guys whi dont pay for dances???
Ok, so this literally never happened to me before. Last night, I had a guy buy his friend a lap dance. So I take the b*tch to the lap dance and after the song is over, I ask if he’s like another one. He says yes and I dance. I tell him that it’ll be another $40 and he says thats ok. After the dance is over, I ask for my money and he plays dumb and says: “well my friend already paid you”. I of course proceed to explain that he only paid for one song plus I explicitly stated it’ll be another $40 and he agreed. To which he says that he never agreed to anything like this. I got paid eventually by his other friend but it’s not really the point because it happened again!!! later in the night with another f**cking guy!! WTF?
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It happened to me..
Did you tell the bouncer, or someone in the club about it?
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They'll do that, especially if they're fucked up. I can't count how many times they've sent me running to friends looking for the extra song they agreed too. I normally try to avoid groups and this is one of the reasons but sometimes groups is all there is. The best bet to avoid embarrassment and frustration on your part is get them to agree to the second dance then after they agree say something like, "since your friend covered your first can you go ahead and pay for this one we're about too do so the club sees me getting paid or I could get in like SOOO much trouble," then you'll get they money and can see kind of what they're working with or you can just send him on his way.
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If this happens call a security or manager. This is why I prefer when there's a staff member who keeps track of dances and charges. Guys do try rip you off when there's no dance counter person. Try getting in the habit of charging customers first.
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Thought you were talking about the men that comes in to the club and don't/never buy lap dances.
Nah, I don't do that "money-up-front" approach. A lot of customers will be put off with that and lose interest very quickly. Thankfully, I never happened to me before.
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Some Guys do get offended but hell rather deal with that then being ripped off. They don’t always operate with empathy n logic usually just their dicks and their ego.
If men pay for vip upfront then a) they should have no problem paying for dances upfront or b) just upsell the vip so you know you’re going to be paid upfront.
Allowing them to get your services then charging them afterwards takes trust and most time dudes will pay what they owe after. However there are times you absolutely must charge upfront 1) when you are spending a lot of time with a guy 2) guy looks highly intoxicated 3) guy is know for being a rip off but for some reason club managers allowing the idiot repeat entry
Also not all club managers will have your back. They won’t take your word/force dude to the atm. Instead they will simply ask “why you ain’t get the money upfront?”
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I don't do champagne rooms. But, in the first years, I did. And yes, I did the "money-up-front" approach once the customer and I sat on the couch in the champagne room after he paid the rental charge.
Overall, 99.8% of the guys who comes in, already been to a strip club and know the drill when it comes to strip clubs, lap dances and money. So, I don't bother with that approach and just ask if he wants another one by asking him in a very sensual way of "Do you wanna stay?" once the song ends.
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I have had this happen before, OP. Drunk or not, most guys IME are not above using this tactic to rip you off. If you're lucky you can chase down either the group and get paid directly from them, or get to a bouncer who gives a damn and can get part or all of your money from them. Either way, it sucks royally.
ALWAYS get paid upfront.
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If a guy is offended by having to pay up front, he wasn't planning on paying you anyways.
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Tati1995
Ok, so this literally never happened to me before. Last night, I had a guy buy his friend a lap dance. So I take the b*tch to the lap dance and after the song is over, I ask if he’s like another one. He says yes and I dance. I tell him that it’ll be another $40 and he says thats ok. After the dance is over, I ask for my money and he plays dumb and says: “well my friend already paid you”. I of course proceed to explain that he only paid for one song plus I explicitly stated it’ll be another $40 and he agreed. To which he says that he never agreed to anything like this. I got paid eventually by his other friend but it’s not really the point because it happened again!!! later in the night with another f**cking guy!! WTF?
I once had a customer LEGIT running to the emergency exit to avoid paying for a VIP in San Diego lollll lessons were learned.
Get security or be paid upfront.
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Yeah Ive had guy refuse to pay me up front & he got offended that I asked. I ended up just walking away but I have a feeling he wasn't planning on paying me in the first place. I tell the custies "Did they make you pay on your way in, instead of at the end of your night on the way out? Its the same shit."