...When they tell you they CAME
Ew Ew Ew Ewwwwww. Last night this kid was proudly like "Wow! I came so fast- Thanks!" and I was kind of shocked- I was grinding, but it had been half a song, I wasn't grinding the whole time, and I don't allow the guy to touch my tits/ass etc. I didn't know what to say and honestly I was upset- I feel like when I decided to be a stripper I want to entertain- not risk getting CUM on me. Is this just a part of the job we have to accept? Zero grinding? I wanted to make him pay extra- what do you say if that happens? Can you make them pay extra??
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Smile and run to the wipes in the dressing room lol....
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Fuckn gross, charge him extra lol
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You're definitely right that you shouldn't be subjected to anyone's bodily fluids, so even if you're not grinding for a long time, maybe try and lighten the grinding you are doing so it's not as hard. You can certainly demand more money from someone the next time you're in this situation (whether they pony up or not is another story, but if you act as horrified as you feel, that could make them feel bad enough to), but hopefully it just won't ever come up again.
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Chances are he hasn't been laid in forever and was really already horney going into the club. Just be careful on what guys wear before giving them dances. Majority of guys aren't going to cum because they need more than a lap dance to get them off. No matter how good of grinding you do.
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I usually say "the price for the dance us X plus a XYZ tip for going above and beyond my responsibilities". I try to make it clear that they shouldn't expect this and that they need to compensate me.
But ya... Gross.
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Ditto
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SnuffleUffleGrass
Smile and run to the wipes in the dressing room lol....
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There was just a thread about this, the OP was so funny but I can not find it. No, it is not something to be expected or that you should feel like you must tolerate. You did say he as young- maybe he is sexually inexperienced as well. In 7 years dancing it probably opened happened to me a handful of times and I worked in 2 of the most high contact areas of the country.
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I've seen this mentioned in Customer section, or the Stripclub Junkie part of sw
Yea, gross
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Layla.00
I usually say "the price for the dance us X plus a XYZ tip for going above and beyond my responsibilities". I try to make it clear that they shouldn't expect this and that they need to compensate me.
But ya... Gross.
Yes. This.
Ewwww. You poor girl. This fortunately doesn't happen often, but even one time is too many.
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At my club the standard is basically touch anything that's not covered by a thong and heavy grinding. In 2 years, I've only ever had ONE guy cum (where I felt his pants get warm, also only took half a song) and demanded he pay for 2 dances. He complied without a fight, and actually felt kinda bad/paid for 3 dances.
I worded it along the lines of "You KNOW you're not supposed to do that, I'm going to need you to pay double for the inconvenience." Then after he agreed I warned him, "you're lucky I'm nice, the wrong girl would've put a heel in your eye," which isn't far from the truth.
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I DEAL WITH THIS SO OFTEN. Jesus. it's happened a lot less lately (I swear there was a period of a month where I was a jizz-magnet), but you really can't avoid the 1 song baby-gravy guys. Everyone says "grind less" but some dudes just have a hairpin trigger. Ask for a big tip and then go douse yourself with bleach. And pray for their girlfriends. :(
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Now that we're discussing it...men tend to have a problem with coming too fast when they're young or don't get a lot of release. It changes with age, growing up + adult stress.
Honestly the nice thing about the guy "going" early is they tend to want to leave soon, it cuts VIPs short so you can get back on the floor & keep working.
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If you can get away with, don't do any heavy grinding until it's almost the end of the dance. That way they will be more likely to get another dance than if you gave everything away at the start of the dance and he knows you won't do anything else
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I've only had it happen a few times. DEMAND a really big tip and shame them. Last time it happened to me I was so disgusted I wiped myself down thoroughly and just went home.
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That's only happened to me once and I told him to give me an extra $100 or I'd call the cops lmao
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Happens ALLLLLLL the time. Lol. It's disgusting.