rock' band Consolidated. Don't bother with the song, just listen to the intro, it's classic:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hHlebVi1IgU
But sexist as rock is, they don't refer to women as 'bitches' nearly so often, except Kid Rock, who's a rapper as well. I play a shitload of rap, but the trap mixes are way better partly because there's so much less problem with lyrics.
But your post is great. I don't agree with all of it, but so what? It's never necessary everyone agree about everything.
Thinking of editing a lot of the comments, including all of my own. I meant every word but keeping the peace is more important.
I grew up in Miami and they most certainly do target women for those reasons. Sometimes less. I know the game and I say HO because that's the term that guys who dont give af will use. Not that I have zero respect for escorts because I used to be an escort. Even when I wasn't working I've been in the room when guys went through backpage and way back craigslist to find "Hoes" that they could mess with. And the NO BLACKS policy always stuck out. To my knowledge none of them did any harm to those ladies. We were just partying so I dont know? But why put yourself on the radar? My point was that anyone doing this type of job should be careful when placing ads. Date whoever you want but be smart about it