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This is a great thread. Just wanted to add that there are millions of way to sell but we can't really read minds and assess men and generalize all the time with formulas and equations. It really comes down to intuition and connection in my opinion. Having a strong brand identity really resonates with me and keeps things simple. It's easier to market and clears up confusion. Being a jack of all trades sales person makes you a master of none. I'd rather sell in a genuine way and do fetishes and shows that are enjoyable and that I am confident in performing.
It's good to also branch out and practice offering other "products" but for me, I wouldn't offer them until I've completely mastered the execution.
We are all modern courtesans and back in the day it took years of training to become a top courtesan. All the same skills are still coveted today.
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Modern day courtesans....I like that.
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hyori
This is a great thread. Just wanted to add that there are millions of way to sell but we can't really read minds and assess men and generalize all the time with formulas and equations. It really comes down to intuition and connection in my opinion. Having a strong brand identity really resonates with me and keeps things simple. It's easier to market and clears up confusion. Being a jack of all trades sales person makes you a master of none. I'd rather sell in a genuine way and do fetishes and shows that are enjoyable and that I am confident in performing.
It's good to also branch out and practice offering other "products" but for me, I wouldn't offer them until I've completely mastered the execution.
We are all modern courtesans and back in the day it took years of training to become a top courtesan. All the same skills are still coveted today.
YES Hyori. I totally agree! I think your first post on here said everything beautifully, to be honest.
I like to read about "formulas and equations" because I learn a lot and can pick up tips and tricks that I can then either use or that I can avoid using because they don't work for me. A lot of the things that I posted (for example) were tips that I picked up from my Psychology degree with how the mind works, and transfer over into sales well. Once again, like you said- that is subjective and it works for me.
I also totally agree about it being detrimental to attempt being a jack of all trades in sales. I feel like it sometimes can be overlooked that you don't have to try and offer everything simply because other models are doing so. I would rather be an expert on 1 thing over being mediocre at 100.
Reminds me of my favorite Bruce Lee quote "I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times."
I think connection and building a brand identity are the two most important factors that I personally try to hold onto.
Basically, I just agree with your big beautiful brain and how it works Hyori :D
This is a GREAT thread.
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Modern Courtesan, Yes!! Sounds soo Empowering!
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IvyAdams
YES Hyori. I totally agree! I think your first post on here said everything beautifully, to be honest.
I like to read about "formulas and equations" because I learn a lot and can pick up tips and tricks that I can then either use or that I can avoid using because they don't work for me. A lot of the things that I posted (for example) were tips that I picked up from my Psychology degree with how the mind works, and transfer over into sales well. Once again, like you said- that is subjective and it works for me.
I also totally agree about it being detrimental to attempt being a jack of all trades in sales. I feel like it sometimes can be overlooked that you don't have to try and offer everything simply because other models are doing so. I would rather be an expert on 1 thing over being mediocre at 100.
Reminds me of my favorite Bruce Lee quote "I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times."
I think connection and building a brand identity are the two most important factors that I personally try to hold onto.
Basically, I just agree with your big beautiful brain and how it works Hyori :D
This is a GREAT thread.
What you share with all of us is a goddesssend. I love reading all your posts and I get so much out of them and I know others do as well. I'm pretty sure you could sell snow to the Inuit and water to someone living in the Swiss Alps because, girl, you got "it". Charisma is your thang and whatever methods you use will work just because of your presence. You just radiate!
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I always like to think a big number of these timewasters, even freeloaders can be converted. To me, they re potential members if not today, but in time. Orhers freeloaded my room half a year until deciding to spend some private time together.
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How do you approach your business? Do you have the mentality of a CEO or A Worker Bee? Self Employment101: Think Like A Boss!
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Good question and i have the answer. Im the CEO type, obviously that makes sense since im a femdom, but also in my real life im like that.
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This is a GREAT thread for my newbie self. Thanks ladies! Way to break it down! Having a brand is important, I guess that's half the fun of being a new girl, trying different niches/fetish until you find the perfect "brand".
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Although Im pretty tied up with other projects right now I get envious of those who arw still working on conceptual ideas for their content and camshows. My plan is to revamp a ton of webpages to generate more interest. I think my shit has gotten stale.