Re: Should I date guys that I had a crush on long time ago but paid me no mind?
I think tinder has a rep for being a hookup site (in actuality I’m sure men troll all of them looking to get laid. Worst dude I encountered was on Match) but some people have met their spouse on tinders. I think it’s rare thought but possible to find healthy long term on alleged hookup app
Re: Should I date guys that I had a crush on long time ago but paid me no mind?
Oh I know this answer (raises hand). I found out the hard way. No i would never date a guy who overlooked me because it’s a character defect of being passive. When a man wants a girl he’ll do everything to keep her. Nope, I don’t have to beg for love that is meant for me. Although, I do feel much better knowing I did all I could. When I end up being a dog lady, I’ll never wonder what if.... I’ll forever be content knowing I gave my all in love and now I have no interest in it anymore. I’m telling you ladies we are gonna have a bunch of aging fuck boys who are gonna be sorry as hell when they can’t get a good woman anymore. I’m telling you.
Re: Should I date guys that I had a crush on long time ago but paid me no mind?
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Thank you! I used to have super low self esteem during my teen years. Now, all my friends say I’m stuck up and cocky. Because of my experiences with people! I’m not changing either.
Do YOU, baby, be you!
Re: Should I date guys that I had a crush on long time ago but paid me no mind?
I've heard there's people on those sites that are 'plants', just to draw people in to join the site
Re: Should I date guys that I had a crush on long time ago but paid me no mind?
The best advice I ever got was "If they didn't appreciate you before, they won't now". I have plenty of men who overlooked me and years later they wanna come back and try to date me. Please. And idk anyone who has used Tinder for anything other than hookups. Seems like a difficult place to find quality dudes but I like others also tried paid "dating" sites like eHarmony and didn't find anyone of relationship material. Noticed the same dudes on Tinder who just used the other sites to lure women in pretending to want something more than a hookup. Using guys/pretending to like them is an individual choice...they do it to women all the time.
Re: Should I date guys that I had a crush on long time ago but paid me no mind?
^^^that is true. There is a risk of encountering dudes on “relationship” apps/sites pretending to want long term relationships but they are really just tricking women into NSA situations
Gotta be careful