Advice-Money Flow & How to keep the Juice Going!!!
Happy News Years!!!!
Ever since I discovered StripperWeb my attitude has improved but Im still somewhat troubled with a few issues. First of I would like to say I enhoy all of you ladies and have the utmost respect for yoy guys because I feel as though I'm not alone.
I've been dancing for three years and a lot of my dreams have came true but I'm ready to make to the next level. Here's the issues that I'm currently dealing with:
I move to California last year. I rented out an apartment through airbnb and was illegally evicted. Now I'm hopping from hotel to hotel.
Secondly Im not sure if i call myself a top earner but i somewhat do. If im having a bad night everyone might make money. But if im having a food night i tend to dominate severly and usually no one makes money, unless i assist. I can be somewhat aggressive but it works in everyones favor.
The current club Im at I was doing really well. I was making money helping others too. Than a few girls started to complain that i was stepping on their toes. Which left me somewhat urt and discouraged. Now everybody else is like they want that girl back. They want to be my friend but dont know how to show it.
My biggest concern right now is not repeating the same financial mistakes and being able to move on & possibly maling friends with my co-workers.
I appreciate any advice thank you.
Re: Advice-Money Flow & How to keep the Juice Going!!!
First things first, did you get your money back from Airbnb? That should be a thing you contact them about, also, save EVERYTHING you make, why were you renting through airbnb and not -actually- renting? Can you sublet? Extended stay till you figure out proof of income? Again, save EVERYTHING till you can get into a stable place, it does wonders for your mental health.
Secondly, are you sure they want to be your friend? And even if they do, is it for the right reasons? I read your other thread, it seems they just want to jump on the gravy train. IMO, I would keep my head down and make my money, or even switch clubs altogether. Right now, your #1 priority is getting stable housing.
Re: Advice-Money Flow & How to keep the Juice Going!!!
im dealing with the same thing right now......i try to be cool (not friends, but not on anyones bad side) with everyone as best as i can but i heard from another girl and a few of the regular bar flies that a couple of girls dont like me (back to middle school where we have to play whisper down the lane but w/e) so as much as i hate having the looming drama and its driving my anxiety nuts having to deal with this at work im just playing the waiting game. like shaylaskates said focus on your money. im doing just about everything i normally do, except keeping to myself more. for example when the next girl is coming up on stage ill usually tell guys "oh boy we are all in for a show with her shes hot isnt she?!" but now im just saying "hey girl" and then getting off.
in the meantime i am playing the waiting game until one of these girls grow some balls and bring it up to me why im not liked. and when that happens, ill have to bite my tongue till it bleeds (unless someone gets in my face) cus i cant lose this job. and i will NOT be losing my job over these chicks.
so youre not alone in your situation! it sucks but..."first you get the power, then you get respect"
Re: Advice-Money Flow & How to keep the Juice Going!!!
Don't try to be friends w your coworkers. They are not there to make friends and you aren't either. If you wanna help the girls out, fine, but don't expect them to appreciate it or return the favor. I help girls out when I feel like it would be appropriate, after I've been at a club for a while. Until then, mind your own business and make your own money and don't compare your earnings w anyone elses. Most of the time, when girls try to "hustle" with me and I don't know them, they end up fucking everything up. I charge $80 apiece for double dances, so if some girl comes over and tell the customer it's $20, I just lost at least $60, if not the whole $80, because she was attempting to "help".