Just curious if you would wife up a stripper, escort, cam model, body rub girl, porn actress, nude model, burlesque dancer, etc......
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Just curious if you would wife up a stripper, escort, cam model, body rub girl, porn actress, nude model, burlesque dancer, etc......
I don't believe in marriage, but if I was going to marry anyone right now, it would probably have to be someone in the industry. Because from what I've seen, women are pretty much as possessive as men. They just demonstrate it differently.
Assuming I did get married, yes. From this site it seems like the dancers, cammers and SWs with their heads on their shoulders are pretty sharp people, although I'm not naive enough to think this site is a representative population. I'd be looking for more of a Theodora than a person I had to "save".
I would only remarry for Love and I don't believe Love gives a solitary **** about the career or past of the person(s) involved. Wouldn't and shouldn't matter if they are the right person imo.
Sure, why not, long as we have an open marriage! :)
In my younger years, probably not, because, I held traditional views of love, romance and monogamy, which were not compatible with having a wife that performs sexual acts with other men.
However, my older, wiser 40+ version of myself is more versatile. I could turn off the 'possessive, jealous husband' switch, and my wife and I would each have freedom and flexibility to perform sexual acts with other people, whether for money or pleasure. So, like Whirlerz said, as long as we have an open marriage, my wife would be free to pursue adult entertainment or sex work - the assumption being that she has her head on straight, knows what she is getting into, approaches it with business savvy and respects herself.
Would you marry a man in the adult industry?
I don't think I would. I'm sure there are exceptions such as many members here, but it seems the ones I run into have too many issues. Commonly, I see a lot of alcohol, and drug issues. They don't seem to spend money wisely, and are always out of money at the beginning of the month. Frankly, even under the best of scenarios, marriage in the US is a pretty bad deal for men, without bringing those issues in as well. And, I think working in the sex industry hardens women toward sex and intimacy. I think this is a defense mechanism to deal with the nature of the work, so I don't blame anyone for it. I would do the same. But, I would be leery of bringing all that into a marriage. Again, I'm sure that isn't true of everyone in the industry, but I've seen way too much it to want to risk a serious relationship with someone in the industry.
I would, man or woman because I think they would understand, not judge, and not get jealous. It would have to be an open marriage, for sure unless it was someone who was fine with the fact that I'm not monogamous at this point in my life. Maybe someday I'll settle down but not yet.
appreciate hearing your thoughts. I get it - marriage/marriage to a person in adult industry - is not for everyone.
Good question!
It depends.
Honestly (and this is only because I want the man to be available for a family) I would marry a man in adult industry if he worked behind the scenes.
Like porn producer/director, club/brothel/escort agency owner, investor, adult entrepreneur like webcam software developer, etc. Men working in the trenches seem like they grind too hard (which is respectable cause you gotta do what you gotta do) to have the type of family I'm looking for.
And I do think that even though the stigma is worse for women, it exists for men too....
Friend of mine married a strippah, she was horny and he has a big dick
they have been together for 20 years now.............
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Also, I see stripping/adult entertainment/sex work as a means to an end rather than an end. You generally have, what, about a 15-year window? You don't want to be the 50-year old stripper that doesn't take the hint from everyone and does desperate things to keep her job.
So, if a woman was doing this type of work to pay for college or to raise money to start a business, I would respect that, and feel comfortable planning a future with her. But, a dancer who has no plan regarding her future would raise flags for me. When she gets older, is she going to do desperate things (that she regrets later) to grab on to her customers (no pun intended)? How will she deal with rejection when customers prefer younger girls? Has she locked up all of her self-esteem in her stripper persona? I know that a lot of my own self-esteem and self-worth is locked up in my career, but, I will not be retiring and confronting those esteem/validations issues until my 70s or 80s.
So I need to date a guy in his 40’s. Makes sense too me. I think guys in their 30’s are still trying to prove something. They still think they can have the perfect woman. They don’t realize there’s isn’t a perfect woman. I’m going to start dating young guys or older guys. 30 something’s can suck it.
When I was younger, I would have thought I would have been cool with it and then eventually freaked out. Now, I doubt it would bother me at all. Of course, I’m already happily married, so this is purely theoretical. ♂️
^ Exactly! There's no perfect person out there. Generally speaking men in their 40's usually tend to have their shit together and not have unrealistic expectations, as the younger guys tend to. Of course there are always exceptions. Each individual is different so it's hard to tell at first glance who is mature and worth your time and who's still stuck in a junior high school age mentality.
If marriage laws were fixed so men are something other then their wives property, yes, I'd have no problem marrying a sex worker.
did marry a dancer 20 plus years ago and everything was fine until her family got in the way after three years, and found out they had forged the marriage certificate in case they didnt approve which they didnt. Of course they didnt know we met while she was dancing, she had them snowed for what she did for a living.
do it again? maybe but it wouldnt have anything to do with her job pushing either yes or no
Hello!
How to start ..
I am already married to a porn actress (I will not say name for respect) and I think we are quite happy, we have a fairly normal relationship.
People need to understand that people who dance, show themselves on websites or are porn actress are WORKING ... It's a job like any other, it's about making money, living! and no .. they do not enjoy all the scenes they perform, there are situations that bother them.
At the end of the day are women and men with feelings like any other human and yes, they end up falling in love and having families ... why not?
Regards!
Marriage laws are not for men to be property but to encourage them to raise a nuclear family and not be cumming n running leaving kids all over the place for the government/tax payers to take care of
Sounds like you are trying to blame women for your lack of desire to be in a committed relationship
How many of these threads are we going to have, lol.