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From Dancer to SB
I have made the plunge! My regular of over a year, who I have been seeing outside the club just as long, and have become GF/BF but pretty much sugaring has asked me to consider stopping dancing. He was coming into the club twice a week and we see each other outside too (always paid per our arrangement, but I would see him for free too-yeah yeah yeah). It was getting a little old at the club, and super hard for him with his job. I am also pretty tired of the club having danced for ten years. So now, i don't dance (see him the 2 days that I did) and he pays me $$$ a week. I also said that I may dance once a month, since I know I will get the itch! It's less than I made from him when I danced, but I know that money was not sustainable. The amount is still about 3x what I made as a high earning dancer in general. He told me that this amount is LT sustainable. I really enjoy his company and care about him, so I don't even feel like it's work (it's not). I do plan to try to find a PT vanilla job or go back to school as well.
Any suggestions, advice from ladies who have been in my situation? I am feeling a tad lost/spoiled without working at the club.
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Re: From Dancer to SB
wow congrats! what an awesome situation, you really hit the jackpot as it sounds like you genuinely like this person
i would think all you'd have to do is take up some new hobbies or enroll in a few courses that interest you to avoid feeling bored and lazy and unfulfilled. and maybe for the rare instances you *do* go back to the club, you could do short weekend strip-trips to places that sound fun? you can explore a new city, scratch your stripper itch and not have to worry too much about making money which gives you so many options, as opposed to those of us who take trips with money being the #1 motivator. maybe you guys could even do that together idk
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Re: From Dancer to SB
My advice...take a giant chunk of the money he's giving & stash it in the bank for a rainy day. There is a chance that as soon as another girl hears about how good you have it, she may steal him away. & Unfortunately a lot of men can get "kid in a candy store" syndrome when it comes to young pretty women.
& Also, hit the books. Use this golden miracle to advance your place in life so you never have to work low paying jobs ever again. You have to fit into his world anyways so you have to be educated and cultured. His peers might be rude to you because you're young ...you need to be someone he can show off & be proud of.....
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Re: From Dancer to SB
Lol, luckily he likes older! Or at least not in their 20's. Yes, I definitely stick to a strict financial plan which involves saving a lot. I've also always wanted to travel dance and this would be a fun opportunity now!