Can you make good money by escorting?
I don’t think I have what it takes to audition and be a stripper due to the fact that I’m very shy in front of large crowds. What’s another way to hustle and make big money? I’ve considered escorting and want to know what’s the best way to be successful ?
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Hello there,
I’ve been dancing for almost 2 years now. I grew up extremely shy and insecure about my small breasts but I decided to become a dancer anyway. I was extremely nervous going to dance on stage but in all honesty once you’re up there you just have to fake it. Make eye contact with the gentlemen sitting in the front row and smile.
All you can do is fake it! I have bad anxiety but I do breathing exercises and work through it.
I also escort. I find escorting is better in terms of clientele. I like that the clients find you through your ads/social media platforms. I’m much better one on one with clients and not have to “convince” them to give me money.
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Thanks Valerie I’m also more about one on one. Large crowds trigger my anxiety. I’m scared to run out of moves on stage lol.
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I don't like crowds and am extremely antisocial in my actual life. It is pretty easy to act different in the strip club. Once you know how to sell it is pretty easy to stay selling unless you work at a shitty club with people that just come in to look and not spend mostly. But that isn't every club for sure.
If you're really about the one on one you shouldn't have a hard time selling dances/VIPs. It took me longer to figure out how to work guys in groups, but even that isn't too hard to get the hang of.
As far as stage, most people and clubs really don't give a damn. There are stage centric clubs, but I'd avoid them as a newbie if you don't already know how to move yet.
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Being super shy and reserved is what made stripping appealing to me in the first place. It lets you be someone else.
As far as escorting, I think as long as you stay mid-range, it's a much healthier environment in which to work bc of no booze, no super late hours, more autonomy over who you see/when/how and no drunk idiots. The big $$$$ is in big cities but the competition there is steep and connections to get an "im" are helpful. Ads are easy enough to put up but they don't always yield return and a lot of guys expect you to show your face.
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Learn how to read people ("street smarts") if you choose to escort.
The old saying is "you never hear the bullet with your name on it." Due to the nature of escorting you have to screen very cautiously to avoid getting hurt or worse.
To answer the question yes there is money in escorting but if you don't manage your wealth wisely and avoid pitfalls of the trade....escorting can leave you worse off than when you started. Don't be a statistic.
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Not to be judgmental or condemning, but I seriously don't know - isn't escorting prostitution?
Only reason I bring it up is, if it is prostitution, then there's one huge difference between stripping and escorting. And that will define what you're ultimately more comfortable doing.
Again, I have zero knowledge so I could be completely wrong. If so please set me straight! lol
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txgirl
Not to be judgmental or condemning, but I seriously don't know - isn't escorting prostitution?
Only reason I bring it up is, if it is prostitution, then there's one huge difference between stripping and escorting. And that will define what you're ultimately more comfortable doing.
Again, I have zero knowledge so I could be completely wrong. If so please set me straight! lol
Escorting is defined (legally) as the selling of time or negotiating a rate for a period of time.
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Originally Posted by
txgirl
Not to be judgmental or condemning, but I seriously don't know - isn't escorting prostitution?
Only reason I bring it up is, if it is prostitution, then there's one huge difference between stripping and escorting. And that will define what you're ultimately more comfortable doing.
Again, I have zero knowledge so I could be completely wrong. If so please set me straight! lol
The average person will see it as such. Around these parts EVERYTHING related to adult industry is viewed as prostitution.
There is a fine line.
If a person is engaging in escorting, they have to be careful with how they behave and how they speak to prospective clients so as not to get caught up legally in a prostitution charge.
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escorting generally refers to prostitution IME
nowadays i think the only girls making good money by *actually* "escorting" are strippers who go out on paid dates with their regulars, especially in places like vegas where it's common for guys to pay for arm candy
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I just find the question kinda silly. Of course you can make good money escorting considering all you will have to put up with and do to make that money... If you haven't even tried stripping yet I'd do that first... See if the money is enough for you. Generally escorts' work is illegal in the US.
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Girl Anachronism
nowadays i think the only girls making good money by *actually* "escorting" are strippers who go out on paid dates with their regulars, especially in places like vegas where it's common for guys to pay for arm candy
But its always been like that right? What stripper (very few) arent doing "extras" I am thinking of touring as a dancer since I'd never do it in my home city and hopefully, the process is simple but my main goal is to establish high paid clients that turn into actual relationship$$.
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ZeroSugarMonster
The big $$$$ is in big cities but the competition there is steep and connections to get an "im" are helpful. Ads are easy enough to put up but they don't always yield return and a lot of guys expect you to show your face.
You mean cities like NYC and LA? So true but sadly, its hard to make friends/acquaintances even in the vanilla world and while there are different ways one could go about it as an escort, it cant be easy. I'd bet most "networking" with other girls goes on at strip clubs where dancers also act as escorts.. or models, etc. who do the same on the side.
But if you're just an escort, your only means to meet other escorts would perhaps only be through an agency you both happen to work at