Forgetting about the people you danced for
So as dancers we dance for many costumers. what do you do when you see someone and you are not sure you danced for him? One time I even walked up to a costumer and started to introduce myself.....he didn't get a dance for me.... Later I found out that I danced for him before.I guess he was offended that I couldn't remember him.But how can I remember all the men I dance for? It's not possible.So what do you do?
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It happens. You just want to really try to not let it happen in a small period of time. This is a big part of customer relations and how you can gain some really good custies that will come back to see you. Try and find 1 thing about a guy that you might be able to remember. Some guys will take offense if you don't remember them. So at least try and remember the ones that are good to you.
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Thanks boo.I guess I have to try to remember somehow....
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There's really only 3 reasons I remember guys...and even then I literally NEVER remember names. Either they've spent a LOT of money on me, been a total piece of shit or are a regular that's been in so often it's impossible not to recognize him.
I've had guys tell me we've met before when I had absolutely no recollection of meeting them and I pull the "I'm sorry, I'm terrible with names but I'd never forget that face." Lie lie lie lol. Also if I think I may have met him before I just do some conversation before I introduce myself to see if something sounds familiar.
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Just tell them you meet hundreds of guys a night and so you're gonna forget sometimes, but you'd love it if he'd refresh your memory with a dance. Guys who you forget probably didn't spend much anyway, and if he gets offended, he sounds like a lame ass so hustle him as fast as possible.
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I have fun some nights and go up to every guy (especially if I don't know him) and say "hey good to see you again wow how have you been?!" ...it's funny as fuck and if you're really feeling your energies that nite a bunch of guys just go with it cuz of social norms ..it works even better if you get other girls to be in on it :)