-
Question for the dancers
Question for the dancers... how do we contact you - to hire you? I used to use CraigsList but it looks as if it's been abandoned in the 10 years since I last used it.
So here's my question. I want to hire a dancer for a private ongoing arrangement. Basically, I put her on my payroll and it's an ongoing monthly encounter. For me specifically I'm just looking for a topless dance and absolutely nothing more.
I can't figure out how/where to post an ad for something like this. Where do you guys look for work? I'm in the Chi burbs, there has to be someone interested in this arrangement... any help or guidance would be very much appreciated. Thanks!!!
xoxox
-
Re: Question for the dancers
Why not go to a sc and do a private vip there?
-
Re: Question for the dancers
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Vyanka
Why not go to a sc and do a private vip there?
I'm recognizable.
-
Re: Question for the dancers
Idk about your area, but some clubs do have a seperate private entrance/exit. You can walk straight to vip. Contact some clubs near by.
-
Re: Question for the dancers
You're that recognizable that you can't go to a strip club? I agree with Vyanka. You could just go straight to vip, no questions asked. Many strip clubs are accommodating. If you call them and tell them that you would like to book a private room or something. If they have them they'll let you. I guess if you don't want to do that you can either hire a stripper from a private party company or hire an escort and tell her that you just want her to dance for you, nothing more, if what you claim is true.
-
Re: Question for the dancers
It sounds like you aren’t trying to go into clubs. Not sure any dancers would make house calls for anyone but a reg or someone they verified and background checked.
-
Re: Question for the dancers
Most cities have agencies that do private parties. If you get a dancer you really like just keep requesting that one.
-
Re: Question for the dancers
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ssystems312321
I'm recognizable.
only to your mom.
just go to a different club.
-
Re: Question for the dancers
-
Re: Question for the dancers
honestly, that sounds like an awesome deal if it's legit, and i'm sure lots of girls would much rather keep all your money instead of giving a chunk to the club. but no one is going to show up at a random stranger's house, and you probably shouldn't trust any girl who would around your home and valuables. so if you're too worried about your identity to go into a club first or provide real info and ID for screening then you're probably going to be S.O.L. this is something that most of us would only do with a trusted regular or after a screening process and possibly public meetup.
if you *are* willing to deal with some form of screening or public meet-up i'd try seeking arrangement, escorts, or maybe private party agencies
-
Re: Question for the dancers
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Girl Anachronism
honestly, that sounds like an awesome deal if it's legit, and i'm sure lots of girls would much rather keep all your money instead of giving a chunk to the club. but no one is going to show up at a random stranger's house, and you probably shouldn't trust any girl who would around your home and valuables. so if you're too worried about your identity to go into a club first or provide real info and ID for screening then you're probably going to be S.O.L. this is something that most of us would only do with a trusted regular or after a screening process and possibly public meetup.
if you *are* willing to deal with some form of screening or public meet-up i'd try seeking arrangement, escorts, or maybe private party agencies
Yeah that's more what I was thinking too. So what's the best way to contact someone for this potential proposal? Seems like CL is dead these days. I'm confident that after a public meeting at a Starbucks or the likes everything would be fine but that initial contact is the problem. Should I just start showing up at clubs with a my sales pitch? Thanks for the help everyone.
-
Re: Question for the dancers
i thought you can't go into clubs..? i mean yeah, meeting girls in the club is one way.. but it might take a while for some girls to warm up. it took one of my regs a year of visiting me at the club before i was comfortable going OTC for hang outs/dances. other girls will jump at the chance without much hesitation. it depends on the girl.
or with seeking arrangement you can chat with girls online, discuss what you want,then meet up with them at a starbucks or whatever. most will want some form of payment or gift on this first meeting. many will also want your real name and job for their own protection. if you're looking for a more personal and ongoing arrangement this is probably your best bet. escorts and private party dancers can also provide a GFE/stripper experience but would be more professional and expect to be paid by the hour even if no sex is involved.
-
Re: Question for the dancers
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Girl Anachronism
i thought you can't go into clubs..? i mean yeah, meeting girls in the club is one way.. but it might take a while for some girls to warm up. it took one of my regs a year of visiting me at the club before i was comfortable going OTC for hang outs/dances. other girls will jump at the chance without much hesitation. it depends on the girl.
or with seeking arrangement you can chat with girls online, discuss what you want,then meet up with them at a starbucks or whatever. most will want some form of payment or gift on this first meeting. many will also want your real name and job for their own protection. if you're looking for a more personal and ongoing arrangement this is probably your best bet. escorts and private party dancers can also provide a GFE/stripper experience but would be more professional and expect to be paid by the hour even if no sex is involved.
yes, I'd like to stay out of clubs and keep things as anonymous as possible. Real name and the likes is fine. I had a similar situation about a decade ago and the Dancer just straight took me to her house and that worked out well for both of us. I've been in Hong Kong for the past decade but trying to regroup in the US now. Even my the plates and my vehicles call attention to themselves and people would notice and it would (potentially) come back to bite me. I'll try seeking arrangement. Thanks for the help. Didn't think it'd be so difficult to find someone to dance for me. Sheesh. Really appreciate the pointers!.
Any recommended Agencies in Chicago? -- or Vegas?
-
Re: Question for the dancers
Looks like the Seeking Arrangement website requires payment via CC. I'm a cash only guy. The quest continues.
-
Re: Question for the dancers
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Spicecake
It sounds like you aren’t trying to go into clubs. Not sure any dancers would make house calls for anyone but a reg or someone they verified and background checked.
yep. that's what I'm looking for... seeing post where girls are making 100 bucks in a night. I'd be willing to drop 500 an hour. Seems like I just need to find the right person... not sure where to even start. interesting how society makes this so taboo and needlessly difficult in the US.
-
Re: Question for the dancers
With how crazy this world is today, girls are trying to be safe. Can't get annoyed at that. My bff is on seeking arrangement and she has been reached out by dudes trying to scam her, asking for her bank account to be on a payroll. Lol. Are ppl that naive to believe this shit?
I thought about this when I read your first post.
-
Re: Question for the dancers
use a pre-paid CC.
and it's not "that hard". there are plenty of girls who will go home with a guy they don't know for $ within the first night of meeting him, tons of strippers from the club do it and girls online do it. but if i were in your position with a high profile job (i assume?) and lots of fancy cars and things lying around my house... i would not want a random girl coming over who goes home with guys she doesn't know in exchange for cash. sometimes they are perfectly nice people in a bad position who need the money and are overly trusting. often they are thieves, extortionists, mental cases or have pimps, drug problems etc. you're way less likely to have trouble with a girl who cares enough to screen and be responsible/safe
-
Re: Question for the dancers
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Vyanka
With how crazy this world is today, girls are trying to be safe. Can't get annoyed at that. My bff is on seeking arrangement and she has been reached out by dudes trying to scam her, asking for her bank account to be on a payroll. Lol. Are ppl that naive to believe this shit?
I thought about this when I read your first post.
No one is a master criminal here. Boobs for cash. Not a big deal. Just looking for an initial introduction. CL used to solve this problem but times have changed
-
Re: Question for the dancers
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Girl Anachronism
use a pre-paid CC.
and it's not "that hard". there are plenty of girls who will go home with a guy they don't know for $ within the first night of meeting him, tons of strippers from the club do it and girls online do it. but if i were in your position with a high profile job (i assume?) and lots of fancy cars and things lying around my house... i would not want a random girl coming over who goes home with guys she doesn't know in exchange for cash. sometimes they are perfectly nice people in a bad position who need the money and are overly trusting. often they are thieves, extortionists, mental cases or have pimps, drug problems etc. you're way less likely to have trouble with a girl who cares enough to screen and be responsible/safe
I never said anyone would be allowed at my house. That's not happening ever. ....l'm just trying to find out where I can go to make my proposal. The other part I'm realizing is that the nearest club is at least 30 minutes away from my office and home. ...in a direction I normally don't go. Thanks for all the replies!
-
Re: Question for the dancers
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ssystems312321
No one is a master criminal here. Boobs for cash. Not a big deal. Just looking for an initial introduction. CL used to solve this problem but times have changed
I don't think she was implying you had criminal intent, but the women in the industry deal with scams and outrageously good offers (like too good to be true) all the time. So yes it's perfectly natural for that to cross her mind. Don't take it personal.
Really, this thread should probably be in Customer Conversation or 'Other Work', but we can leave it here for now.
Just be aware that this is a support forum designed for female adult industry workers.
As far as your question goes, damn Chicago is a huge city lol. Unless you are the mayor or something, you can probably find a club that can be visited without too much risk, or maybe let you in a private entrance like someone posted. Like if you are on the North Side, go to the western suburbs, etc.
I'd start at the clubs and try to meet someone who likes your kind of arrangement. Especially because that way you can actually meet them and get to know them first, rather than hiring an escort and taking whatever they send you.
-
Re: Question for the dancers
Still looking for a dancer in Chicago. No need to pay the club. I'll pay you directly. One time or on going. References and will to meet up front for initial conversation. Good for me, good for you. Please send pictures with replies.
-
Re: Question for the dancers
Dude, seriously you should find someone in a club. That way you can see the dancer and talk to her in person or like I said before, hire an escort. An escort probably wouldn't mind accommodating your request. I doubt you're going to have much luck on here. Most of us are extremely cautious about meeting up with anyone outside the club. If we do, it's usually a long-term regular who we've established a level of trust with.
-
Re: Question for the dancers
Quote:
Originally Posted by
WendiStarr
Dude, seriously you should find someone in a club. That way you can see the dancer and talk to her in person or like I said before, hire an escort. An escort probably wouldn't mind accommodating your request. I doubt you're going to have much luck on here. Most of us are extremely cautious about meeting up with anyone outside the club. If we do, it's usually a long-term regular who we've established a level of trust with.
Thanks for reiterating that. Again. That scenario won't work for me.
I can meet a Starbucks or library not a club. I have a very storied professional image and job that negates my ability to stroll into a strip joint.
1. There aren't clubs close to my house. Nearest is 35 miles away. Even taking my cars in near one is a hassle.
2. Professionally, being seen in these environments is detrimental to my professional career. A career that is not easily replaced.
So since you restated your stance allow me to restated mine.
I'm looking for someone that wants to supplement their income in an ongoing fashion.
Just looking for topless dancing in a neutral environment. This person isn't coming near my home.
I can meet in a public place and if you want to leave, do so. There's nothing about this that doesn't want the best for both parties involved. Dude, seriously.
I've had a few people PM me. Thanks for the interest. Hoping to find the right person asap. If you are interested send me a PM. I've got another 3 grand a month to spend on the right person.
-
Re: Question for the dancers
So you don't want to go to a club because you don't want any witnesses. You dont want anyone to identify you if you are pulling a scam.
Putting a girl on payroll, do you own the company? What about taxes? Is this fraud?
And if you were so rich, then you easily could have an assistant go out and find the girl at strip club & make this offer.
Why did you have to go and hide out in Japan for a decade? Were you waiting for the statue of limitations to run out?
Cause someone who has hid out in another country for a decade isn't going to be so well known here.
-
Re: Question for the dancers
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ssystems312321
Thanks for reiterating that. Again. That scenario won't work for me.
I can meet a Starbucks or library not a club. I have a very storied professional image and job that negates my ability to stroll into a strip joint.
1. There aren't clubs close to my house. Nearest is 35 miles away. Even taking my cars in near one is a hassle.
2. Professionally, being seen in these environments is detrimental to my professional career. A career that is not easily replaced.
So since you restated your stance allow me to restated mine.
I'm looking for someone that wants to supplement their income in an ongoing fashion.
Just looking for topless dancing in a neutral environment. This person isn't coming near my home.
I can meet in a public place and if you want to leave, do so. There's nothing about this that doesn't want the best for both parties involved. Dude, seriously.
I've had a few people PM me. Thanks for the interest. Hoping to find the right person asap. If you are interested send me a PM. I've got another 3 grand a month to spend on the right person.
LMAO driving 35 miles is NOT a hassle, when living in such an area like Chicago. Especially, late at night after traffic has died down. Cars as in more than one also means you can afford to hire a lime or take an Uber if you don't want to drive. But guessing taking 35 to an hour out of your time to find what you are looking for is too much effort which really means it isn't a priority to you.
And what if you do get a girl to fall for your offer. What if the coffee shop or Library(lmao) wants to meet at is 35 or more miles a way. Are you going to throw a fit & say that is too far too?
If it is such a detriment to your career why risk it? Wouldn't having her on your payroll be proof to out you sometime in the future? Leaving a paper trail like that is stupid. Paying cash isn't. Call up an escort, pay her to do some topless dancing, more of them would be perfectly happy to make that much money for just topless dancing.
You really want to put them on the pay roll so you can NOT pay them right then & there. STalling them for weeks saying the paper work is in but it all takes time. Meanwhile you have their full name, address & ss#. In which you can pull an Identity scam and all kinds of stuff. Cause men who need to keep things private & unknown do NOT leave a paper trail & use CASH.