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Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
lol I'm just curious as to anyone's/everyone's stories about dating a strip club employee
I always had the biggest crush on this certain DJ but I'm too pussy to fuck with our friendly relationship ...I often daydream about it tho haha But just for fun I wanna hear if other girls ever act on any crushes or try to keep it strictly profesh?
Yea I wanna hear the good, the bad, and ugly? Who's got stories lol entertain me and let me live vicariously through you
How did the romance start? Was it sex at first site ? how did it end up? What happened with the strip club politics after you two became official? Did it help or hurt with money? ( I'm sure in general it hurts but in NYC when you "date" a host sometimes he puts you on with a lot of Custies so maybe it can help too) was the breakup dramatic or involve anyone getting fired? Anyone end up with a ring?!!! Marriage from the strip club?!!!
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Re: Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
Not a good idea. If it backfires in the future you may lose your job. I like the club I'm at and regret continuing to fuck the owner because of this reason. There's only 2 decent clubs in my area left but he's so good in bed lol.
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Re: Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
Nah. If ima fuck with someone from the club it's not going to be the support staff, I'm going for the owner - just sayin.
I had a hot DJ and a decent looking manager. Nothing more than some slick flirting. Other than that I wouldn't do any sexual favors for them at all. I wouldn't trust them.
But overall nope I wouldn't mess with any of them because most men in the strip club industry are misogynists plus I don't like mixing business with pleasure it gets too messy.
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Re: Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
Don't sh*t where you eat.:)
One club in my area had some high profile mgr, he'd done some acting/sports etc..
Literally, he had almost ever dancer that worked there, none had any advantage, & most got fired
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Re: Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
You're just "another stripper". Why shit where you eat?
I've seen girls who have fucked this staff member, he'd help them for a LITTLE BIT AND THEN THAT'S IT. Some of these chics quit bc of him and one got her heart broken. Ay ay ayyyy.
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Re: Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
Yea^. Not only that, you gotta see the a/hole every day you work, & get bothered w/that.
Why even risk sabotaging your hustle?
Dick everywhere
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Re: Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
Yeah, and you can't even get mad at the dude if he stops favoring you for a hot minute for someone else. It's "business". I've seen girls get mad at this..... "I'm like wtf do you expect?"
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Re: Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
Can't believe girls even consider seriously dating someone working at their club. Hell no. I'm not above having a good time though since I'm single and dating normal guys outside the club...but wouldn't put myself in this situation again.
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Re: Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
No I have not, however a few of my friends have. At 1 club my friend dated bar guy and we would get free drinks. at another club my friend dated door guy and he would refer groups to us and I would tip him. I cant imagine dating a guy who worked at the club, both my friends would argue with the guys at some point at work and none of them are still together.
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Re: Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
My kids dad was the assistant manager at my main club. He doesn't work there anymore, hasn't since 2013. Would never do it again, that's for sure. Caused chaos and mad jealousy. Thankfully now most of the girls from back then don't work there anymore and the current girls have no idea who he is or was. Total newb mistake, I'm glad he's out of the business anyways. Now the girls have to gossip I'm dating customers, lmao.
Some of the girls he fired for one reason or another are working there again, so that's fun. I just avoid them whenever possible and act professional whenever I have to be near them because of a mutual customer.
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Re: Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
Had sexytimes with a DJ, would do it again
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Re: Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
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Re: Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
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Re: Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
Never have, never will. These men probably fuck like all the girls, I don't want to mess with dirty men like that.
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Re: Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
I am dating someone i worked with. We no longer work at the same club. Its better that way. Take caution because this doesnt usually end well.
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Re: Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
I dated an owner of a different club for 10 yrs. I did work for him at a restaurant before I got into dancing and that turned into a catastrophe. So much jealousy, it didn't help he had fucked a bunch of the girls that worked there. He hated that I danced, but could never get me to quit. He was fairly abusive too.
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Re: Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
No but I was ga ga over a very charming cute dj. We still flirt but it doesn't go further than that and I know it's for the best. I know it would be to hard to handle dating him and then seeing him every time I work while trying to hustle.
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Re: Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
Dating a dj was easily one of the worst mistakes I've ever made in my life. We dated, things got serious. We moved in together, to a beautiful home. later that year I got pregnant. I thought my life was perfect. During one of my prenatal visits, I was told I tested positive for chlamydia. I freaked out. Long story short, the entire time we were together he was cheating with at least 20+ dancers. Everyone in the club has his back, knew what was going on but never told me. I thank my lucky stars all I caughtbwas chlamydia. It takes a real piece of shit to have unprotected sex with random homewrecking whores and then have sex with your pregnant girlfriend. It ruined my life, I was so ashamed I moved because it was the only club in the area.... Sorry to bent, but 5 years later I'm still paying for his mistakes. I went from thinking my life was perfect to a living nightmare. I'm a firm believer now that men who work in the club's are there for one thing. Even if I'm wrong, it keeps me from being attracted to any co-worker. To add to this, my best friend recently started seeing the new barback, until she found out he is married. Yikes. One of the bartenders I work with fucks as many dancers as he can, tried me once. He's got 2 kids and a wife who's a nurse waiting at home for his bitch was every night.
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Re: Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
Ugh excuse the typos. New phone, I have butterfingers on this keyboard. I'd like to add, as much as I hate my ex, I'm thankful for the son he gave me. He made it all worth it
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Re: Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
Don't do it!
My friend was fucking the head club manager for a year in his office. It got to the point where he would demand her to give him head at the club with his door closed. The moment she said no he got crazy angry. Last night he told her if she didn't pay double house she's fired. She refused and he texted her saying to find a different club. She was a top earner but she shit where she ate.
I fucked a security guard my first three months of dancing. Was the biggest mistake I've ever made. The worst part was going to work and seeing him there. I couldn't focus. He stopped picking up my money from stage and helping me, doing his job for me all because I stopped talking to him. It's been almost a year and I'm just now able to go to work without a care if he's there or not. I'm a more successful dancer now and now he sees I'm doing well he asked me if we could fix things. I told him no, never. Now he's back to not collecting my money, etc. it's fine though I've moved on. But don't ever date a strip club employee.
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Re: Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
my boyfriend was a bouncer at a club i worked at on and off for a long time. when people found out we both got fired. but it's been years an we're still together. ups and downs but over all it's been worth it. most cases i would say don't do it, but i think sometimes if you're on the same page and it's not your favorite/home club that makes it a little better too if it doesn't work out.
i've worked with a lot of djs and managers that will sleep with girls and it causes a lot of issues, her thinking she can do whatever she wants and the mess that comes at the end of it when he tells her it wasn't serious or going anywhere.
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Re: Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
Well, I ended up marrying my manager lol. We're still together and happier than I ever thought possible!
When we met at work, we had a great connection right off the bat. Great conversation and always an underlying sexual currant. We kind of teased each other and danced (pun!) around the idea of any kind of relationship, and we did struggle with it because we both knew it was against the rules for him to date me. However we couldn't help ourselves. Our first kiss was actually in the club's dressing room lol. I always got there early so that he and I could hang out before the rest of the girls came in. We were talking and then suddenly he grabbed me and kissed me til my knees were weak. After that we gave in and became an item. Sure girls talked shit but at work we never let on or confirmed the rumors. We both ended up quitting and getting other jobs (me at another club and him as a chef) mostly because we were tired of having to hide our relationship.
Six years later, we are the most sickeningly happy couple ever. We've never soent a night apart, he is my best friend, and the sex is just as electric now as it was in the beginning.
I know I'm an anomaly , and I got lucky. He's my soulmate and it just happened to be in the club where we dound each other.
And i thank God/dess every day that we met, he has made me so happy and enhanced my life in every way
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Re: Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
That's amazing! Very happy for you
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Re: Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
Never dated anyone but gave a few lap dances. I was paid for them, though.
Had a brief flirtation with a bouncer but then I got fired for an unrelated issue.
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Re: Have you ever DATED a DJ, MANAGER, HOST, SECURITY GAURD, FELLOW DANCER ETC.?
I've been going through a high flirtation with the dj for many months now... he pretty much acts like he's my bf even in front of other girls, holds my hand and caresses me lol. I don't mind cuz I like him so much. He gave me his # once but nothing ever happened. We just continue flirting, it kind of makes work more fun but at the same time it's frustrating that we will probably never be anything more than this.