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Auditioning at my old work...feeling fat;( am I ok? Honest opinions plz!
Feeling like I may be too fat to work right now. Auditioning in Denver at the Diamond.
This is before my spray tan.
Huge butt and natural boobs but is my tummy too big??
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Re: Auditioning at my old work...feeling fat;( am I ok? Honest opinions plz!
And this is from further away.
I know that lighting and a spray tan will do wonders but I'm so nervous they won't hire me back lol :'(
I'm a size 6 or 8 now with 34DDD boobs and a big bubble butt. Medium thighs. So I can't tell if I'm over reacting about my tummy or if I should be worried.
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Re: Auditioning at my old work...feeling fat;( am I ok? Honest opinions plz!
I'm a size 8 with 32DDD/34DD natural boobs and a huge butt and I'm a top earner art my club. I don't know Denver so I can't tell you for sure, and I know I do sometimes have trouble getting hired (but always bank once I am) but I think you look good. Good luck!
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Right when I was working I was making bank. Had one of the managers tell me to lose 5 pounds about a year after working there and I'm the same size as then so I really hope I get hired again because I don't wanna work anywhere else. I haven't danced in 3 years so I'm soooo nervous feels like my first time and if they don't hire me I am gonna be embarrassed
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A few more pics cuz the ones I took kinda sucked but y'all get the idea have no idea why the butt pic is upside down lol
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I think you're pretty, but I don't know how competitive this club you're going to give an honest answer. I'll be honest, you definitely COULD get hired, but if this is a high-end club.... I don't think you're on point.
I think it's better to know, and find out.
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It's the top club in Denver and I'm the same size as when I quit so idk.
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So here is a better picture with heels on.
Other pictures were very unflattering but I wanted them kinda like that to see how bad I am at my worst.:-\
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Don't know if it's any better but ahhh I'm freaking outtttt
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I think you look great hun!
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I agree you look really good. I have never danced in Denver so I can not speak for the hiring standard but since you are trying for the top club, you could always scale back to a lower tier club if you had to. You are not fat at all, so you are crazy to say that; however you are a bit "soft" in the tummy and thighs. Def. get the spray tan and go audition- or just walk in like you still work there. They will either let you work or they won't. If they don't; go somewhere else.
Also, you have like- the BEST eyelids ever for makeup.
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I agree I'm not necessarily "fat" or chubby but I would say curvy and my tummy is flat but soft which I've always struggled with having such ginormous boobs. And of course a spray tan can mask that which I know.
I guess I could go talk to them tell them I worked there 3 years ago and see what they say but since they make us renew our contract every year I would probably have to audition anyways.
I had no trouble getting hired the first time around. My nerves haw been kicking my a$$ lately though not dancing for so long.
And thank you. I'm Russian :)
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I don't think letting them know you used to work there would work in your favor unless you were friends with them... You got to walk in there in confidence, if you come across as if you're not hirable... that's going to work against you. You need to walk in there like, "I'm the best thing that has happened since slice bread."
And I agree with Gia, she said it perfectly, I avoided saying anything because I didn't want to come across rude lol. I retype my answer like 3 times. I don't think it would be right to lie to you though and sugar coat it.
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Lol for sure I will not let them see me sweat and no worries I appreciate the honesty.
And yeah I was questioning if I should or shouldn't tell them I used to work there. Was thinking of not saying anything and just auditioning.
Well I will keep everyone updated on my audition.
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I think you should say you used to work there. It'll tell them they liked you for a reason. Whenever I've gone back to a club and they didn't remember me I told them I've worked there before. I went back to a club after a year though thinking they wouldn't remember me but they did. So who knows maybe someone will remember you? Or maybe not I guess 3 years is a long time in the strip club world lol.
And if I were you I would go audition there. If they don't hire you just go to another club to get back in the swing of things and maybe tone up your stomach a little and then go back. I'm sure you'll get hired. You have a nice body but yeah your stomach just looks soft but it also looks like it can be toned up pretty easily. Just by eating healthy and working out alot. Maybe get a waist trainer? I have one and I love using it.
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3 years is a long time anywhere lol... I can't think of any job *I had* that remain "consistent" for more than 1.5 years. Unless it's like a small town coney island... where people know everyone in the 15 mile radius, if that.
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I think I look good and we all have problems no one is perfect but of course I could definitely tone up which I'm already dieting when I start dancing again it will tone up more.
Either way I'll let everyone know what happens.
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Thought about a waist trainer probably will do that in combination with dancing, eating healthy, and excercise. But I'm auditioning tomorrow lol so wish me luck:*
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Good luck!! U look great.. I always recommend this ab YouTube video to all my gf's and they love it. It's 10 mins- and targets every single area of your stomach. Let us know how it goes <3
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DamnJolene
3 years is a long time anywhere lol... I can't think of any job *I had* that remain "consistent" for more than 1.5 years. Unless it's like a small town coney island... where people know everyone in the 15 mile radius, if that.
Really? I feel like every vanilla job I've had theres been employees that have worked there since the place opened it seemed like lol (mostly restaurants). One of my first jobs hostessing was like 6 years ago and I know they would all remember me if I went back lol
But yeah OP nobody is perfect i'm just giving you ideas on what you could do for improvements. Cause in my opinion everyone has room to improve lol including myself. Good luck!
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Yes I know no matter where I'm at there's always room for improvement it's a never ending battle I swear. I get skinny I wanna be thick. I get slim thick now I wanna be athletic thick. Ahhhhhh! Lol BBW after I get athletic thick :DxD
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That is something my body is not capable of doing being bbw although there's a part of me that wants that too:D;D
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Where is that YouTube video?
I was working out running, squats, sit ups etc for a this summer and fall injured my knee (even after 3 years break my left knee is messed up from dancing) so I had to take a break and now I'm feeling soft almost two months sitting on my a$$.
I know that I look good but my work can be picky when it comes time to thickness. It's okay to be thick but that belly better be good or *thumbs down*
Just praying they hire me and then I'm gonna tone back up while I'm working, no doubt.
Gonna hit the gym and get a personal trainer first thing!
I've been wanting to perfect my body for awhile.
Truly considering liposuction but the thing is I know I can do this without surgery.
I tend to want to take the fastest easiest rought.
Eh. Maybe. Cuz then I could remove the fat that is just below the skin and so f'n hard to get rid of unless my BMI drops significantly, which I don't want.
I think I'm gonna get liposuction around my tummy this month.
LOL my how that escalated.
Wanna get my lips done too! Hope they hire me because I will only get hotter.;D
If they say no I only have been to one other club around Denver, once (their sister club la bohiem) and I did t like it it was too small etc.
So I don't even know where I'll go.
Part of me thinks they will say yes other part Thinks they might tell me to tone up my mid section and come back.
I just don't know but am finding out tonight.
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Had to take those first pictures off they were the most unflattering pictures I've ever taken ;D
I am probably going to take one more before I audition and after my spray tan.
:)
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i think you should hired, but i auditioned at the diamond about 5 months ago and got turned down because "i had cottage cheese on butt" which im a size 2-4 with a bubble butt, small boobs and athletic body. also, weve been getting a couple of girls from diamond at PH cus they were being fired for no reason (2 i know for a fact said they were breached for no reason, pretty girls) so with both of those things in mind id go in with a game plan