Pushing for VIP in Urban Clubs?
I wanted to ask about VIP sessions in urban clubs and how do you close sales with men who come in urban clubs. I've only been able to get one (after manifesting it on my second shift lol) and I've been curious about what tips are used to do this. I've been trying to research this and I'm assuming it's similar to a table or couch dance at a gentleman's club, but I wanted to ask outright.
The atmosphere is soo different. Men want to throw money publically on you as opposed to putting it in your hand and going to VIP. I've had men reel at a $40 price but then I circle back to the same guy and give 2-4 couch dances and there's my $40+ in singles ::) I'm conflicted a bit because I do have to tip the bouncer $10 when I go back there, so one girl has told me about selling the rooms for $100 at least and it's worth your time.
From what I've seen, if it's slow, there are more solo white and Latino men who you can convince to go to VIP, but this requires more talking, and I see some women talk for 10 minutes. I've read that that's a no-go from other posts, but I'm curious about what rules are changed or altered in the urban club. It's more flashy and men want to put on a show and be seen throwing money so the dancers come flock to them. They don't want too much talking. They just want you to come up and dance on them on the floor so they can throw money ON you, and you get naked on the floor.
When it gets busy, I don't see many VIP sales going on, but I know it's possible. What do you say to men and convince them to do a VIP when many men want to show off and prefer the couch dance instead because that's the club culture? Any advice or tips?
Also would be grateful if folks post links to discussions like this! I was looking around for a few days but I couldn't find anything. I don't think folks use tags very much lol
Re: Pushing for VIP in Urban Clubs?
my question is, if you prefer vips why bother with black clubs? I work at a 'black club' and I do vip, but dont push them on busy make it rain nights, or to guys who are clearly not into that. black clubs are just not vip clubs. its more of a 'if it happens it happens, but if not I will just make (more) money shaking my ass"
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From everything i've read on here, urban clubs are much more about the stage show than about private time. And that's a culture that gets perpetuated by customers and dancers (think about it, if you were a low-key whale looking to spend some nice time in VIP with a dancer, would you go to a booty-poppin' urban club where there are multiple girls on stage, climbing on the ceilings, and dudes making it rain on their favorite dancers?)...
I think it's all about finding the right club to fit your preferences - and clubs that fit your money-making style will attract customers who prefer that setup, too.
I know dancers can make crazy money during their stage sets in urban clubs... we've all seen the pictures of piles of cash on social media! But being honest about your style and preferences will take you further than trying to fake it.
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That's exactly how most of the girls talk about it. They try to shoot for that but if it doesn't happen, that's the next gameplan. This is the first club I've gotten into and I was curious if the tactic would still be the same as a gentleman's club if it's busy or whatever. But on a crowded Saturday, it's practically impossible. This means that I need to practice in my mirror lol
Thank you for your response!
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I've only been there a month, and I am thinking about those factors and if I do better during slower times or on a Sunday when there's not too many people. Thank you very much for this response!
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I don’t think VIP in urban clubs are very profitable. One urban gentleman’s club I worked at did have one, but it wasn’t used much. I’d offer like a bulk of dances or “time” , but mostly at older men. On weekends, urban clubs are about high energy and a lot of showing off. A big make it rain atmosphere is just urban culture and can take awhile to learn it your way.
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Thank you kindly! I need to practice shaking my ass on a couch and just shaking ass in general much better lol. It's only the weekend that this club is open, so that will be my only option! I'm thinking of investing in some classes so I can learn pole and dance, since it's so stage-focused.
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Yes girl, stage presence is the way to go. Just be in party mode with hustle added. :)