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Dating Financially Secure Men
Dumb question, because if we could all do this we would but any suggestions would be appreciated since I can't do sex work legally where I live and I feel like dating here is pointless.
I do miss going out though so I was planning on changing the way I socialise with men mostly just to meet people who think differently. Are there any venues or hobbies I can dabble in that would make me cross paths with men who can actually add something to my life instead of taking from it? I want it to at least be reciprocal and I can't get that from the dating scene where I am.
Like I said any suggestions would help.
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Maybe join some meetup groups for business executives.
https://www.meetup.com/topics/busine...entrepreneurs/
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Look up some of the sugaring threads here.
Things I've done that have actually worked are : country clubs, car shows, art shows , volunteering ( arts organization in my case ) , marinas ( whatever bars / restaurants are nearest the boat docks ) .
Other ideas : bars in hotels catering to business travelers ( same with restaurants near those properties ).
I'm sure other ladies will have some ideas. Really ... I think it's just being out and being visible. It's a good idea to actually be interested in what you are doing .... not just trolling ( obviously ) . ;)
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You don't say where you are or what age range but golf and polo are good sports. I was at a polo match a few weeks ago and it isn't only the players but also the owners you might be interested in. I watched a few chukkas and there weren't many women playing.
Beyond sports, opera, ballet, and high level donor parties might be what you'd want.
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I immediately thought of that! I was just telling one of my girlfriend that we should learn to golf.
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Tennis, join a country club.
Cowboy action shooting matches.
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@Bahuba
I would watch a polo match just because I love horses. And I'm near NYC. I just joined the dirty thirty club.
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Here are my pro tips for finding financial secure guys-
* A lot of wealthy men who are consistently good with money management are often into camping/hiking, or even boating if they live near bodies of water.
So learn about those things. Get familiar with those hobbies yourself. Often these men enjoy the "total release" of getting away from work and other obligations, and just enjoying nature and life.
Some love to travel but do prefer travel companions who are bilingual/familiar with foreign culture or also good at traveling. (Keep in mind trips with people who are bad at traveling can turn into nightmares with one person dragging down the whole event.)
& Obviously do a background check on guys you date. It's for your safety but also to get an idea of whether he's truthful with you.
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a lot of these suggestions are cracking me up..... "buy a huge yacht, accidentally crash into other huge yachts until you find someone single"
...."buy a private plane and join private plane clubs"
but seriously.......try some volunteer work, big organizations with a lot of volunteers(habitat for humanity is one off the top of my head) People who make time to help others usually have their own house in order already.
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lemiwinks31
a lot of these suggestions are cracking me up..... "buy a huge yacht, accidentally crash into other huge yachts until you find someone single"
...."buy a private plane and join private plane clubs"
but seriously.......try some volunteer work, big organizations with a lot of volunteers(habitat for humanity is one off the top of my head) People who make time to help others usually have their own house in order already.
Did you make the yacht one up? That is pretty funny
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lemiwinks31
...."buy a private plane and join private plane clubs"
The Experimental Aircraft Association is probably the premier private airplane club, You do not have to own an airplane to join. It has a variety of programs and activities, even including some scholarship programs for youth.
https://www.eaa.org/eaa
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carmen_b
Look up some of the sugaring threads here.
Things I've done that have actually worked are : country clubs, car shows, art shows , volunteering ( arts organization in my case ) , marinas ( whatever bars / restaurants are nearest the boat docks ) .
Other ideas : bars in hotels catering to business travelers ( same with restaurants near those properties ).
I'm sure other ladies will have some ideas. Really ... I think it's just being out and being visible. It's a good idea to actually be interested in what you are doing .... not just trolling ( obviously ) . ;)
And some wealthy men may be interested in you, however, you have to be inviting or not intimidating to have men approach you. And you have to be strategic.
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lemiwinks31
a lot of these suggestions are cracking me up..... "buy a huge yacht, accidentally crash into other huge yachts until you find someone single"
...."buy a private plane and join private plane clubs"
but seriously.......try some volunteer work, big organizations with a lot of volunteers(habitat for humanity is one off the top of my head) People who make time to help others usually have their own house in order already.
Good suggestion, but keep in mind these guys already have their hackles up if the come ons from attractive women seem too good to be true.
If you are looking for a quality LTR, you need to invest time in getting to know someone so you don't end up involved with a psycho or a fraud.
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Golf, As others have mentioned.
Become a 'Cart girl'.
That's the girl who drives out to the range and provides the guys with beverages.
I had a neighbor who did it, and loved it.
She lost her husband, and was bored.
She also was in her 60's when she started.
Some guy even bought her a car.
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Glamourmilf
Golf, As others have mentioned.
Become a 'Cart girl'.
That's the girl who drives out to the range and provides the guys with beverages.
I had a neighbor who did it, and loved it.
She lost her husband, and was bored.
She also was in her 60's when she started.
Some guy even bought her a car.
I met my ex-wife at the golf course, she worked in the onsite retail shop. Unfortunately, She has a lump sum alimony payment and my boat now!
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lemiwinks31
but seriously.......try some volunteer work, big organizations with a lot of volunteers(habitat for humanity is one off the top of my head) People who make time to help others usually have their own house in order already.
I met my last boyfriend volunteering at an animal shelter and while I don't have numbers, but he was very well off. Cute story too.
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JDD
I met my ex-wife at the golf course, she worked in the onsite retail shop. Unfortunately, She has a lump sum alimony payment and my boat now!
See, OP. Case in point. You don't live in South Florida JDD, do you? My bitch cousin did that to some poor, unsuspecting guy.
I was going to mention working in the shop, but I don't think every member goes in there. Or do they?:thinking:
I was going to be a cart girl, but my fear of getting hit by a golf ball overrode it.
So, I cut to the chase. I moved to a house on a golf course, and sat outside on my patio, in a bathing suit, business card ready.
Problem solved.:D
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Weren't you afraid of getting hit there?
I once almost got hit (in my car driving by a course)
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Glamourmilf
See, OP. Case in point. You don't live in South Florida JDD, do you? My bitch cousin did that to some poor, unsuspecting guy.
I was going to mention working in the shop, but I don't think every member goes in there. Or do they?:thinking:
I was going to be a cart girl, but my fear of getting hit by a golf ball overrode it.
So, I cut to the chase. I moved to a house on a golf course, and sat outside on my patio, in a bathing suit, business card ready.
Problem solved.:D
I do live in South Florida...in fairness to the Ex, I was not exactly blameless though. Every golfer will not visit the retail shop normally.....but out a cute girl in there, and they all will!
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If you stand well behind the golfer there is less chance of being hit with a ball than if you stand in front of the golfer.
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slowpoke
If you stand well behind the golfer there is less chance of being hit with a ball than if you stand in front of the golfer.
That depends on the golfer!
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Well, IDK if you read my post, I was driving in my car, past agolf course, & stray golf ball came dangerously close to hitting my car.
Standing anywhere had 0 to do with it, in that case.
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I have always wondered why people like to live adjacent to a golf course.