Re: Women Doing The Pursuing???
I think that it depends on the man. If it's a shy male with low-self esteem then you would have to do most of the pursuing. Those type of men seem to think that you're not really interested and are just joking around with them. You have to have a lot of patience and persistence because it's hard work to earn their trust.
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Luckyguy09
It's not so simple like that.... You can't just blame everything on men for not pursuing you. That's fine that you want to be pursued, but these days men are reluctant to speak and pursue women because they are often met with open hostility and rudeness. It's just a fact that young women today are not the same friendly, open-minded, groovy women from the 1960s, so to be fair, both genders have changed.
And seduction and pursuing only works if a woman already has some kind of initial attraction or respect for the man who is doing the pursuing otherwise it's a waste of time and he should cut his loss as soon as humanly possible.
I know this because I have pursued women who either didn't respect me due to lack of funds or didn't find me attractive from the jump and from that point no matter what move I made the relationship never progressed further then being stuck in the friend zone.
This is true in America but not in some other countries, and yes you will get rejected sometimes but that's part of the game. I feel like men in the USA are becoming pussies. Also if a woman does reject you why not keep trying a different approach? No doesn't always mean know sometimes it means try harder
Re: Women Doing The Pursuing???
I think they're becoming lazy and self absorbed due to hook up culture, pick up artist teachings, and easy access free porn giving them unreal expectations.
Idk. I kinda wish I could date back during the 60's.
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easy access free porn giving them unreal expectations.
I kinda think it cuts both ways, some girls are size queens. I might actually be insecure if I could not measure up to absolutely every potential partner (thank god for good genes). I don't think women have anything similar to this.
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Idk. I kinda wish I could date back during the 60's.
Actually I am thinking the mid 90's would have been more your style, back then the AIDS epidemic almost crippled free love of the 70's, which we are quickly starting to get back.
Re: Women Doing The Pursuing???
This is a very funny story of mutual pursuit gone wrong.
I was out at an after hours club after a really good night at work in November. There was a couple of pretty cute women hanging around the fringes of a group of us. The guy who owns one of the powerboats from the big races that week was throwing money around and buying drinks, there was a surplus of shots sitting on the table, so I asked them if they wanted a shot. I knew the guy would be cool with it, we just gave him the Royal treatment at my club. They declined at first, and I'm not the pushy type, so I said 'Well there's two shots sitting here with your name on them, if you change your mind.'
Truthfully the events of that night are a little hazy, I am always a bit spacey after an intense night at work, I had done the usual post-work couple hits of weed, had had a few drinks, so after they changed their minds and drank the shots, I don't really remember exactly what we talked about, or paying any more attention to the blonde. But the guy who brought her there told me a week later that she was asking about me, that she really liked me, and she said to say hi (she drove back up to Lauderdale, but talks with him on cellphone.) So I told him to tell her hi back.
About two weeks later and I see the guy in my club, he shows me a picture of her, mentions again how much she liked me, so I told him to tell her I said hi.
Her reaction? 'That's creepy...'
WTF?? I never pushed myself on this girl in the slightest, and she's assuming I'm after her ass in a weird way?? I don't have time for that shit...
He's telling me ''Oh she liked you a lot, next she's down she will probably be friendly.' Maybe so, but I'm not lifting a finger to make it happen.
Meanwhile, out of the blue, after I replied to this thread the other day, I had two women I've worked with on the past ask me out. One of them flat out told me she wanted to fuck me, wanted pics of the dick, etc, on and on (Facebook chat). I thought that was pretty funny--I mean sure it happens, but 2 in the next 24 hours??
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DeathAndTaxes
I kinda think it cuts both ways, some girls are size queens.
I like size queens.
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Djoser
Meanwhile, out of the blue, after I replied to this thread the other day, I had two women I've worked with on the past ask me out. One of them flat out told me she wanted to fuck me, wanted pics of the dick, etc, on and on (Facebook chat). I thought that was pretty funny--I mean sure it happens, but 2 in the next 24 hours??
It goes down in the DM's!!!
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miss.a.p1600
It goes down in the DM's!!!
Nothing's gone down yet, I've been too busy working. :D
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Djoser
I like size queens.
Yup, there is always something about them.
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whirlerz,
I just saw your post and I AGREED. He's the kind of men that I would berate in real life. "men" like him fail to understand that if you want to pursue women and win them over, you must show genuine kindness, good treatment and respect. Not asshole-tactic, fuckboy-tactic.
NO, I don't hate men, I love men that are mature, kind and know how to treat women. Men who are worthy of my time.
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whirlerz
I didn't click on his vid, cause everything about him screams ASSHOLE, sorry.