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I know I'm not really a customer (tho I have been)..
I think if you're young, you can get away w/just about anything!
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Also not a customer but ime pink is a "safe" color whether you do just your tips or your whole hair dyed pink, as it is super girly.
Be aware that it may read red in some club lighting tho.
Nipple piercings are usually fine but healing them in a club environment can be a nightmare. Unless you're working somewhere where custies will be respectful and keep away from them it might not be worth the headache.
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I have my nipple done already and trust me it's been hell in the club lol but I'm worry it may affect me in long run
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You want the truth? I'll try to answer
Pierced nipples in and of themselves are kind of distracting BUT .... And this is the part no pink will want to hear ... With most guys, anything that says "promiscuous" like tongue piercing, etc. will probably have a positive effect. Truth is, men don't think of piercings as "art" or "individualism"; they say, oh, she's easier to bang.
Pink hair is somewhat similar. I haven't met any man or seen one ITC who tips more because of pink or any other color hair except blonde or red (again, I don't make these truths, just reporting them). However, pink hair does kind of give a signal that the person is unconcerned with what society thinks and edgy and wants attention and therefore .... might be easier to bang.
And there you have it.
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Pink is fine. If it's bright pink, maybe go for an ombre or highlights in a head of natural coloured hair. Or if you want to go pink all over make it a really light cotton candy pink that will look like a shade of blonde in the club lights. This also works with a really light purple, which can look like you've just left your toner in blonde hair too long. As far as nipple piercings go, guys think they're fine but if you have hair longer than your boobs it will catch and pull. I ripped a nipple piercing half out by catching it on a bracelet. If you're not sure, walk around your house topless and see if it catches.
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You want the truth? I'll try to answer
Pierced nipples in and of themselves are kind of distracting BUT .... And this is the part no pink will want to hear ... With most guys, anything that says "promiscuous" like tongue piercing, etc. will probably have a positive effect. Truth is, men don't think of piercings as "art" or "individualism"; they say, oh, she's easier to bang.
Pink hair is somewhat similar. I haven't met any man or seen one ITC who tips more because of pink or any other color hair except blonde or red (again, I don't make these truths, just reporting them). However, pink hair does kind of give a signal that the person is unconcerned with what society thinks and edgy and wants attention and therefore .... might be easier to bang.
And there you have it.
Now I wounder if the "easy to bang" be good for me? Lol
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^^I'm sure it could work for you if you're comfortable with it. I would recommend reading in the hustle hut section on how to make that work effectively.
Keep in mind I'm only answering because this is in customer conversation, there are some current dancers who are expert earners on here (SuperJa above is one) who might be able to help you more for how to work a certain look into your methodology.
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Now I wounder if the "easy to bang" be good for me? Lol
I think this would be a good thing in the club hahaha. As far as "edgier" looks in the club are concerned, one thing I've noticed is that the "trendier" edgy looks do better than anything too extreme in the clubs. For example, classic pinup, pink tips and nipple rings as you mentioned, tongue rings, betty page bangs, and garters would work better than extreme looks like piercings all over the face, shaved heads, and black lipstick.
So basically, I think what you're talking about doing would be just fine. It's edgy but still cute and girly and yes, just enough to get guys excited and give them the "wild girl" vibe without scaring them off. You should give it a try and if worse comes to worse nipple rings are removable and hair can be dyed back.
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I am not a customer but I would say that you are safe with pink. Pink hair is both feminine and edgy. It is a signal that you are a carefree and fun chick. You want to go for a little edge and not too extreme for the clubs. For example, you want to go more Gwen Stefani in the early 2000s. Her hair was bubblegum pink and super fun. Or you might want to go for that soft rose blush Katy Perry look. Her hair was soft pink and bodywaved. However, you do not want to go too edgy in the club like super scene chick, super emo chick, and etc :)
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Hey guys, I was thinking I love what I do for my looks but never think about what the men think..
Does random hair color cool to you or just natural? I got pink in the buttom of my hair
What yall think of nipple piercing?
I'm wounding too cuz idk if it affects me in long run
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So the edgy, trashy-hot "easy to bang" look is more desireable in the club than the more natural innocent "not easy to bang"?? In general?i mean hell I just assumed custies assumed that about all strippers lol
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I did my tips Pink but my hair was platinum blonde. Didn't see any change in my earnings at all. Can't comment about the piercings.
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So the edgy, trashy-hot "easy to bang" look is more desireable in the club than the more natural innocent "not easy to bang"?? In general?i mean hell I just assumed custies assumed that about all strippers lol
LOL I was just suggesting one option for her. She already has piercings and pink hair. I was saying she could make those work for her because that is what men see.
What works in the club IMHO is the technique that each person is most comfortable with. So "innocent not easy to bang" might work for you. From what I've learned on here, it is a physically demanding job where fending off advances and groping while appearing accessible is important. That must be mentally exhausting, so the method that is the most natural to you lets you work longer and more effectively.
I'm a customer, and a dude, so please take my suggestions and opinions with a grain of salt :-)
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gummygirl
Hey guys, I was thinking I love what I do for my looks but never think about what the men think..
Does random hair color cool to you or just natural? I got pink in the buttom of my hair
What yall think of nipple piercing?
I'm wounding too cuz idk if it affects me in long run
Colourful hair colour only works when you either commit to it and make all your hair a solid say vibrant pink, or artfully done as highlights by a professionally. If it looks like it was just poorly done its not hot.
And yes pierced nipples can be very hot, to my mind they symbolize sex submissiveness, and a touch of maschoism.
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One thing about pink hair is some men associate it with feminism, its kind of a stereotype just like neckbeards are for MRAs, so MRAs and Antifeminists especially might be worried about how you will behave. Just tell them your not a feminist (even if you are) if they look at you like you could do something crazy to them at any minute.
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One thing about pink hair is some men associate it with feminism, its kind of a stereotype just like neckbeards are for MRAs, so MRAs and Antifeminists especially might be worried about how you will behave. Just tell them your not a feminist (even if you are) if they look at you like you could do something crazy to them at any minute.
? I googled and got Magnetic Resonance Angiogram. Probably that isn't what you meant, please help my curiosity.
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? I googled and got Magnetic Resonance Angiogram. Probably that isn't what you meant, please help my curiosity.
Men's Rights Activists.
Those asshats in fedoras who harass women, bitch about feminism nonstop, claim to be nice guys, and never do anything to actually help out other men.
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So, you have to keep bring up your men rights bullshit into every thread, huh? Frankly, this discussion was addressing if pink hair and piercings would affect her in the long run. However, you always manage to keep discussing your low-class men rights shit and force down people's throats. How come you do not stay on King of Kings and talk about your "logic" there? Also, there is not real difference between you,hardcore super feminists, and those "Men Rights Activists" You inject your agenda into every conversation and someone needs to tell you about it.
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Omegaphallic
One thing about pink hair is some men associate it with feminism, its kind of a stereotype just like neckbeards are for MRAs, so MRAs and Antifeminists especially might be worried about how you will behave. Just tell them your not a feminist (even if you are) if they look at you like you could do something crazy to them at any minute.
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Girl, you also forgot how the love "black knighting" women on the street and asking Trump to make rape a legal right for all men. :)
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Men's Rights Activists.
Those asshats in fedoras who harass women, bitch about feminism nonstop, claim to be nice guys, and never do anything to actually help out other men.
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Being in good shape and having a pretty face will make u money. The other stuff is not as relevant just do what you like because there's too many different personality types that go into those places to please everyone
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Lol so pink hair reads as *gasp* feminist (say it isn't so) or just all weird-colored hair?? Like, opposed to green hair? This thread is so entertaining! I'm light blond but I wanted to do a lavender streak..but will that read as lesbian? Haha. Maybe I'll stick to pink, got 0 interest dancing for someone who thinks I shouldn't be treated equally cause of my vagina.
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You guys are awesome :) thank you yall. I didn't know if I might scare off the older men
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gummygirl
You guys are awesome :) thank you yall. I didn't know if I might scare off the older men
I'm an older guy, and I wouldn't be disturbed by pink hair, it can be kind of fun.
Piercings might make me a bit uncomfortable if they look potentially painful if accidently tugged. I like a woman to be completely comfortable, and some piercings just make me think 'how can that be good?
Over the years my ex wife became a domme, and kind of into doing piercing, uncluding some light piercing of subjects during sex/bdsm play. I never got involved in this and eventually we parted.
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As a general rule the idea is to be fairly mainstream and not have too many 'points of difference' before you start turning off too many people. For example, you can have lots of tattos, or be chubby but not both (some guys only like thin girls, some guys don't like tatts). I'm chubby (1pt) so I have to be fairly mainstream otherwise love having weird hair colour and cuts (1pt) but wore wigs when I had 'alternative hair'. When I got sick of being hot and sweaty in wigs I went to a more natural colour. I feel like being very tall never worked in my favour (1pt), so I wore smaller heels. I know a guy that once payed a stripper to take out her septum piercing, most older guys hate those (1pt). The less points of difference you have, the more you will appeal to a broader customer base. If you really can't handle giving up your 'niche' look then camming is the way to go
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It depends on the club too! Urban clubs, I wouldn't stand a chance!