Need advice on VIP selling!
I’ve been dancing for about a month now, and I’ve noticed that I always have this problem when it comes to trying to sell vips, and I wanted some advice on what to do in these situations!
Basically a lot of times when I sit with a guy, after a minute or two of talking if he hasn’t asked (a lot of times they ask me first) I’ll ask them about dances. I always mention the vip first and then I’ll mention the regular $40 dances if they seem iffy about it.
So my problem is, I always get the question when I mention VIP dances “What can you do for me in there” and 9.9 times out of 10 they mean they want extras in there. Some dancers at my club told me to just be like “come in and see” or something along those lines but that NEVER works, the guys always want me to tell them exactly what I’ll do for them in there and then they’ll buy.
A lot of dancers at my club told me to just tell them what they wanna hear and once I get in there just don’t do it and if they get upset about it just get up and leave since they pay up front for dances and we don’t allow refunds. But I feel like just lying and playing people out of their money might back fire on me at some point, but at the same time I feel like if these guys are coming to the strip club expecting to get blowed in the back then they should get played? I don’t know!
Any advice y’all could give me on this would be much appreciated! I’ve looked through a lot of threads about this stuff but a lot of it seems to be old, or just really doesn’t work anymore. If it helps, our VIPs are 10 mins for $100 or 30 mins for $250 but I’ve never sold a 30 min and I know nothing about how to sell those. Thanks in advance :)
Re: Need advice on VIP selling!
Never lie about doing extras up there. For one, it's dishonest and can get you into trouble and two, it could be an undercover.
It really depends on what you offer..I offer two way touching in VIP, so if they start getting handsy in the regular dance area, I say something like "that's what VIP is for" and get really teasy about it. Or I'll say we can do a bit more up there, let's see where the night leads us. However if they straight up ask for sex or a bj, I won't waste my time and I'll just say sorry that's not offered, I don't have time and energy to dodge hands and dicks and it's not worth it honestly.
I've come to a place where I really only wanna sit up there for an hour with respectful guys who understand what a stripclub is for and tell the other ones to visit an escort.
There are definitely respectful chill guys who want sensuality and company vs wham bam.
so I'll just concentrate on stacking dances til I come across them
Re: Need advice on VIP selling!
yeah.. do nooootttttt lie about doing extras to get them in the back. even if it's not an undercover you're going to have to deal with a really pissed off dude with a boner who is going to try his best to fuck you.. and understandably so since you verbally consented and he paid. if you admit to lying and say you aren't really gonna do it he will lash out and who do god knows what. maybe he'll just leave in a huff but maybe he's crazy and will try and hurt you. OR he can go to the manager and try to get you fired. not worth it. trust me because i've been in your exact position when i was new and girls told me to do the same exact thing.
unfortunately there's not a whole lot you can do to sell a VIP to a guy who came to an extras-friendly club to get extras other than save your energy and focus on other customers
Re: Need advice on VIP selling!
Like we had a rabbit says, offer two tiers of contact. One way and two way. Or air dance vs. No contact lap dance. If the laws don't allow. Focus on privacy, exclusivity, and fun.
Most importantly believe in what you're selling. Private fun time with your fine self. Does he want to be out in the open with all the shmucks or with you. Be a used car salesman the Buick is so much better than the Chevy, right?