What kind of requests should we be ready for?
Hi, I'm part of a couple and we were recently accepted as models on Streamate. We are going to have our first show this Friday, Feb 2nd. We just got a nice webcam and will be camming in our room. We are in an open relationship, so there won't be a lot of jealousy issues. We have a couple toys (a vibrator and remote controlled vibrator) and I have a few lingerie outfits, etc. I want us to be very prepared for our first show.
I would like to know what kind of requests we should be prepared to receive so we can figure out what all we will be comfortable with or not comfortable with doing. What kind of requests are common? Are there any really crazy ones we wouldn't think of?
Thanks!
Re: What kind of requests should we be ready for?
If you can dream it, it will be requested eventually. When I first started, I was shocked by some of the depraved, odd requests....now I just assume every man has one. You will learn to be flexible as you do this longer, and, very importantly: dont be afraid to say no. Some of my more interesting requests: a guy obsessed with fuzzy sweaters, copious amount of dudes who want to call you 'mommy', farting into a mason jar (gotta love that Chaturbate crowd sometimes...they are a creative bunch), bug crushing with high heels, and one guy who literally bought a half hour show just so he could stare at my face....no nudity, no talking, just him on the other end whacking it while i sat there like a statue on cam. Some guys will be trolls and come up with ridiculous things to try and bother you....dont let it. Others just try to push you to your limit to see what you are willing to do....always remember that YOU are in charge. Be prepared for the weirdness, cause its coming your way lol.
Re: What kind of requests should we be ready for?
assuming you're a B/G couple, you should expect requests for specific positions and lots of blowjobs (including deep throating, sloppy BJ, gagging/facefucking, etc). your customers are probably going to want a cum shot, but that isn't realistic for a guy to do in every show, so you'll have to decide how to go about offering that. (maybe in block sessions only, or if your customer tips extra gold, etc.) also have your guy practice doing typical porn POV camera angles (BJ from up top, doggy from behind, etc) while keeping a steady hand. it makes the show much more interesting than just keeping it on a tripod from one angle the whole time.
you may also get some BDSM/kink requests, like spanking, choking, face slapping, hair pulling, as well as cuckolding.
as for crazy requests, really depends on what "crazy" means to you. you'll encounter fetishists of all kinds, as well as a range of roleplay requests. you'll probably get some really random/off-the-wall requests too, but those can sometimes be the most fun (for example, i recall the guy who wanted me to crossdress my partner in a frilly dress and sun hat, and then suck on his toes, lol). it's good to be open-minded but know what your hard boundaries are, and don't feel pressured to do anything you're not comfortable with. if either of you feel unsure about a show request in the moment, i would just politely decline it so you can have a chance to talk it over more with your partner later. you'll figure it out as you go, like we all did. :)
i briefly did couples camming several years ago, before tip vibes and remote controlled toys were a thing, so i don't know how common it is for guys to request that.
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Hope your guy likes fishnets. Our oddest request was for my hubby to dress up as a French maid (as best he could) where he pretended to clean a doctor's office where I had been left as a patient. I had to "wake up to the sound of his cleaning" and get turned on by this.
TL;DR, be prepared for anything.
Re: What kind of requests should we be ready for?
Like others have said, there's no way to anticipate all of the things guys will ask you for, it's too varied. Just a word of advice for when you get a request that you're unsure about (assuming that it's in line with the rules of your site): if your objection is ethical, emotional or physical, say no. Doing anything that you 100% don't want to do feels fucking awful and will make you feel weird for the rest of your shift if not longer. I really think this contributes to burn out and larger issues down the road. However, if your only objection is that you're unfamiliar with the fetish or don't know how to do it, you should always take that show because that's how you learn and expand your abilities. Consider it paid training.
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The bug guy was the greatest, I actually thank that guy because that's how me and Dahlia got to be buds, shit talking him.... ;)
But how weird?!? Step on bugs in your high heels? He wanted gross shit like cockroaches too. I looked at the Streamate TOS and it says no animals on camera ever! So technically it would be a rule violation, also it is #1 nasty to bring live bugs in your house on purpose ewww! and #2 even nastier to think that some guy out there wanks to, and gets off from, something like that?!?!
So yeah put on your bulletproof panties hun! Haha
The thought process for that guy:
"My deepest, secretest fetish ever is to see a Transgendered lady in high heels step on live cockroaches, on the internet, in a closeup of just the feet and bugs, with good sound so I can hear them pop. Instead of spending my money with a Psychologist on the therapy I need, I will instead pay it to Streamate, on my Visa"
Re: What kind of requests should we be ready for?
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JenniTS
The bug guy was the greatest, I actually thank that guy because that's how me and Dahlia got to be buds, shit talking him.... ;)
But how weird?!? Step on bugs in your high heels? He wanted gross shit like cockroaches too. I looked at the Streamate TOS and it says no animals on camera ever! So technically it would be a rule violation, also it is #1 nasty to bring live bugs in your house on purpose ewww! and #2 even nastier to think that some guy out there wanks to, and gets off from, something like that?!?!
So yeah put on your bulletproof panties hun! Haha
The thought process for that guy:
"My deepest, secretest fetish ever is to see a Transgendered lady in high heels step on live cockroaches, on the internet, in a closeup of just the feet and bugs, with good sound so I can hear them pop. Instead of spending my money with a Psychologist on the therapy I need, I will instead pay it to Streamate, on my Visa"
Sometimes those guys just want the crunch sound. I smashed a lot of cereal and potato chips back in the day.
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Ikr like have you ever seen those Youtube pimple popping videos that get millions of views?! WTF with that?
People like all kinds of weird shit.
Re: What kind of requests should we be ready for?
Does NOT matter, you talk it over before hand with each other what exactly your boundaries are & establish that before ever logging on.
You do what you are comfortable with & enjoy. You stick with your boundaries no matter what because in the end it will save your sanity & your relationship.