Originally Posted by
miss.a.p1600
who spends 6 figures on a stranger then does a background check AFTER the fact? That's what you supposed to do on the front end.
If this is true i feel bad for him however taking one fucked up situation and making a sweeping generalization about all strippers/women is unfair. Although if I were him I would have a hard time trusting others. At the same time he needs to be responsible for his actions, learn how to spend money wisely, or he will keep getting taken advantage of.
Anyone who blows through money haphazardly has some sort of addiction and they need therapy. A stripper is not a therapist.
I'm not a fan of the predatory hustle on either end. And I don't know that she was indeed a predator when it sounds like he was the one to initiate the offers (for money otc, for her leaving her job, etc). Yeah she lied about being married but so did he.
Plus why do men expect women to stick around when they have $0 dollars? Nothing in this world is free and if he couldn't provide like he was doing those two years (the lifestyle she was accustomed to) then wtf she supposed to do??? I would have bounced too - at least till his account unfroze. She could have got that long term $$$$$$ not just two years.