Re: How to turn down a stripper.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Behimo
Most dancers don't have much of a game. Their body does most if not all of the work for them.
I'm just chill and want to give out positive vibes.
This seems designed to manufacture drama. Congrats, you've succeeded.
As far as the rest, I don't see a problem with this approach. Assuming you've been truthful, you're tipping everyone, including the dancers. Not everyone enjoys LDs, but IMHO everyone who is watching performances should contribute, which it seems is the case for you.
Re: How to turn down a stripper.
I’ve done this plenty. I don’t make a ton of money so I pick and choose who I tip and want to get dances from wisely. Now I have one girl I go to see and that’s it. I had a girl not attractive sit on me for 3-4 minutes just talk and ask for a tip. She was pretty heavy not horribly cute and I’ve never seen a girl ask for a tip just for that. But the one girl I see regularly I treat like a damn princess. Jewelry booze weed bath and body works dances .
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Vyanka
Do you pay for their time, or are they really hanging out for free???! Getting drunk and NOT getting paid is the stupidest thing a stripper can do!! SMH
Re: How to turn down a stripper.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Behimo
Strippers generally don't approach me.
I always see them watching me.
I suppose to see how they can game me or maybe something else.
Some strippers are straight up and ask for a dance immediately. I smile say no and they are on their way.
Some strippers look me in the eyes and say hi and make a compliment. I usually smile just say thanks and tip them. I don't try to keep the Conversation going and Conversation ends.
Some are real touchy and rub themselves on me.
I just generally let them do their thing instead of cutting them short. We talk a little and when she finally makes the pitch I smile and I decline the offer.
But I tip them for their time.
I told her no thank you. I appreciate your time though and tipped her 12 dollars for 5 minutes at the bar. She walked off to the dressing room without a word, disappointed and came back when she was up to dance. I had some dances with her once before.
She kept making eye contact with me while she danced but as she was leaving the stage she started crying.
Maybe it had nothing to do with me but is there a better way to decline a dance?
I just like to chill out and watch people at the club. Interactions between strippers and customers, behaviors etc...
Or just watch the light show and enjoy the music.
I'm not the type that doesnt tip or make you work more for a tip.
I understand I'm coming into someones work and I respect their work ethic if they have one, meaning I will tip them more for a pleasant demeanor or playing a song I enjoyed.
Most dancers don't have much of a game. Their body does most if not all of the work for them.
I'm just chill and want to give out positive vibes.
Strippers don't approach you because they know they would be wasting their time. The ones who do not know that yet may approach and use various tactics. The faster you decline them, the better so they don't continue trying. The most annoying customers to me are the ones who continue eating up my time and start a fucking long conversation and asking me a lot of questions with no intention of spending on me. And the ones who try to touch my waist or hip, I get livid (inside lol). So quickly decline her efforts and continue sitting by yourself, if you ask me on how to turn down a stripper.
Re: How to turn down a stripper.
You shouldn't go into a club without getting at least one dance from a girl. I have often gone in, gotten one or two dances. Tipped a few dancers on the stage, stayed a while and left. My experiience is if you get one or two dances nobody will care how long you stay, but the magagement can get mad if you don't drink. I got thrown out for that once. I usually only want one beer and keep the bottle with me even when it is finished. I ofdten go in and want to look around a bit before commiting to a dance. Girls who approach me right off I'll respond by saying "Not right now." Most people don't have enough m oney to get a dance from every girl who approaches, and different characteristics appeal to different guys so just say, "No thank you." I can only think of two times I didn't get a table dance. One I went with friends and the place was so crowded I couldn't even get to the stage, and two, the place was so busy that no girl ever approached, even after I tipped them on stage. I left in a bad mood.
Re: How to turn down a stripper.
I always go in and wait till the first rotation i am in there for. I wanna see everyone. So i turn women down all the time. She makes her pitch and i just say "Wait." She usually continues her pitch but i'm not having any of it. Not until the first rotation is done. If it's a girl you don't like, just tell her NO.
She'll just go find another Mark.
Re: How to turn down a stripper.
all you need to do is to communicate with respect and a smile on your face :) just be a gent