Hustling customers who want extras
So i just started working at a nude club, first nude club i ever worked at which i also heard bad stuff about the area but ill get to that later. First night there which was supposed to be a busy night but it ended up being a slow night. And nothing but cheap customers- because of the cheaper vips that night, plus everyone want extras!!! Which im used to hearing. I was so tempted to say lets go to the back than as soon as they started expecting to much walk out with there money. Never done it before but was super tempted. Have any of you ladies done so? How do you hustle around extras? Im getting anxiety just thinking of going back.
Lastly the club was in the city of industry
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I don't know if this is helpful, but I gave a nude LD to a guy last shift, and when it was over, I asked if he wanted another. He asked what else he'd get if he bought another - heavily implying extras - and I said you'll get more of this. A hot, legal lapdance. And he bought two more. Sometimes they're just asking to see what they can "get away with," but they'll end up buying non-extras dances anyway when you turn them down.
If you can tell that a guy is going to keep pushing your boundaries, though, I would say it isn't worth it to deal with him at all.
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Talk sexy but don't make explicit promises.
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I would not promise or agree to anything... you never know who the customer really is..too risky.
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The biggest clubs in Industry are like that. I don’t think those places can be saved. If rules suddenly became strictly enforced, I bet there would be a big decline in customers and the highest earning girls would suddenly stop making money. Some of those guys even make the 40 minute drive to Paradise, Bliss, and Synn because they know things happen there for sure that don’t happen back in their hometown club.
I found that a lot of these guys can’t be convinced. They are strictly looking for more. Now if a guy brags about all this money he supposedly has and keeps saying he wants to meet you out, I found that shaming them (without being too mean) has worked for me a few times. Mention how fun your dances are he won’t regret it, and surely if he has money like he says then a hundred or a few more won’t hurt.
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I’d just talk around it. I honestly don’t like guys who explicitly ask for extras (i.e for bj). Guys usually ask what are they gonna get, so i keep it vague. When they ask for more details i make it joke to distract them. “You wired or something, asking a million questions like a fed” then they get baffled and i dragged them to the register. Then keep them distracted in the room, oops times up. Keep guys distracted for an hour plus is the real challenge
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I wouldn't take a guy to the back that asked for extras blatantly. Never promise anything, be extremely vague.
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Yes, vagueness can really save you. If you always are "well...maybe I don't know, I need to get to know you more..." or "I dunno, lets do another vip hour and talk more" or whatever... that's usually the only way to deal with those dudes, I have found its a HUGE chance these guys will always be cheap for anything NOT extras too.. like they aren't gonna be getting hours in VIP tipping thousands and then think you're going to f*ck them... that is like less than 5% of the time you find a guy like that. So honestly if you're with a guy that wants extras but he also wants to see where he can get with you, just do a bunch of dances and move onto the next. They usually aren't worth much time or effort and i try and jus tell these dudes to f*ck off usually for wasting my time.
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If I have never seen a guy in the club before I'm hesitant with what I say. The most common question is "what do I get in VIP ?" My response is you will have a great time. If it's someone I have seen around a bit I'll let them know what's on the menu.
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Youtube "balloon swallowing trick" learn how to do that, then when the guy asks what happens in the vip you say "I'm going to show you the most impressive deepthroating you've ever seen". Once in the vip you preform the balloon trick. Which honestly does look crazy impressive but its all an illusion. I havent tried this yet but I'm going to soon. I think it will be hilarious.
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SugarCookies
The biggest clubs in Industry are like that. I don’t think those places can be saved. If rules suddenly became strictly enforced, I bet there would be a big decline in customers and the highest earning girls would suddenly stop making money. Some of those guys even make the 40 minute drive to Paradise, Bliss, and Synn because they know things happen there for sure that don’t happen back in their hometown club.
Agree - At my old club in West LA we used to tell those types of guys "this isn't COI, you need to go back there if that's what you're looking for". Sometimes they left, sometimes they accepted the boundaries and stayed and sometimes they found a dancer who was willing to give them what they wanted. I always remember the fear of a regular dancing with an extras girl - you just knew you'd lost him forever! lol
I wonder what would happen if every girl in every strip club in the country agreed to no more extras. Would they guys stop coming in, or would they accept it as the new norm and business would simply continue on...
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just get out of the city of industry if you're not comfortable with extras cuz that's what that area is known for. i don't agree with intentionally deceiving customers because it can be really scary to spend all that time with someone who is trying to basically rape you... and walking out before time is up in a club like that where they don't care about extras can get you fired, or get them a refund
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Don't EVER promise something you have no intention of giving, especially regarding something as contentious as extras. In a club where extras are the norm, you will lose any battles over money that result from you ripping-off customers (even the ones that deserve it) -- not to mention the significant risk to your safety.
Digging back into older posts here, I have seen some interesting threads on how to make money in extras-heavy clubs. Search function turned up this one for instance https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...tras+club+make
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just get out of the city of industry if you're not comfortable with extras cuz that's what that area is known for. i don't agree with intentionally deceiving customers because it can be really scary to spend all that time with someone who is trying to basically rape you... and walking out before time is up in a club like that where they don't care about extras can get you fired, or get them a refund
Satin and Knockouts (the only two topless clubs in the area) are cleaner. The champagne rooms have glass windows. But even then the $$ potential isn't the best compared to a few other clubs like Sam's. Too many cheap dudes in the SGV.
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We do private parties and that question is standard. We do bachelor parties and birthday parties where most of the guys are pretty drunk and the guys think they have a shot at getting extras. Many will ask our drivers about arranging extras. But a lot of times they will ask us while giving them a lap dance. The key is to make it clear immediately "NO". I typically tell them "NO, a lap dance is as far is this goes baby".If they continue just make it clear that you are a professional exotic dancer, not an escort. Most will only ask once and leave it alone when you tell them flat out no. Nobody likes rejection.
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Don't hahaha they're usually a waste of time
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Thanks ladies i wont go back, so any other clubs you ladies rec?
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I work at one of those clubs and your right they are cleaner. What are some better clubs you recommend? Im still scared to try sams
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Sometimes they will keep buying dances or tip more hoping that the $ will change your mind. Some of them resort to the sob story pity party about how their cheating gf just dumped them, their dog died, anniversary of a loved one's death, or say that it's their birthday and nobody cared, etc, hoping that you'll feel bad and give in. It's hard to hustle customers who are deadset on getting extra's at the club and can be an annoying waste of your time. If they seem to be the deadset type I will just tell them that I don't do that and walk away.