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Escorts: How to pass the time with repeat customers and long appointments?
I do some off and on escorting once or twice a year to help with bills, but every time I really get the ball rolling and start having repeat customers, I start to feel that the general companionship and play isn't enough, I feel that they'll get tired of me and that I should do something more to give them a reason to come back. I learned to give massages from youtube and books, but now I'm wondering what more I could do for 4+ hour dates! Is it super childish and unsexy to whip out a board game (lol?); I've been turning down requests for longer dates simply because I haven't thought of enough ways to keep a man entertained for that long if we don't naturally click in the beginning! I was thinking of maybe preparing a quick meal for him initially...I don't know, anything! An escorting book I read suggested giving a lingerie fashion show...wouldn't that bore him after the 3rd outfit? (I know I would be bored!) I'd love to do longer dates, just don't know how to fill the time! Thanks so much!
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It sounds like you have a lot of great ideas! I do body rubs, and make the massage last for 30 minutes. Start with their feet, then work your way slowly all your way up to their neck. Then do some body sliding for a while after. Take your time and be creative w how you use your body! I also sometimes, use a feather tickler before the actual massage. You could also use a piece of faux silk or chiffon fabric the same way. Mind you, this sort of thing works on less hairy parts of the body. Men who are super hairy probably won't have the same appreciation for this sensation...
I think it's a great idea to have a meal set up for him! Nothing fancy, finger foods like cheese and crackers.
Also think board games could work. You could pick up some adult board games at your local sex shop, or even keep it simple w strip poker.
I'm not sure about the fashion show. You could do a striptease and Lap dance, my long session clients love that.
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Wow, thank you! Those are a lot of really good ideas! I never thought of doing a lap dance or body rubs, and adult games would be fun :)
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I have this problem sometimes. That's why ya gotta love the clients that want a quicky lol. My biggest worry is a client who you can feel comfortable with, that has money, but you're doing the same thing each time. Gotta find ways to mix it up.
I try and be very open minded. I try and be smart about opening up to more also. Early in meetings I try and keep a log of what this client might be interested in during future meetings. Maybe I get the sense they'd like to use toys on me. I keep that in my log & bring it up later on. Boom that's another meeting to mix it up with.
Do research on them. Search for them on facebook and try and find out about them. So if you bring something up it could peak their interest even if you're not really sure about.
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I actually think the lingerie fashion shows are a great idea! You could do it before you have sex, model a number of lingerie sets and have them pick which one they want you to wear for the rest of the session. You could even incorporate lap dancing into this, like give them a little tease in each outfit, so that it would take longer.
Accompanied showers could take up some time too, plus you get to soap them up so that they are super clean.
Get them to sit/lie down somewhere while they watch you play with yourself, with a toy or just your hands.
You could watch porn together, even if it's just on your phone or something, if they're into it.
Sex shops also usually have like, sexy games you can play! Most of them are dice or card games that revolve around doing random sexual favours on each other. One time my client made me play a game at the beginning of the session where we would say something that we liked sexually, and the other person would have to guess if that was the truth or a lie. If I got it right, he fed me a chocolate dipped strawberry, and vice versa. I kind of hated it because I try to avoid eating processed sugar ahaha but it definitely took up some time!
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That's an awesome idea for the fashion show!!
This post is gold IMO. Sticky?
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https://youtu.be/YQRDbwWTMHcHow about giving him a bath?
I have a gf that does Tantric massages, and a bath is always part of the session.(She charges $300), and gets it (No Sex).
I just watched a stand up routine of Bill Bellamy 's, where he talked about baths, and how a woman can have him wrapped around his finger, when she gives him one.
Just a thought.
Oh, and add a little vino to the mix. Yummy relaxing
I do outcalls, so I'm def going to work this into my routine.:)
Check out this video with Holly Madison.
You're welcome.:D
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Watch porn with him, do massages plus aromatherapy.
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Originally Posted by
LeggingsQueen
I have this problem sometimes. That's why ya gotta love the clients that want a quicky lol. My biggest worry is a client who you can feel comfortable with, that has money, but you're doing the same thing each time. Gotta find ways to mix it up.
I try and be very open minded. I try and be smart about opening up to more also. Early in meetings I try and keep a log of what this client might be interested in during future meetings. Maybe I get the sense they'd like to use toys on me. I keep that in my log & bring it up later on. Boom that's another meeting to mix it up with.
Do research on them. Search for them on facebook and try and find out about them. So if you bring something up it could peak their interest even if you're not really sure about.
Oh, that's a good idea! The clients usually say so much during an appointment and I never thought to write it down for future use! Thank you! ��
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Originally Posted by
Glamourmilf
https://youtu.be/YQRDbwWTMHcHow about giving him a bath?
I have a gf that does Tantric massages, and a bath is always part of the session.(She charges $300), and gets it (No Sex).
I just watched a stand up routine of Bill Bellamy 's, where he talked about baths, and how a woman can have him wrapped around his finger, when she gives him one.
Just a thought.
Oh, and add a little vino to the mix. Yummy relaxing
I do outcalls, so I'm def going to work this into my routine.:)
Check out this video with Holly Madison.
You're welcome.:D
Interesting idea with the baths, I'm sure bathtub fun would really make the time fly! ��
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Originally Posted by
tiffany_twisted
I actually think the lingerie fashion shows are a great idea! You could do it before you have sex, model a number of lingerie sets and have them pick which one they want you to wear for the rest of the session. You could even incorporate lap dancing into this, like give them a little tease in each outfit, so that it would take longer.
Accompanied showers could take up some time too, plus you get to soap them up so that they are super clean.
Get them to sit/lie down somewhere while they watch you play with yourself, with a toy or just your hands.
You could watch porn together, even if it's just on your phone or something, if they're into it.
Sex shops also usually have like, sexy games you can play! Most of them are dice or card games that revolve around doing random sexual favours on each other. One time my client made me play a game at the beginning of the session where we would say something that we liked sexually, and the other person would have to guess if that was the truth or a lie. If I got it right, he fed me a chocolate dipped strawberry, and vice versa. I kind of hated it because I try to avoid eating processed sugar ahaha but it definitely took up some time!
I never thought to incorporate lap dancing with the fashion show, the game feeding each other with strawberries sounds good too!�� Thanks everyone for all of the great responses!
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I recommend reading the Satanic Witch by Anton LaVey....
Its a book about seduction, using witchcraft to enchant, and manipulate men to a witchs' bidding.
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You advised that I consider war tactics that have been used historically, and now satanic witchcraft?
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Shannon.
You advised that I consider war tactics that have been used historically, and now satanic witchcraft?
Yes. It's a really good book in my opinion.
Don't knock it down without giving it a chance lol
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Shannon.
You advised that I consider war tactics that have been used historically, and now satanic witchcraft?
LOL she appears to have a wide ranging library
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Anton Levey died begging for God's mercy..so yea good luck w/that
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Lol maybe not a seductress' best role model..
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whirlerz
Anton Levey died begging for God's mercy..so yea good luck w/that
I looked that up, couldn't find any proof. It does say he was buried with a satanic ceremony. Crazy bastard. ,
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Talk their head off. That's what I do but I'm a natural conversationalist. It requires being able to tap into what a person likes to discuss and then getting them excited to ramble on. BUT most of these fuckers want to just fuck the whole time so there's that.
How many of you have a required lunch or dinner date included with your multi hour sessions? I notice some girls say for example, a 4 hour appointment requires a "lunch / dinner date" first....
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DamnJolene
Ha! I just found it on Ebay for $6.66 Someone has a sense of humor :-D
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4+ hour dates almost always include dining out which obviously takes up a good amount of time. You both have a drink and flirt with eachother, get to know each other over dinner, go back to the hotel room, have sex, talk more, have sex again, shower, dress and leave.
Plenty of escorts have a rule that dining is a must if the booking is 4 or more hours long. I don't have that rule since I'm fairly new and I have seen 2 clients outcall for 5 hour appointments that didn't include dining. Thankfully, they still provided me with food and drink for the duration. One time was a lovely combination of conversation and sex, the other time also included massages and shower time together.
Conversation is so important as it's how you establish rapport and create a connecton. Seduction begins with the mind. Ultimately clients will come back not just because you are great in bed, but because they have fun with you and they feel truly connected to you.
I used to be nervous about longer dates and what to do with my time but now I just follow the lead of the client and/or allow the time to unfold naturally.
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Originally Posted by
Ad_Astra
4+ hour dates almost always include dining out which obviously takes up a good amount of time. You both have a drink and flirt with eachother, get to know each other over dinner, go back to the hotel room, have sex, talk more, have sex again, shower, dress and leave.
Plenty of escorts have a rule that dining is a must if the booking is 4 or more hours long. I don't have that rule since I'm fairly new and I have seen 2 clients outcall for 5 hour appointments that didn't include dining. Thankfully, they still provided me with food and drink for the duration. One time was a lovely combination of conversation and sex, the other time also included massages and shower time together.
Conversation is so important as it's how you establish rapport and create a connecton. Seduction begins with the mind. Ultimately clients will come back not just because you are great in bed, but because they have fun with you and they feel truly connected to you.
I used to be nervous about longer dates and what to do with my time but now I just follow the lead of the client and/or allow the time to unfold naturally.
Of course, I don't even a agree to multiple hour appointment unless the client and I are really comfortable with each other.
Ad_Astra, that's pretty much how a 4+ appointment goes for me. Dining out, drinking, flirting, have sex, cuddle, a little more conversation, drink, snack, watch TV, massage, more sex, tub bath or long warm shower together, have shower sex, dry each other off, formal goodbyes. Leave them all smiles, a repeat customer is guaranteed.
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I only do long appointments (I have a minimum timeframe of 90 mins but prefer 2+ hour appointments) and have several regulars. Here are some tips I use to pass the time:
1. Get a bottle of wine. Not only does it help you loosen up, it takes time off the clock too!
2. Be a good conversationalist. I love to talk, so this one was a no-brainer for me.
3. Allow multiple pops. ;)
4. Give him a massage! Or have him give you one.
5. If it's a long date, definitely go out to dinner if the guy is willing to. My regulars who are single or are visiting from out of town always spoil me with nice dinners.
There's many other ways, too. These are just what came to mind because I do them regularly lol.
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Exxotica
Talk their head off. That's what I do but I'm a natural conversationalist. It requires being able to tap into what a person likes to discuss and then getting them excited to ramble on. BUT most of these fuckers want to just fuck the whole time so there's that.
How many of you have a required lunch or dinner date included with your multi hour sessions? I notice some girls say for example, a 4 hour appointment requires a "lunch / dinner date" first....
Yesssss I always require dinner for 4+ hr dates. That is a great way to pass the time.