What to do when you see a customer staring at you on stage but is stuck w/another gal
It was dead last night so I noticed everyone and it was a good time to get a little comfortable on stage, but don't get me wrong I'm still terrified and don't really know how to move other than show off my body.
Anyway since I'm new everyone else has regulars or people they at least know. I could totally tell this one dude in the corner liked looking at me and was even a little intimidated. As he was leaving he waved at me on stage but looked so unconfident about himself. I wanted to go over and talk to him while he was still there, but another stripper had him all cornered and would not share her prey. I just wanted her to move so I could say hello and probably make a bunch more $$$
Re: What to do when you see a customer staring at you on stage but is stuck w/another
Not much you can do.
If I don't have another immediate prospect I will sometimes sit down right near them and catch his eye & smile. Sometimes that gets them to grab their balls and tell the other girl to go away.
Re: What to do when you see a customer staring at you on stage but is stuck w/another
Nothing you can do. I would just sit with a customer who is close by and give him a few glances and smiles every now and then. I'd try extra hard to close a sale with that customer and give him another smile as you walk away to the VIP.
Though I wouldn't really fixate on it too much.
Re: What to do when you see a customer staring at you on stage but is stuck w/another
There is really nothing to do. Also, a lot of sc regulars enjoy playing this little game where they stir up drama between strippers and then feel like some kind of stud, so be wary. I mean, he could've tipped you on stage if he wanted.
Re: What to do when you see a customer staring at you on stage but is stuck w/another
^^^^^^ such a good point if he wanted your attention that much, he'd tip you on stage. So if he didn't and it was that easy for this other girl to take him away, you weren't probably gonna make that much off him anyways. She more than likely didn't even get any dances from this dude. regardless that's what you must learn when it comes to selling...you may not be what that guy wants...but you could be what this guy wants and more than likoyour getting more $$$ from him. It's all about attitude!
Re: What to do when you see a customer staring at you on stage but is stuck w/another
Smile at him from stage and wave back from afar or when you walk by just so he knows you're friendly and approachable but then move along. After that if he's really that interested he'll come find you or call you over somehow.
Re: What to do when you see a customer staring at you on stage but is stuck w/another
I've smiled and winked at customers who were with other dancers, but that's as far as I'd go. Half the time, this will encourage the guy to make up an excuse and send the other girl on her way. It's a shame for both of you when a dancer is wasting her time trying to sway a customer who's clearly not interested, but what can you do? I certainly wouldn't approach them.
Re: What to do when you see a customer staring at you on stage but is stuck w/another
If it's a customer that's there with a friend or friends that don't have girls with thrm, you could possibly try talking to them. He may not have a problem trying to chat you up if you're with somebody he already knows or is there with.
Re: What to do when you see a customer staring at you on stage but is stuck w/another
Yes, there is something you can do, take notes ladies, go up to a random guy, give him the amount of money for a dance, and say look I'm going to buy you a dance from this girl but do not say I bought, it will be our little secret, walk over to the dancer and say hey this guy over there.... the one you gave the money to, wants a dance from you, she'll go over there, dance for him and there is your opening. Now with that being said please don't talk smack and pick apart my idea, it works, the dancer makes money and you make money