How to answer the "what turns you on" question
What do you say when customers ask what turns you on? I can see that getting in this line of discussion would be helpful to getting them in the mood to buy more dances and stuff but I'm usually at a loss for what to say. I'm honestly not that sexual in my personal life so I don't really have turn-ons besides like, incredibly attractive people, which I'm not gonna say to some ugly dude at the strip club. The two things I've been saying are chest/shoulders, because most guys aren't shy about their shoulders and it's a body part I grip during my dances, and if they have good hair I say hair. I definitely don't want to say anything they might try to use on me. One guy told me he's into BDSM stuff and asked me what I'm into and I gave a kinda vague answer that I'm open-minded and then he tried to get aggressive/dominant with me during a dance and I had to shut that shit down real quick.
Anyway, what sexy answer do you give to this question that inspires them to spend more money on you but not try to do something gross to you?
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"Money!!!!"
Of course you can't say that. (At least I couldn't get away with saying that - maybe another girl could).
Your question struck a chord with me because it was one of the most hated questions by customers. I always found it really distracting and almost depressing.
I wish I had a more helpful answer for you
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I do. I'm always honest. Why lie? I'm notoriously bad at it and my tits are big enough that I can get away with almost anything except kicking a puppy and genocide.
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I like to keep it pretty simple when asked this question. Use it to your advantage to sell more dances. When I get asked this, I just give them a flirty smile and say "Well, to be honest it really turns me on knowing I am making you feel so good with my sexy body rubbing on you", or some variation along those lines. It makes the guy think you are really into dancing for them so it almost always equals more dances if you are in the back room and if you are trying to get them to the back room, just rephrase it to turn it into a sale.
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Honestly i'm sure I've said money turns on me LMFAO. I mean....thats how u get them to spend it ;D
maybe even something along the lines of
customer: what turns u on
me: money...what turns u on?
customers: answers
me: okay so turn me on so I can turn u on.
its an honest answer }:D
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"Mmmm i'm turned on by body odor, social awkwardness, receding hairlines, and guys who are old enough to be my dad/grandpa/great grandpa!" But seriously I just lie and say the typical cheesy stuff like "Getting to give a sexy man like you a dance is what turns me on". Anyone who asks that lame question isn't hard to fool and flatter, honestly.
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When talk turns to bondage or the like, I try to be playful about it. Sometimes you can get them to give submission (to you) a try, or you may get lucky and find yourself with a customer who is genuinely into that. Don't be afraid to try and work that to your advantage. Fetish guys are fun!
Otherwise, if you have private rooms rather than just open dance areas .... try leaning in conspiratorially to say in his ear, 'Privacy.' It's a more subtle approach, but it plants a seed, and you may be able to work him further from there.
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Piper328
“Backrubs” :D
YAS! Backrubs and footrubs! This is gold! Nothing better then getting paid to get a massage lmao.
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A persons smile...can I dance and put a smile on your face?
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I literally say money,that makes them laugh and the conversation turns into how much for a CR or LD for me. And if they're just as cocky as me to answer like "no seriously." I'll still reply like "you only find out things like that in private." or whatever comes to mind.
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cyberstripper
YAS! Backrubs and footrubs! This is gold! Nothing better then getting paid to get a massage lmao.
Yup I ALWAYS do this. It's also basically the only forms of contact we're allowed because the liquor board views them as non-sexual... nobody tell them about foot guys lol