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I'm a very experienced "sugar baby" and I've been lucky to have had relationships with older men who have taken excellent care of me. I had one I met in the strip club and he thought of himself as being my boyfriend more so than a sugar daddy. He wanted to hang out almost every night and he ended up paying all of my bills and giving me $$$$ on top of that so I didn't have to worry about working. He came on VERY strong in the beginning; bought me a Rolex and diamond jewelry (which I've since sold off because I don't feel comfortable wearing jewelry that costs tens of thousands of dollars ...makes me feel like a target), proposed marriage, talked about leaving his property to me. He turned out to be a psycho cokehead and an absolute shit person. A narcissist, a racist, he would scream at waiters, he was reckless ...it got to the point where I hated his guts. Long story short, I ended up filing a restraining order against him.
Now I'm seeing a gentleman in his late 60s and I'm excited to see where it goes. He took me to have dinner at his country club (that has an $80,000 initiation fee) and we're meeting for dinner at a nice Italian restaurant tomorrow night. He wants to buy me private golf lessons with a female instructor at his country club and I'm excited for that. He asked me about my schooling, and I was honest ...I dropped out of high school and later got my GED, I've since gotten my real estate license and personal training certification but I've never taken college classes. He told me that I'm too smart not to have a formal education, and that he would pay for my college if I changed my mind. I'm thinking I'm going to take him up on it because I'm starting to realize that I may not have the sanity to deal with the adult industry forever. I'm looking forward to seeing where this will lead.
Mind you, I believe sugar websites are absolute cesspools with nothing but cheap johns, so I refuse to use them. I'm a big advocate of meeting "sugar daddies" and making wealthy connections the old fashioned way. Live where the rich live, make connections that allow you to enjoy memberships at country clubs, yacht clubs, hobby clubs, social clubs, etc., learn to appreciate the arts (opera, theater, dance, music), get involved with political parties, travel and immerse yourself in different cultures, learn sports like skiing, sailing, tennis, golf, badminton, equestrianism, etc.
I will update with my experiences here. I'm still feeling him out.
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trustfundkiller
Mind you, I believe sugar websites are absolute cesspools with nothing but cheap johns, so I refuse to use them. I'm a big advocate of meeting "sugar daddies" and making wealthy connections the old fashioned way. Live where the rich live, make connections that allow you to enjoy memberships at country clubs, yacht clubs, hobby clubs, social clubs, etc., learn to appreciate the arts (opera, theater, dance, music), get involved with political parties, travel and immerse yourself in different cultures, learn sports like skiing, sailing, tennis, golf, badminton, equestrianism, etc.
I will update with my experiences here. I'm still feeling him out.
This is GOLD advice. I absolutely second this. Learn what it means to be wealthy regardless of whether or not you have the money YET. I'm a big believer in visualization & placing yourself in wealthy environments as much as possible.
I am getting my degree shortly. It's just another beautiful thing to add to one's personal introduction.
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seashell
One author I can recommend is Ginie Sayles. She has some excellent advice on dating wealthy men.
Literally just binge-read three of her books. These are the best books I have ever read on dating, class mobility and habits of the rich. Thanks for the recommendation!
I found two of them free online:
How to meet the rich:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1lAC...PPwX29KhR/view
How to marry the rich:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B-f...NONEJ6UGc/view
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^^^^ I met with her before. She's a nice woman. Good relationship advice.
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Just gotta be where wealthy people are and be attractive enough to turn heads n catch eyes.
It doesn’t necessarily have to be through an app though that is another way to meet an sd
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I met my former one IRL ( doing a vanilla massage for him ).
I call him my former SD but I will probably see him in about a week.
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Dollface9
I'm curious to know if (and how) anyone has meet a sugar daddy IRL and not thru a sugar app (such as seeking or wyp)?
Where did you meet? Was it successful? Or are apps the only way?
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The info about " do it all in person " is spot on.
Some golf clubs for example you actually don't have to have a membership to go to brunch there or go to drinks there ect.
Another one I've found is to volunteer for arts organizations where there is a high price tag to mingle. As a volunteer you'll get access to all those events and a reason to talk to anyone there.
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If you do use an app ( you know the well known one I'm probably referring to ) a tip for that is to only open that app in a wealthy neighborhood ( such as sitting there and having a coffee ) and search only within a couple miles. Then close the app ( make yourself hidden ) in your own area.
Basically just think of places where someone on a tight budget would not be comfortable. Go to those places. ;)
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I am very interested. Please tell me more.
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anabellebash
I am very interested. Please tell me more.
Have you read through the thread?
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carmen_b
If you do use an app ( you know the well known one I'm probably referring to ) a tip for that is to only open that app in a wealthy neighborhood ( such as sitting there and having a coffee ) and search only within a couple miles. Then close the app ( make yourself hidden ) in your own area.
Basically just think of places where someone on a tight budget would not be comfortable. Go to those places. ;)
It’s true. Gather all the wealthy zip codes and find places within those zip codes to freestyle. Also search those zip codes when fishing on apps.
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I too have been gifted property, a car, a diamond necklace, lots of cash. I would love to get back into another LTR such as that one. I absolutely love the idea of the app! I have not searched online for SD's since the beginnings of SA when a bitch could be picky on that site. But I got off it soon as it became a cesspool.
I have another off-and-on guy. He is a religious guy. Have you ever met one of these? (You'll know if you have.). Met him at the club. He was your typical strip club addict, during that time. But he got back with his wife, and back into christianity religion after we met. Like, you normally would tell someone like this to fuck off. But, somehow, he pulled you into a situation where he's been giving you cash, so now, everytime you meet up, you're just waiting for it to hit you, so you can go. But now, it's him pummelling me with a shit ton of bible scriptures, since "he cares about me" and hopes I get out of this line of work soon. So you tell him what he wants to hear. You tell him thanks for the bible scriptures he printed off copies of. Then he gives you the money, at the end. Ugh. But after a while I can't stand him anymore, even with the cash it's just not worth it.
Anyway, I literally got so bored over Covid that I decided to message him again (it'd been since 2017 this time). So now he's coming over on Sunday. I told him how bills are piling up, I can't get unemployment (cough cough) due to being a stripper, had some med issues to pay for, got to get new tires, owe back taxes, have an out-of-control credit card bill, etc. But really, I just need to amass some savings so I can't get some cosmetic things done soon, etc.
So he's coming here. But aint this the shit?: There is this new religious netflix series that he apparently really got off to. That he wants us to watch the first episode of together. It's about Mary Magalene. He says "once you see the first episode it makes you want to binge watch the rest". So that's when I decided there's absolutely no way I can let him come to the house.
I'm thinking of a way to tell him we need to meet someplace other than my place. He already talked an hour on the phone yesterday about this shit. He's completely non self-aware. Either that, or he just really doesn't give a shit, I'm just a stripper, so who cares if he drones on for three hours in my ear. But I tread lightly, bc the guy is literally loaded. He built a successful business in his 20's which I believe made him a billionnaire, it's still going strong and he's now in his 70's, and he doesn't even work at the company anymore, someone else runs it (he's a 'silent partner'). (Ironically. he drones on for hours about the bible so the 'silent' part made me choke on my water when he told me that). Also, his wealthy parents in their late 90's passed away earlier this year, leaving him a large farm, real estate, inheritance, etc. And, he himself owns several properties and a couple of farms. This is just an update, I will know more once we meet on Sunday.
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Also, this is a pretty good YT channel on how to sugar. She pretty much cuts to the chase & gives pretty good tips on how to go about things.
Some stuff she says is pretty obvious, esp. if you're already a stripper. You know how to attract men. But it helps (me at least) to visualize myself doing what she's saying, while she's talking about it. I believe in visualizing
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCew...rbmV1KR_qaf9Qg
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Carmen Elixer
I too have been gifted property, a car, a diamond necklace, lots of cash. I would love to get back into another LTR such as that one. I absolutely love the idea of the app! I have not searched online for SD's since the beginnings of SA when a bitch could be picky on that site. But I got off it soon as it became a cesspool.
I have another off-and-on guy. He is a religious guy. Have you ever met one of these? (You'll know if you have.). Met him at the club. He was your typical strip club addict, during that time. But he got back with his wife, and back into christianity religion after we met. Like, you normally would tell someone like this to fuck off. But, somehow, he pulled you into a situation where he's been giving you cash, so now, everytime you meet up, you're just waiting for it to hit you, so you can go. But now, it's him pummelling me with a shit ton of bible scriptures, since "he cares about me" and hopes I get out of this line of work soon. So you tell him what he wants to hear. You tell him thanks for the bible scriptures he printed off copies of. Then he gives you the money, at the end. Ugh. But after a while I can't stand him anymore, even with the cash it's just not worth it.
Anyway, I literally got so bored over Covid that I decided to message him again (it'd been since 2017 this time). So now he's coming over on Sunday. I told him how bills are piling up, I can't get unemployment (cough cough) due to being a stripper, had some med issues to pay for, got to get new tires, owe back taxes, have an out-of-control credit card bill, etc. But really, I just need to amass some savings so I can't get some cosmetic things done soon, etc.
So he's coming here. But aint this the shit?: There is this new religious netflix series that he apparently really got off to. That he wants us to watch the first episode of together. It's about Mary Magalene. He says "once you see the first episode it makes you want to binge watch the rest". So that's when I decided there's absolutely no way I can let him come to the house.
I'm thinking of a way to tell him we need to meet someplace other than my place. He already talked an hour on the phone yesterday about this shit. He's completely non self-aware. Either that, or he just really doesn't give a shit, I'm just a stripper, so who cares if he drones on for three hours in my ear. But I tread lightly, bc the guy is literally loaded. He built a successful business in his 20's which I believe made him a billionnaire, it's still going strong and he's now in his 70's, and he doesn't even work at the company anymore, someone else runs it (he's a 'silent partner'). (Ironically. he drones on for hours about the bible so the 'silent' part made me choke on my water when he told me that). Also, his wealthy parents in their late 90's passed away earlier this year, leaving him a large farm, real estate, inheritance, etc. And, he himself owns several properties and a couple of farms. This is just an update, I will know more once we meet on Sunday.
Girl, thank you for this!
Lmao, silent partner. Yea, move him to a restaurant (which is what I do)
Good luck.
I sure as hell need something to gtfo where I'm at::)
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Thanks Whirl. I have decided that I'm going to tell him to meet me at Bob Evans. (That's a place where he likes to go, that we've been before. He loves a Bob Evans.). I almost messaged him this afternoon, but then decided No. He does get paranoid. I can't let him think for one second that I'm Not excited to see him, or don't want him near my space. I'm going to wait until he's on his way tomorrow (he's driving 3 hrs). Then when he calls to tell me he's close, I'm going to tell him I couldn't stand it anymore in my place...it was unbearably hot. He knows I don't run the A/c since I'm broke. Then he'll have no choice, if he wants to see me, but to meet me at Bob Evans. He won't like it. but oh well. (I may also need an exit plan, in case he says let's go back to the house when its cooler. I know what I'm going to say if that happens, too. Anyway. Ugh, I really hate lying. But you know what? It's worth it. He drains a lot of energy from me.
That sucks you still have to be at that place I am sorry to hear that hon. I wish you would find a sugar daddy gurl!! I know it's hard, but these men are available < I'm telling you.
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Also if I can fig out how to access the "Sugar Baby Group" I opened up on this site, maybe I'll do a challenge like what's going on in the cam rooms. I know it would help me to have a monthly/weekly challenge for sugaring and maybe it would help others, too.
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carmen_b
The info about " do it all in person " is spot on.
Another one I've found is to volunteer for arts organizations where there is a high price tag to mingle. As a volunteer you'll get access to all those events and a reason to talk to anyone there.
This is such a great idea. It lets people know you are smart, in network, involved in their interests, dedicated, stable, and sociable. Added benefit, the POT will come to you and he will be careful not to play games with you, which would get him shredded by all his friends. People are dedicated to their arts. You can also work galas and be places that rarely have "new blood".
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^good advice.
But I’m not sure how much sugaring in real life ladies can do since some places with high coronavirus cases are prohibiting bars, dining in, requiring social distancing and masks.
This might actually be a good time to Sugar online until restriction loosen up
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miss.a.p1600
^good advice.
But I’m not sure how much sugaring in real life ladies can do since some places with high coronavirus cases are prohibiting bars, dining in, requiring social distancing and masks.
This might actually be a good time to Sugar online until restriction loosen up
Absolutely - I'm thinking when (if) things go back to normal.
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Just to clarify. I def. know how to train an SD, lol. It's just that this one is an oldie who has truly, truly been gen-er-ous with me, over a period of 11 years, so I handle him with extreme caution, since I've asked him for a suitcase full, several times. lol. But it's a little harder now, since being sexy doesn't work lol. He doesn't want anything flirty, he doesn't like going out to anyplace except BE or a coffee shop, it's never sexual or sensual-related at all, no dirty talk, no texting btwn visits - no nothing, except to proselytize to me. He seems to be ridding himself of some shame, after a lifetime of sex addiction, and then found god, and likes to talk about it. I am more than willing to listen, but this time...when he kinda suggested a "binge watch" of a Netflix series, I had to regroup. recalculate. recoordinate.
So we had an amazing little visit, in the Bob Evans parking lot, sitting in his SUV. He wasn't comfortable going inside since he is at higher risk for COVID, being elderly. At first, I could tell he was agitated at the change-up! Lol. Loss of control had him all discombobulated. lol. I had sprung it on him at the last minute lol. He had all his stuff planned & in order, so I knew he wasn't going to like me changing the meeting location & plans. But I was ready with my bad bitch energy. so he pulled it together pretty fast:) He had me download some Bible apps onto my phone. He had a little "hotspot wifi" in the truck, so I had no excuse but to go with it. lol.. He talked for about 45 min on the importance of knowing Jesus, which I totally agree with, I have no issues with it at all. It was a beautiful meet, and a big FAT envelope.
Now for a quick question. if anyone knows. (I wish I could put this in the Sugar group I opened, but still can't access it.). He asked me for my CC number. He said he wanted to send payments on it from time to time, since I told him it was high. (The card is actually paid off, since I met with another SD last week. lol.) So the question is, if I go ahead and give him the number (he's totally safe) and he put money on it, would he be able to tell that it has no current balance? i.e., that I misrepresented the "balance" on it? This is such a weird scenario, I have never experienced but maybe someone has?
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you probably would have to ask the credit card company
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Carmen Elixer
Just to clarify. I def. know how to train an SD, lol. It's just that this one is an oldie who has truly, truly been gen-er-ous with me, over a period of 11 years, so I handle him with extreme caution, since I've asked him for a suitcase full, several times. lol. But it's a little harder now, since being sexy doesn't work lol. He doesn't want anything flirty, he doesn't like going out to anyplace except BE or a coffee shop, it's never sexual or sensual-related at all, no dirty talk, no texting btwn visits - no nothing, except to proselytize to me. He seems to be ridding himself of some shame, after a lifetime of sex addiction, and then found god, and likes to talk about it. I am more than willing to listen, but this time...when he kinda suggested a "binge watch" of a Netflix series, I had to regroup. recalculate. recoordinate.
So we had an amazing little visit, in the Bob Evans parking lot, sitting in his SUV. He wasn't comfortable going inside since he is at higher risk for COVID, being elderly. At first, I could tell he was agitated at the change-up! Lol. Loss of control had him all discombobulated. lol. I had sprung it on him at the last minute lol. He had all his stuff planned & in order, so I knew he wasn't going to like me changing the meeting location & plans. But I was ready with my bad bitch energy. so he pulled it together pretty fast:) He had me download some Bible apps onto my phone. He had a little "hotspot wifi" in the truck, so I had no excuse but to go with it. lol.. He talked for about 45 min on the importance of knowing Jesus, which I totally agree with, I have no issues with it at all. It was a beautiful meet, and a big FAT envelope.
Now for a quick question. if anyone knows. (I wish I could put this in the Sugar group I opened, but still can't access it.). He asked me for my CC number. He said he wanted to send payments on it from time to time, since I told him it was high. (The card is actually paid off, since I met with another SD last week. lol.) So the question is, if I go ahead and give him the number (he's totally safe) and he put money on it, would he be able to tell that it has no current balance? i.e., that I misrepresented the "balance" on it? This is such a weird scenario, I have never experienced but maybe someone has?
You cannot pay money on a card that is paid off. He won't be able to send you anything on that.
Get a prepaid visa card and let him put money on that! Just give him the number and I don't think he would know it wasn't an actual credit card.
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Yeah prob. I wish he'd just give me the cash and let me pay it myself. Paying my CC direct seems like a wonky way to do things. But I get it. There's only so much cash he can access at one time w/out breaking into investments, and also he doesn't like using zelle/apps bc it charges fees, and he hates fees. He prob. also wants to make sure it goes to my bills, since I asked for a suitcase, lol. He wants to make sure I'm not doing anything stupid with it.