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Lap Dances
This may be a “dumb” question but I need lap dance pointers. I’m a newbie in LA working at a nude club and I’ve been having trouble getting more than one dance per customer.
My question is: Do you actually make contact with the customer’s lap/body, do you “grind” on the customer? I know the law varies for contact amounts in each state, but in California you can have physical contact during the dance. I have been dancing somewhat in front of the customer with occasional ass to lap contact. Should I be straddling them or grinding on them? I don’t really get to observe other dancers, I feel rude staring and they are not the friendliest.
Also, YouTube hasn’t been helpful for me in this area, it’s all super choreographed which I’m not great at.
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Re: Lap Dances
If contact is legal in your area probably at least a medium degree of it is going to be expected by customers.
I personally don't like giving "grindy" dances (unless it's a custie I know isn't gonna blow his load) but I'll still pose on their lap, lie across them, straddle them and motorboat them, do body slides, etc. I also try to build verbal rapport if I can- customers are likely to extend if they feel that they're connecting with you.