Customer appreciation thread
This is an INCREDIBLE law of attraction tool!!!!
Why is this in hustle hut??? Because our attitudes about our customers effects our hustle more than anything. If we hate our customers and have shit attitudes about them, we burn out and we attract negative customers or boring customers which leads to MORE burn out and more frustration and exhaustion. One of the most draining aspects of our job is the emotional aspect - it can be exhausting and draining constantly chatting up guys who are boring, rude or just fucking strange. But, I'm here to tell y'all that it doesn't have to be emotionally exhausting. It can be energizing and fun! And guys come to see strippers that make them feel good, whatever that may mean to them! The better our attitudes towards our customers, the more money we make, the more customers feel good, the more customers come in, the more money we make, the happier *we* are because we aren't burnt out all the time, the more money we make... you get the picture.
So... What do you love, or like about your customers and your job? I'll start.
1. All of my customers are human beings. That means that they have human issues, suffer from human problems, have human emotions and experiences. They are no different than I am in that regard. I may not agree with a customers' views, but I damn sure am not going to condemn them for their personal experience. This is part of what makes life so interesting - we are all unique and completely imperfect. Seeing that in myself, I can see how that is mirrored in my customers, and this not only helps me to understand them better, it helps me to work more efficiently because I can see what they need more clearly, what they want and how *I* can give that to them. I get the added bonus of making more money, doing better work, and the customer gets to feel special.
2. Customers are in the strip club to see STRIPPERS. Whether or not they are in to see me specifically is up to them, but that has nothing to do with how I treat them. Every customer comes in because they want to see the girls. I can appreciate that people come in to see gorgeous, naked dancing women, because I am one, and that makes my job worthwhile. I am doing these men a service just by being there, and they are *willingly* partaking in what I have to offer. They *want* to come and see me! How is that not something to appreciate?
3. Every customer comes in because they want to feel better. From that basic understanding, I can figure out what it is that will make them feel the best and give it to them. Men are very easy to understand, because they want the same things that everyone else wants - to feel better! This makes my customers very relateable to me, and allows me to treat them how I would like to be treated. Customers just want to feel special and appreciated. Even if I am not the one to do that for them, I can relate to that and even admire their ability to go out and attempt to get their needs met by providing *us* with income.
4. Customers LOVE women! While some of the attitudes and beliefs some have might be misogynistic, I can understand that they are simply a product of our culture, and our culture is unfortunately a misogynistic culture. If these men really hated women, they would not be in the strip club paying for women's time, attention and skill, they would be out in the street harassing and assaulting women with zero intention of paying for it or feeling remorse. Most guys just want to be good guys, and have no idea that some of the things they say or do can be insulting. Guys that genuinely hate women DO NOT pay to see them!
5. I love the smiles on their faces after they tip girls on stage or get a lap dance or a VIP!! I love how much fun these guys can have, just being entertained by my presence or watching me play with my boobs! That's awesome to me that customers can be so easily entertained by what I think are the silliest things sometimes! I really admire that and appreciate the value in my job even more. My favorite thing is being told "you made my day/ night/ week/ life"!!!! That makes me so happy to hear, when I make someone else happy.
Re: Customer appreciation thread
There actually are threads like this but I don't think they get enough attention as the ranty ones. I created one a while back on "green flag" phrase - good postive things you hear customers say and I'm sure there are many other ones too.
But good reminder to be grateful for the guys that know how to treat women in the adult Industry well
Re: Customer appreciation thread
I appreciate the really generous customers who are also fun and interesting. I genuinely enjoy making men feel good and getting paid for it. I'm really grateful that stripping is a source of income, and for the good customers that exist.
I deleted my other post because it sounded too cheesy, lol. But yes, the law of attraction and applying good, positive vibes can help you make more money and be happier in the process. :)
Re: Customer appreciation thread
Actually, I love this thread :) I do not get burn out from doing sex work after almost 14 years. Sex work is fun and creative to me. Personally, I enjoy customers who understand that sex work is not about romance nor true love. My customers come to have a great time and be entertained. I give them a great time and always perform to the best of my abilities. Many of my cam/phone customers are often true alphas, dark triad men, serious occultists, and others looking to talk about dark things. However, they come to me because I am willing to talk about the darkness with them. Yet I remain pretty frivolous and campy while talking about such things.