Starting up completely indie :)
Hi, I've been lurking for a while. I decided that I'm going to start up completely indie- I'm awaiting my validation from skyprivate and commodels directory, and I created an iwantclips EXCLUSIVELY just to sell skype, kik, and adopt-a-bills. I'm going to do a combination of vanilla-style as well as findom. For instance, I'll do sexy vanilla shows with my glass toy on skype, but like I said I'll be posting adopt-a-bills on iwc, and i also created an onlyfans where i'll be actively posting photos of my feet and receipts (for reimbursement). I'll also be doing a bunch of phone sex lines.
I decided against regular clipmaking or camming, because I feel it's too degrading, and frankly I'm not ready for that. it's just not something i'm interested in at the moment, it won't work for me due to SEVERAL factors. I would totally look into it years down the road, though!!! I just feel like my mental health right now is not equipped for it.
I already purchased a webcam (for skype) and a separate phone for all of this. Hoping this kicks off, because I've already been paying the second phone bill, but sadly no such luck yet. BUUUT- to be fair, I'm not on a lot of sites yet! I'm still pending approval from skyprivate and cammodeldirectory, like I said. Unfortunately, the only phone line site I'm up and going on so far is iWantPhone, I am pending approval from Chatstar (i should be up soon!), and I contacted dreamlover and they said they are not accepting anybody. I am in a bit of a pickle with phrendly, as I joined once a long time ago and forgot about it (whoopsie :/) and now my SSN is coming up as "taken", so I'm trying to get that straightened out. Niteflirt I sadly cannot do for a while, which gets me REALLY down and feeling bad, because I have about a $1,000 overdraft fee on my debit card, therefore I cannot pay the $1 processing fee for Niteflirt :( So once I get approved for CMD and Skyprivate, I plan on making a Talk To Me.
Any tips for starting up completely indie are welcome :) I just wanted to pop my head in and say Hi <3
edit:;; aaaaaand they JUST auto-closed my bank account :( I may just HAVE to start up on chaturbate until I find a vanilla job :( Thing is, I would have to get a check in the mail and idk if chaturbate does that :/ Fuck. I guess I'll use a different name on CB than I was using for signing up for my indie shit, work 8 hours a day every day, hustle hustle hustle, then pay off all of my debts, and then get some therapy. Then close my shit, OR keep it open for days I look really crappy lol.
edit again;; this may be a stretch, but since I really have no choice but to be non-indie for a little bit, I was thinking about blocking 9 states. is that too much? i really just want to block my two states (I live on a border), plus every state touching them...
funny/shitty how this happened AS I write my thread about wanting to be completely indie :(
Re: Starting up completely indie :)
starting out indy is pretty tough especially if you are in a bad situation - probably better to focus on sites that already have traffic until you are out of your desperate situation - good luck - oh and go get a prepaid card to get onto nf
Re: Starting up completely indie :)
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cutelilanon
Hi, I've been lurking for a while. I decided that I'm going to start up completely indie- I'm awaiting my validation from skyprivate and commodels directory, and I created an iwantclips EXCLUSIVELY just to sell skype, kik, and adopt-a-bills. I'm going to do a combination of vanilla-style as well as findom. For instance, I'll do sexy vanilla shows with my glass toy on skype, but like I said I'll be posting adopt-a-bills on iwc, and i also created an onlyfans where i'll be actively posting photos of my feet and receipts (for reimbursement). I'll also be doing a bunch of phone sex lines.
I decided against regular clipmaking or camming, because I feel it's too degrading, and frankly I'm not ready for that. it's just not something i'm interested in at the moment, it won't work for me due to SEVERAL factors. I would totally look into it years down the road, though!!! I just feel like my mental health right now is not equipped for it.
I already purchased a webcam (for skype) and a separate phone for all of this. Hoping this kicks off, because I've already been paying the second phone bill, but sadly no such luck yet. BUUUT- to be fair, I'm not on a lot of sites yet! I'm still pending approval from skyprivate and cammodeldirectory, like I said. Unfortunately, the only phone line site I'm up and going on so far is iWantPhone, I am pending approval from Chatstar (i should be up soon!), and I contacted dreamlover and they said they are not accepting anybody. I am in a bit of a pickle with phrendly, as I joined once a long time ago and forgot about it (whoopsie :/) and now my SSN is coming up as "taken", so I'm trying to get that straightened out. Niteflirt I sadly cannot do for a while, which gets me REALLY down and feeling bad, because I have about a $1,000 overdraft fee on my debit card, therefore I cannot pay the $1 processing fee for Niteflirt :( So once I get approved for CMD and Skyprivate, I plan on making a Talk To Me.
Any tips for starting up completely indie are welcome :) I just wanted to pop my head in and say Hi <3
edit:;; aaaaaand they JUST auto-closed my bank account :( I may just HAVE to start up on chaturbate until I find a vanilla job :( Thing is, I would have to get a check in the mail and idk if chaturbate does that :/ Fuck. I guess I'll use a different name on CB than I was using for signing up for my indie shit, work 8 hours a day every day, hustle hustle hustle, then pay off all of my debts, and then get some therapy. Then close my shit, OR keep it open for days I look really crappy lol.
edit again;; this may be a stretch, but since I really have no choice but to be non-indie for a little bit, I was thinking about blocking 9 states. is that too much? i really just want to block my two states (I live on a border), plus every state touching them...
funny/shitty how this happened AS I write my thread about wanting to be completely indie :(
I agree with NikkiFox. Would be hard (not impossible but difficult) to do indy with no following.
You can do Niteflirt with any prepaid card that has routing numbers. Most do. Load some money on your card and go for it. I'd find one that has either no or low fees. I remember someone was recommending AccountNow. You could use it for all your banking and deposits too.
You mentioned you found regular camming and clips degrading. Are you referring to vanilla or to performing for tips in free chat? That's a pretty judgemental thing to say here, but maybe you were talking about doing flashes for tips or something?
Personally I don't find it degrading but I just don't personally do it because it's not my style. I've quit doing anything in free chat for tips, just isn't me. I prefer privates. I'd recommend you start on bigbox sites (doesn't have to be chaturbate) and just do what your own personal style and tastes include. Don't let what you see others do determine what you offer. I've even worked MFC as a domme and private-only style - was actually kind of fun but I quit for other sites because I found it a bit tiring since I had to stay in free chat longer to get a show than other sites. You can tweak your persona to be anything you want.