Re: Creating Your "Fantasy"
I think they are suggesting being more outgoing and connecting with the customers. I think a lot of girls on their first couple of shifts are shy or don't approach the customers as warmly as only time and experience approaching guys can give.
Next time focus on going to every single customer in the club and saying hi and flirting, don't sit in a corner or only interact with customers when you're on stage (I know you didn't say you did that but I notice a lot of first timers don't work the room initially because they are not aware they are supposed to :) )
Really flirt, really pretend they are your boyfriend. Be warm and inviting, creating the fantasy for the guy isn't just about showing up and being cute you have to also be an actress and pretend to like them or give a shit what they're talking about. You don't have to actually give a shit just pretend lol!
You don't have to let he guys touch you , but touch them gently sometimes or sit in their laps (if it's allowed at your club ) . I find that creates connections , along with lots of eye contact (don't overdo that, just enough) .
Re: Creating Your "Fantasy"
When you're on stage WORK THE ROOM WITH YOUR EYES!! Super important. Thats how you lock them in even before you greet them in person on the floor. I can not tell you how many times guys can't wait till I get off stage to get a dance. I pretend im a victoria secret model, and make direct eye contact and hold it for a few seconds while i touch my body, make a face like you're pleasuring yourself, make him feel like you're the only thing you want in the room and when you have his attention, go to the next custie and repeat. Works like a charm. They'll tip you more to get your attention and will be waiting on the floor. Try it out!
Re: Creating Your "Fantasy"
Creating a fantasy is basically about being that dream girl come to life. To paraphrase from "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene, you should embody the ultimate male fantasy of a supremely confident, alluring female who offers endless pleasure and oozes sexuality. Few civilian women in the "real world" have the confidence to portray such an image. More importantly, you should be friendly and inviting, listen to him, make him feel like king of the jungle because there's a good chance that no women in his life make him feel this way.
You're always putting on a fantasy performance. On stage, smile and make eye contact, give the men "come hither" eyes. I agree with the above suggestion of pretending the customer is your boyfriend or someone you want to sleep with so you can get that sparkle going in your eyes. The customer will pick up on it. You're always selling excitement, entertainment, and the illusion that you're actually attainable.
Re: Creating Your "Fantasy"
Be comfortable with your fantasy as well. For instance my bestfriend talks MAAAAAD dirty. I just cant do it. Im a spoiled, sexy brat with jokes and i pout when guys dont go with me. Plus i put on a greeeeeaaaaat stage show. Ppl stop in their tracks when i get on stage.