Questions about Snapchat, Phone Numbers, and Customers money outside the club
Hello everyone, I'm brand new to dancing, and its been fun as hell but I feel like I'm too nice. Yet, it works because I've been doing well, but I wanted to ask because I don't know if I messed up giving a customer my snapchat. I know the answer is most likely yes, but I was curious if someone out there has an amazing outside the club strategy/character for keeping them spending money without physical contact lol. I'm sure it's impossible, but I literally googled best dancer forum and here I am. Have any of you given a phone number yet still been able to keep the money coming with boundry strong? I get theres the older gentlemen who just wanna be seen with a beautiful women and will shower them with gifts just for company, but what about the 25 yr old nerdy guy (who I gave my snap too :\ ) thats been giving you great amounts of money, then ofcourse snaps to meet outside the club. I can tell he's just a lil dweeby homebody, has no idea what he's doing, and I know for a fact there's no way he could handle my psycotic ass. Its like I feel bad for him, but don't worry girls, I'm definitely not going to meet outside the club but it's also why I'm here. I'm just curious if there is a right way of doing it? Thank you so much for reading and I'm glad to be part of the community :)
Re: Questions about Snapchat, Phone Numbers, and Customers money outside the club
Best way of doing it IMO is not doing it, AT ALL.
A separate phone number via Google Voice, on a burner phone, is one thing. It's not traceable and therefore much easier to keep club business separate from your personal life. Social media with your picture on it, however ... I think you're a fool to underestimate anyone that you meet in a club. Many customers are harmless, but just as many (if not more) are very, very good at pretending to be harmless. Then you have the ones that seem cool but are just unstable and get ornery when you start laying down boundaries with them.
Short-term - those accounts can easily be traced back to you and more info on you could be found than you would ever want a customer to have. It's one more way to invite stalkers. Long-term (you may or may not have a problem with this depending on your post-dancing plans) - Advertising on social media that you were in the adult industry can cause serious damage to your image in the eyes of prospective straight employers.