A Fun Post About Getting In The Mood (Phone Girls)
So...I'm waiting for calls, trying to get my head into the game, but really, I'm SOOOOOOOOOOO SLEEPEEEEE......
I'm eating a watermelon puree popsicle (because it's convenient and I need fruit). Then I start to allow my brain to think of naughty things to do with the pop...how I want to lick it, how juicy it might sound in my mouth. Then I start thinking of fruit salad story prompts when I'm inevitably asked, "What are you doing?"
Now the brain is starting to wake up, and I'm feeling a bit more confident. What are some of your ways of getting into that head space, when your reality is VERY different?
It takes longer for women to "get there" anyway (guys are already "there"). What are some of your go-to moves/tricks/prompts that take you from bedhead/morning coffee to sex panther? (Meow!!!)
Re: A Fun Post About Getting In The Mood (Phone Girls)
I've always thought it was a bit strange when phone actresses and cam models think they have to have a real orgasm (who can do that 25 or more times a day anyway, especially on a private based site? I'd be exhausted)! To me getting in the mood and trying to evoke actual sexual feelings for these callers is a recipe for burnout.
I consider myself an actress both on cam and in phone sex. If I had to get "in the mood" I'd never make any money lol. I find I have to be a bit over-the-top and exaggerated to get most of my customers off. If it's not fake enough they complain I'm not enthusiastic. I put on the Marilyn Monroe persona (or whichever persona fits their fantasy) and they love it and keep calling/camming with me.
Re: A Fun Post About Getting In The Mood (Phone Girls)
Re: A Fun Post About Getting In The Mood (Phone Girls)
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laurielegs
I've always thought it was a bit strange when phone actresses and cam models think they have to have a real orgasm (who can do that 25 or more times a day anyway, especially on a private based site? I'd be exhausted)! To me getting in the mood and trying to evoke actual sexual feelings for these callers is a recipe for burnout.
I consider myself an actress both on cam and in phone sex. If I had to get "in the mood" I'd never make any money lol. I find I have to be a bit over-the-top and exaggerated to get most of my customers off. If it's not fake enough they complain I'm not enthusiastic. I put on the Marilyn Monroe persona (or whichever persona fits their fantasy) and they love it and keep calling/camming with me.
I hear ya! It's all VERY draining at times. But the fact is, lots of them want to hear us getting off. No, for the most part, I'm not really getting off, I'm faking it, but all that huffing/puffing/sighing/squealing is TIRESOME.
I'm guessing...breaks in between draining callers. Some of the guys are a lot of fun. They get it. They come prepared with their fantasy ju jour, or like one I had today, they giggle and laugh along. I like when I get a guy who can genuinely make me laugh along.
Re: A Fun Post About Getting In The Mood (Phone Girls)
I know how to fake it...what I meant was, what are some of the mental exercises/gymnastics you do to get yourself in that sexy head space?
Yeah, you can put on a sexy voice and whatnot, but if your head isn't in the game, then it's going to come across when you run out of things to say, or you sound bored or weird. And I've had guys telling me that some of the girls sound bored or weird.
Any actress can fake emotion, but the pros know how to become their characters. And that's on the phone, definitely on cam, or dancing in a club...unless you are your own character, and you love to be a horny exhibitionist. I know some girls/ladies are always "on."