New to fully nude club - How to stop them from trying to finger me all the time!!!?
Hey ladies,
Long time topless dancer - panties on when private dancing. I can usually gently push their hands away when they go down their or just move my body to a different position to avoid.
But I just started at a new fully nude club because the money is way better and its busy and management is great. Only problem is is when youre naked and on their lap their hands nearly all the time go straight for the pussy. I DONT WANT A YEAST INFECTION!!! And Im never an extras girl.
I really really do not want to become desentitized to having my pussy touched.. Tits I dont care.
Does anyone have any advice on how to handle this situation?
Luckily we always get the money up front at this club.
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Just tell them the rules, move their hands from anywhere near there and if they don't listen, punch them in the balls.
It's really no different than a topless club.
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Are the girls letting these men go there during a lapdance??!
Just tell them that area is not allowed.
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You don't have to stay once your paid. If a dude tries me i say dance over and go hustle someone else
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https://www.amazon.com/Kids-Dracula-...+vampire+teeth
Put glow in the dark fake vampire teeth in your pussy. So it can bite them & glow all at the same time.
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Some of the girls I work with let them.
Some girls at another club I work at suck dick and fuck. Ive actually seen a girl sucking dick.
Cool, just needed some back up from you lot. Yesterday the first thing a guy did when he bought a 10 minute VIP was whip out his dick and I was like Uhhh no way....
Fucking gross. So pissed at all the girls who have ruined stripping for the rest of us.
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Kiki99
So pissed at all the girls who have ruined stripping for the rest of us.
Word. For real.
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Agreed. I respect all sex industry, but prostitutes need to play their own field, meaning -get their customers, and fuck elsewhere, without bringing strip industry down. I mean -just play it right!
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Sam38g
What's really weird is these teeth were already in my recent Amazon history!
Anyway, OP- I think the girls have given you some solid advice. I also would like to add that I almost always wore a tampon when I was dancing nude. I know it is not super healthy so maybe see if you can buy organic ones, but it is kind of security in case they are quick with their hands, they can't actually get inside you. Also, if you are doing nude friction dances do you have to take your bottom off or do you have to take it off right away? The club I worked at the longest had fully nude friction dances and I almost always kept my thong on, if I was straddling them or on their laps and would only get fully nude if I was standing in front of them or on top of them in a way I could keep my legs a bit more closed (ex. laying or leaning across them) as long as it had tiny strings on the side, the guys usually didn't notice.
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I honestly have that issue more at bikini clubs more then nude clubs. Go figure
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If other girls in the club are allowing it I'm not sure you'll have much luck getting rid of it. You might cut back the instances of it happening by saying in the beginning that they will lose their money. But if guys expect it they are going to assume you're okay with it.
I'd probably try something like "I need to remind you that no hands on the kitty but I love it when a guy touches me on my hips and stomach and legs". Just an example IDK what you'd prefer but just a way of still inviting guys to touch you but letting them know their are rules.
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moonangelko
I honestly have that issue more at bikini clubs more then nude clubs. Go figure
I've danced at both and agree with this statement!
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When I danced nude I would always say, there is a whole area you can't touch, it's where my underwear would be, if I were wearing them. The whole area is totally off limits, anywhere where hair would be if I had hair... Don't touch my pussy, don't touch next to my pussy, don't touch my pubic bone, don't graze it, don't try to bring your face close to it and breathe on it... I need to be really clear because if you can't understand me the next person who will be explaining this to you is the bouncer.
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Make them sit with their arms away from you or hanging off the chair. Swat hands away. Give one warning and if it happens again then stop the dance, collect your money, and threaten to tell a bouncer/have him kicked out. Some guys will be too drunk or too stupid to handle dances, so it's their money lost.
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When I danced nude contact (non prepaid), if I got a drunk guy that I am pretty sure is gonna be a problem, i'd hold their hands any time I was on their lap. So I'm running our hands over me and they still are technically touching but I'm in control. If you make it really sensual they usually don't whine too much. If they were really an issue I'd hop off their lap and just dance facing them. They'd still get a great view so I'd end up getting lots of continues even though they were whining about not touching and doing that weird air humping thing they do (wtf)
In prepaid dances they get one warning and then I'd fuck off. I tend to not explicitly explain the rules before dances, hence the one warning, but if you do I wouldn't even bother with it. You've already made it clear what isn't allowed, go hustle somebody else who hopefully is more respectful.
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I tell them the rules up front and after I get my money. I say, "I have two rules. No kissing and no touching my pussy. Be a gentleman" If they break one of those rules, I immediately end the dance.
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moonangelko
I honestly have that issue more at bikini clubs more then nude clubs. Go figure
This is true. Dudes can assault you even with layers of fabric over your pussy. Some predators are so skilled and quick with their hands.
I'd raise hell if it happens and call police.
Are they trying to touch your pussy on stage or in private? If it's on stage I would not bust my bare pussy open unless it's a money shower. Or be outside of arms length from customer.
If it's in private, in an ideal world, You really shouldn't have to tell them not to touch your privates without permission but predators have no boundaries and you have to make it clear like a disclaimer before each dance. Like hey Bob I'm about to give you some mind blowing sensual dances but in order for me to do that you are required to place your hands only where I allow you to.
If they touch your pussy after you clearly say no or tell them it's not allowed then they need either their ass kicked by bouncer or the need to have charges filled against them for sexual assault. Preferably both but since this is a litigious culture the latter is more wise.
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Thanks everybody for all of this.
Can you really call the cops on them??!! Most clubs Ive worked at would never have your back on that. Does anyone know of people who have done that?
Yeah totally they are predators. Just because we're strippers, doesnt mean its not rape. Its so fucked up people think so little of us. Its to do with how women are treated/viewed as a whole.
And there is totally extra stuff going on at this new club. Extras is everywhere...