Ok everyone lets be honest camming or stripping. Which one do you prefer?
So lately I have been super busy with online summer school. But now things have seen to calm down since summer school is almost over. Now I can seem to relax from homework and make time for some real making money work. I have worked off and on as a dancer but also a webcam model. I really like the web cam model idea because you dont have to leave home and you save time and money on gas and time but I also enjoy the club scene when I just want to make instant money... I want to be consistant with both but its the thing with camming is that is that it seems like its been really slow with the customers. Do you ladies think I should hang in there with both but make camming my number one go to since all you have to do is log on ?
Which do you perfer?
Re: Ok everyone lets be honest camming or stripping. Which one do you prefer?
When are we NOT honest?
Each one is what you make it.
If it is slow then you do the marketing & bring in the traffic.
In a strip club you are limited to one local area. Camming you have the world wide web.
Re: Ok everyone lets be honest camming or stripping. Which one do you prefer?
There's a couple threads on this,1 is in Cam Conn section.
I believe it's called Stripping vs Camming
Re: Ok everyone lets be honest camming or stripping. Which one do you prefer?
Nobody ever is in reality no one likes to expose their body and strippers really dont like their job. Nobody wants to be a stripper thier whole life some women just have no choice. I like it for the convenience of flex schedule.
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We ALL have choices. Not everyone feels the way you do so don't speak for the rest of us.
The work some ladies do on the pole is art. There is the art of the Strip Tease & Burlesque.
Some people are exhibitionist. I know many ex-strippers both male & female. We've been friends for over 20 plus years. NONE of them have ever said anything like that to me. Hell, one ex-male strippers Mom is always trying to get me to watch his old routines that she has on VHS. His wife & my bff just laughs. His Grandmother watches it with us.
Within my friends everyone is their families know & there is more than one stripper in each one. Not as shameful as you think it is for plenty of people in this world.
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I for one fucking love my job. It's not 100% awesome every moment all the time, but currently can't imagine anything else i would want to do.
There's definitely a rush on stage wjen the crowd is really feeling you, and i have had lots of clients i genuinely enjoy doing dances for. So to say that no stripper likes what they do is deffo not true. Some love it, some hate it, some tolerate it for the benefits/or it's their best option, whatever. There's as many reasons girls choose to strip as there are girls dancing.
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SuperJa nailed it there is a high when you are on stage & own it. Some people love the stage, any stage, they are performers, they are STARS! They want it & live for it. My stage now is the camming platform.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8ea2CNzFUwc
Re: Ok everyone lets be honest camming or stripping. Which one do you prefer?
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SuperJa
I for one fucking love my job. It's not 100% awesome every moment all the time, but currently can't imagine anything else i would want to do.
There's definitely a rush on stage wjen the crowd is really feeling you, and i have had lots of clients i genuinely enjoy doing dances for. So to say that no stripper likes what they do is deffo not true. Some love it, some hate it, some tolerate it for the benefits/or it's their best option, whatever. There's as many reasons girls choose to strip as there are girls dancing.
for real. i keep saying 'this will be my last year', but now i moved it up for 2 more years because i'm not done dancing. and i will miss it. a lot. i hate it many times, but I do love it most times.
i hated camming. i think it depends on your personal preference. i found camming to be boring, complicated and intimidating. and i love stripping, cause i'm fucking good at it.
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Ok Im sorry Sam I hope I did not offend you right dont speak for others.
Re: Ok everyone lets be honest camming or stripping. Which one do you prefer?
For me stripping was better $$ but caming was so complicated I only got on mfc and chaturbate and didn't show my face so I didn't make much, the downside for me dancing is getting too drunk now doing dumb shit, I'd still bank tho.. I guess it depends on the person
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I prefer camming because I had too much pain with my knees and the bouncers/bartender never did enough to protect dancers from harassment and stalkers.
With camming and phone work I feel safer and feel like I have more control over who I interact with
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i started camming recently on the side because the clubs are so slow here during the summer and i now realize it's a little more complicated than "just logging on". you can't just log on and expect people to be there and ready to pay you. i have to be smiling, dancing, and engaged the whole time. i play games with people and i also had to spend money on toys, oil/lube, a webcam, outfits and decorations and lighting.. i honestly think i prefer camming but at this point i'm not yet able to rely on it for my main source of income. it's a hell of a lot easier to get big tips and coerce guys into parting with large sums of money when you're with them in person. it's much easier for them to be cheap and mean from behind a computer where they're not physically interacting with you and there's no threat of a bouncer dealing with them if they act like dicks
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jazzygirl08
Nobody ever is in reality no one likes to expose their body and strippers really dont like their job. Nobody wants to be a stripper thier whole life some women just have no choice. I like it for the convenience of flex schedule.
i always try to urge women who feel this way to try other options besides stripping. not all of us feel this way and the ones who do are the reason why people judge us so harshly and think of the job as degrading. i don't feel degraded at all and i absolutely do want to be a stripper despite having a choice. i understand that some girls feel they have no other option and i don't judge them for that- do what you gotta do... but. i wish more of them wouldn't get into sex work. this desperation and mindset is the reason why extras have become so prevalent. girls who strip out of desperation usually feel violated already and end up letting people cross their boundaries and feeling the way you do about the job then going around telling people what it's "really like" and giving everyone this impression of us
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Each has its pros and cons. I'm new to both still. Personally feel that I prefer stripping, mostly because I enjoy the dancing. The money is upfront and easier as most customers are there to spend. With camming freeloaders seem to get away more easily and it takes time to build up a following of serious spenders. This is just my experience.
I was on the lookout for a second job prior to this. We all work out of necessity, but I wouldn't strip out of desperation if it didn't appeal to me. I researched and thought it over for 2 months before I called a club asking about hiring and auditioning. I agree that if one is only doing it because they feel there is no other choice then they'd be better off looking for a different non-sex industry related job in the long run.
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I've tried camming and felt the same. It's 8hrs of trying to convince guys to PAY you to take your clothes off.
Most of them just say "show some of that ass" like.. I will once you tip me!
I want baby stripper status soon and at least if I want money I know I'm getting that $20 up front and for 3.5min of work lol
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Camming is a bit more complicated. The hustle is a bit of the same. Men are still men. I flashed my tits on stage to make money,now I do it on cam.
Only now I do way more talking, that & I'm funny.
My BFF was the best hustler in SC I've ever seen. She is clean dancer too. Biggest tip for a table dance she got was $17,000 NO SEX, NO Blow Job, NO Friction either. She is that good of a dancer. She is such a hustler even fully dressed & hanging out at a SC with her uncle for a football game. She is walking out with $300 to $500 in a couple of hours. The dancers, the waitresses money will all double when she is there just hanging out.
I can put her on cam & know within a week, she will be a top cam girl banking.
Creating intimacy & emoting through a cam takes a bit of practice is all. Learning the platform & how it all works can be intimidating, I know. Worth it in the end, though.
The Newbies on cam have it the hardest. All the predators try to train you right off the bat to do it all for free. Once they learn that bullshit won't work they start leaving you alone.
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Stripping. I had more of a hard time getting a club that would hire me because of my race.
Online I never had any issue with being black. So I always had a chance to make money, and also be accepted for who I am.
I've noticed when it came to making my own content online I always shined. Anything of sex work where I had to be a location or depend on an outside source determine if they will bring me on their roaster. I always got judged or labelled something fucked up. that discouraged me from working.