Hi lovely fellow strippers !
I am going thru some b.s recently I would like to share and get your opinion about my problem . We had announcements at our club other day . For further notice some dancer can only work day shift till they lose weight . I am 5”6 165 pounds . Even though nobody told me anything specifically I wanted to make sure if I am ok or need to lose weight . Anyways I made a mistake and asked manager , he said yes you need to lose weight . Even though I am thick and more athletic than other girls . I can do pole tricks and actually can dance . Even my coworkers tip me when I dance .No problem making money at all . I expressed that to him , he just said it’s not about being more fit , it’s about looks and owners don’t want it . I asked him how much should i lose or what they want from me to improve ? He just simply brushed me off and said we let you know when you are good which gives me anxiety because it’s open ended answer . However there are some other dancers as big as I am even some bigger than me . Nobody told them anything .
Long story short I feel like I am being punished for asking if I am straight . No one else being enforced or told that they can’t work night shift except me . I only worked Saturday nights as night shift since I go to school and have another part time job . I feel like I should lose weight it does not bother me at all . On the other hand i feel discriminated and don’t know how to feel about it . What should I do ?
Before I end this post I want to add this as well ... It kinda sucks that I can’t work nights however I see that as challenge and opportunity to grow and pay attention to my fitness . However I don’t like being treated that way especially only me . Even my coworkers were shocked . What should be my next step ? Thank you for all the answers upfront , each one is appreciated!

