Financially struggling...considering 3 options
Ugh. I know I am so burnt out from stripping I've been working every other day basically and I feel like I wake up thinking about dancing, how I can hustle better etc and that's all I think about all day then I go to work, drink and try to act like that stripper I want to be and then I go to bed and over analyze certain things I did at work how to fix them and it's the same thing the next day. I'm pretty sure that's OCD! Lol...well regardless I over worked my self into a hole...I need about $1300 by Thursday...ive worked the past 3 days in a row from 6PM-4AM making about $350 all together and I'm exhausted!!! I know part of it is the lack of customers it's been ungodly slow and also me being burnt out. I can tell my poor puppy feels neglected cus I've been working so much...so i think I have 3 options...ask my only friend here(I just moved to my curry location a few months ago) anyways ask my friend to lend me $400 until rent is due but continue to keep overworking myself making shit money, ask one of the club regulars I'm "friends" with who loves me I can ask him for $1000 in exchange for a lunch date (no sex), or I could have sex with a club regular who Is 60+ in age but I know I could get at least $1500 out of him for it and be about to take a week off to get out of burnt out mode but that is like last resort and I can't even believe I'm considering that an option. So maybe it's not an option but I'm desperate and feel like I need to suck it up and make it an option? Idk...these are issues I could never even think about talking to non sex workers about...any advice? Guidance? Suggestions? Maybe Stripping isn't for me unfortunately...thank you ladies :)
Re: Financially struggling...considering 3 options
Never cross "your line in the sand" if that's extras...OTC sex...whatever. if the line is that deeply a part of you. The money will be gone tomorrow the memory will be yours forever
Maybe the lunch date (up sell a private dance for 200) and a bit from your friend (400 may be high).
If u borrow money then take a week off your friend might feel taken..a thought
Maybe the mismatch isn't you and dancing but you and that club
Re: Financially struggling...considering 3 options
Camming is a completely different hustle. Maybe while stripping you can take a few classes here and there to give you a certification or degree to give you access to other jobs.
Re: Financially struggling...considering 3 options
i have my massage certification but i need like $250 to get it renewed. i really want to go back to school so maybe me wanting to go back to school is kinda taking my head off the hustle game. but yes, that was my next thought to just go to another club and try it out there. its just the other club im thinking of is the exact opposite of the club i work at now so should ill just audition there and see what happens. i have 2 months till i move back in with mom to get the school process going so counting down the days!
Re: Financially struggling...considering 3 options
I agree that you should start with the 1,000 from the club reg. In the course of things if there is a way to casually drop in that you are short for rent maybe he will give you the rest. If you have that 1,000 and only need another 300 by Thursday that is totally doable. As I have said before when a girl is dancing and is under pressure to make a certain amount of money it stresses her out and fucks up her hustle. Having that 1,000 will make you so much less stressed and you won't be crossing your boundaries. If you have it you can pull a double on of the days (before thursday) and you should have it all.
Re: Financially struggling...considering 3 options
$250 isn't that hard to come up with. You could drive for uber, lyft, postmates or door dasher and come up with that in less than a few days.
You could join Seekingarrangement.com and find some dude to give you $250.
You could also freestyle and make that money in a night if you know what you're doing.
You could sell things/clothes you don't need/wear
You just have to get creative and think outside of the box.
When my friends ask me for money, I tell them to download uber, postmates, door dasher or favor for a few days and if they can't come up
with whatever they need, i'll give them the difference. Seriously. One of two things happen, they miraculously come up with the money
or they don't ask me for money again. The only time I help friends with cash these days is when they're sick, somehow lost their limbs..etc
As another poster said, memories stick with you. i definitely wouldn't have sex for it if I were you unless you're comfortable with that.