Things to say when approaching custys?
Other than, "How is your night going?" and not thinking of anything past that. How can I get a custy to be more inclined to buy dances from me by my first impression?
I'm new here (and to dancing), so forgive me if this isn't in the right place or something.
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I like to ask "What brings you out today?" because it can provide a lot of information on how to tailor my hustle:
•"I just got here" or "I'm just here for a drink" or "I'm here to see someone" + no positive visual cues = make my exit (if there are positive visual cues like a smile, I'll introduce myself and tell him I'll let him settle in and try and stop by later)
•"Celebrating" = bubbly party girl
•"Relaxing" = sensual with lots of relaxing physical contact on the floor (ie. gently rubbing his arm/neck/shoulders)
•"Killing time" = upbeat and fast hustle
•"I'm visiting from out of town" = talk travel + focus on selling a block of time and ask for tips (not a thing with the normal crowd around here)
•"I came to see you" = cha-ching, call them "babe" or whatever generic term of endearment and act like I remember him too
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Are you asking for actual approaching lines? Or small talk lines?
Approaching:
- (Ye olde standard...) "Hi honey, what's up/how's it going? I'm good, thanks... do you need some company?"
- (If they've rejected 3 other girls in a row) "Well now, you've got a hard life, turning down all the pretty girls" Sometimes I'll tack on some batted eyelashes & "Are you gonna shoot me down too?"
- (If you're feeling cutesy and bubbly) "Sir, you're breaking the rules... You don't have a girl in your lap!"
Small Talk:
- Ask open-ended questions, not 'yes or no'. Listen. Find something to grab onto & continue the convo with. "Killing time before a dinner? Oh cool, what restaurant?"
My favorite suggestion someone posted on here was that everybody does SOMETHING that COULD be interesting. "Did you do anything exciting this weekend? No? You must have done something... You made tacos? Well shit, I can't cook at all! Can you cook anything else?" Seriously. Just grab something and run with it. Often they find it refreshing it's not the same old bullshit small talk about weather, even if the topic is random as fuck.
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I'll ask where they're from, if they've been to the club before, how they like it so far, tell them where I'm from and how I'm new here and loving it.. not letting the convo drift too far away from the club.
Or if I wanna get straight to the point I'll ask if they've done any dances yet. If they say no I say 'well then lets go!' or if they say yes I say 'but they weren't from me so they don't count!' customers usually like that one and will go.
Smiling a lot and looking happy makes you look like you're having a good time and makes it easier to sell. Act like you're having the best shift ever even if you only have $20 in your wallet lol.
If a guy is by himself sometimes I'll say he looks bored and we should go have some fun.
Turn the convo to an asset of yours. I'll do this with my boobs. Like if i'm wearing fishnet and my nipples keep showing ill say 'omg my nipples keep popping out!' *giggle* or mention how I just got them pierced. Talking about your body somehow keeps the convo sexy.
Just don't let the convo get too serious or talk about yourself too much. And try not to ask what he does for a living unless he wants to talk about it cause customers generally are in the club to escape work. For me just a few questions about where he's from, if he's been there before, how he's liking it so far is enough before I start switching the topic over to dances or VIPs.
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^^ "but They weren't from me, so they don't count..." Love that! I'm gonna have to steal that one...