Seeking former models as friends and transfering to vanilla life.
Hello! My camming time is almost up and, honestly, going back to vanilla, no sex work life scares me a little. Are there any former models, who have successfuly made the transition? I would really love to talk to some because transfering back seems like kind of a lonely road, too. Thanks!
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I have gone back and fourth between vanilla jobs and camming, but got back into camming a few years ago. Planning an exit strategy where I can still remain self employed! More than welcome to send me a pm if you need to talk, need help with a resume, etc. A lot of girls here helped me with my resume when I was re-entering the vanilla workforce.
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porcelaingirl
Hello! My camming time is almost up and, honestly, going back to vanilla, no sex work life scares me a little. Are there any former models, who have successfuly made the transition? I would really love to talk to some because transfering back seems like kind of a lonely road, too. Thanks!
Over the years I've struggled thinking I needed a job to be considered successful. Now I am full-time self employed with online businesses that don't need me to be present all the time and I went back to camming. plus adding in investing.
Once you know which direction you really want to take for yourself, the transition becomes easier. For me it finally hit me when I took one semester of college and really took a good look at what my college and career options where. it put in a place of do I give up 15 years of working for myself, or do I try and squeeze and explain about 2 years of employment with a ginormous gap.
Self employment and running a business there is no need to explain your gaps and breaks, hiatus to anyone, you just pick up get resourceful and keep moving.
So whatever direction you choose if you really want it , things will fall into place as long as you are taking massive action.
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I'll add
my career was definitely not what I visioned for myself. I really thought I would have a decent career being in the porn industry, being some type of famous pornstar. instead my porn career ended as fast as I got into it. I got a handful of videos online and then another handful of videos that were shot and never even got published. the path of being porn star did a number on me mentally.
That I sometimes feel like I just settled or that I some convince myself I am not built for porn so I should just live a more simpler life.
I settled and put myself in situations of making money because of my fears and I don't regret them I am just sometimes sad over them. So the hard part is creating a new path that I am passionate about and at the same satisfy those needs that you typically feed from a personality that is sex driven.
There is no perfect blueprint for any of it.
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I feel like I've finally found my calling. It's writing. That's why I want to go to university to get BA and find job in publishing or be self-employed, like a blogger something. I don't know yet. Maybe I'll come back to camming one day but so far I know that I want to complete studies, feeling safe and happy. I'm proud that I'm a camgirl but I just don't want others messing up my life because of it or making me feel unsafe, you know. ;)
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porcelaingirl
I feel like I've finally found my calling. It's writing. That's why I want to go to university to get BA and find job in publishing or be self-employed, like a blogger something. I don't know yet. Maybe I'll come back to camming one day but so far I know that I want to complete studies, feeling safe and happy. I'm proud that I'm a camgirl but I just don't want others messing up my life because of it or making me feel unsafe, you know. ;)
Well being a blogger you don't need a BA. a good send of writing, but you can pretty much outsource editors from freelance websites. but college does give a different experience which is typically a place where you will find yourself.
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Yeah, finding myself would be nice. Also, I'm getting BA because blogging is not the only form of writing I'm interested in. Writing fiction is what I also like. And I could use a pinch of journalism, too. I feel like writing is a good choice because even if I don't go back to sex work, I can still speak about it, give voices to those, who often are not heard etc. Also, no one can judge me for speaking up because I've been a part of the community for a while, too. I'm bit just some civilian, judging from the outside. Or I could write some awesome erotica.