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Where to find elite millionaires/billionaires in Manhattan
Anyone here have a millionaire or billionaire sugar daddy/boyfriend/friend? How did you find him if so? I have tried seeking arrangement, the strip club, but I am not finding any ELITE men who travel on private jets and stuff like that. I want to be taken shopping at Bergdorf Goodman and it not be an issue to spend $10,000.
I just started looking 2 days ago, lol.
Theres a lot of “semi rich” men in Manhattan, but I’m looking for someone elite.
If any of you girls have the same goals in mind when it comes to men, feel free to meaaage me.
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You gotta be open to doing what the average sb isn’t willing to do.
Most average sb want to just hop online and Tinder swipe for a rich billionaire.
It’s a 1% chance that works like it used to when online dating first was the hot new thing.
Also this is a new generation of men who are up on game and not trying to split coins that easily with a woman who is not already wealthy/in wealthy circles/from a wealthy family.
The best thing you can do is hang in spots where elite men are and stand out (in a subtle but good way) and then social climb your way up.
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Thanks. I’ve been getting into doing that and I am willing to really figure this all out. If you have any recommendations on places to go, please let me know. :)
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Might have to mess with the "semi rich men" to gain access to the "elite men".
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A lot of the wealthiest people in New York City have summer homes in the Hamptons. Maybe try getting a job at a country club there, where you'll have contact with members.
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MintChocolate
Might have to mess with the "semi rich men" to gain access to the "elite men".
That and/or have say 3 SD’s who can give $3k vs 1 SD who can give $10k (at least until you’ve got sugar hunting skills down)
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I was a concierge at a high-end hotel many years ago. I was approached by pro athletes, musicians, film producers, etc. Put yourself in the right place and they will find you. Not the most elite but it's good start and a way to get your foot in the door.
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Rina
I was a concierge at a high-end hotel many years ago. I was approached by pro athletes, musicians, film producers, etc. Put yourself in the right place and they will find you. Not the most elite but it's good start and a way to get your foot in the door.
This.....
& Pro-tip...a lot of extremely wealthy men don't act that way outwardly. Why do you think Mark Cuban dresses the way he does & talks he way he does? I mean he's a naturally laid back amusing person but at a point being extremely wealthy makes you a target.
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eagle2
A lot of the wealthiest people in New York City have summer homes in the Hamptons. Maybe try getting a job at a country club there, where you'll have contact with members.
This. I did always wonder how attractive people know where to be - it's like they have a secret network. Rent a summer house for $300k and you'll have all sorts of attractive people showing up. You show up, have some familiarity with what the guy does, be a "rose among weeds" or however that quote goes, but, also be hot as hell, be slightly crazy vibe, and voila, you have a chance. Really rich guy will do his escape routine, just roll with it and he might come back. If he does, good chance you have him hooked.
OR show up at the Met gala, the other Met gala, the ballet opening night, any MMA private reception (if you thought Mixed Martial Arts you have some studying to do, grasshopper) and look really good. The secret no one knows is, rich women do not mind. They actually like the zing that beauty brings.
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What do you mean by, “The secret no one knows is, rich women do not mind. They actually like the zing that beauty brings.” ? :)
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violetta
What do you mean by, “The secret no one knows is, rich women do not mind. They actually like the zing that beauty brings.” ? :)
Rich women often either have their own money or they're better at the game than anyone else. They know that jealousy has no positive outcome for them, because their fathers, brothers, cousins, sons and husbands all have women around all the time. They also understand that SBs almost never replace them. I know a number of socialites that invite single attractive women to their parties because it makes them interesting and fun. I also know some of the women that have been invited to these parties. They get a lot of offers.
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How much time are you willing to invest ?
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1. Do you look like a millionaire or billionaire's wife, SB, or gf?
2. Freestyle in high end hotel bars.
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Bahuba
Rich women often either have their own money or they're better at the game than anyone else. They know that jealousy has no positive outcome for them, because their fathers, brothers, cousins, sons and husbands all have women around all the time. They also understand that SBs almost never replace them. I know a number of socialites that invite single attractive women to their parties because it makes them interesting and fun. I also know some of the women that have been invited to these parties. They get a lot of offers.
True this !
As a former party host and someone who arranged for security for several high end events I can tell you that for the hostess it is all about the "Vibe" ; the "blend "; the "mix " ; ambiance etc.
If you don't know wealthy people yourself then the next best thing is to hook up with someone who does know them. Doesn't have to be a woman. There are a number of men who are A-listers who get invited to lots of parties because they are interesting. Some are gay but don't mind a female "wingman".
Second , be up on things that interest wealthy men - sports , the stock market , cars , fine wine etc. Start reading the sports and business sections of the newspaper or a good on line news site. And get rid of or cover up any tats. Sorry. I know there are people that like and even love them but generally most wealthy men do NOT. Knowing about opera , ballet , art etc. are all nice BUT you want to be interesting. And a little different. Men like to be intrigued. Do not be an "open book ". Don't give out your life story in the first two minutes. What is hidden or partially revealed generates INTEREST.
If you can get invited to one event , are not a wallflower and don't get sloppy drunk or otherwise cause a scene then chances are very good you will get invited to another one; and then another. Before you know it you might be on somebody's private jet en route to Palm Beach ; or Palm Springs ; or L.A.
And for God's sake make sure you know the dress code for whatever event it is . If it's black tie then wear a full length gown ; not a cocktail dress. Forget about the ads in Vogue and Bazaar and look for video or photos of the same or similar type events and see how the ladies are dressed. If you are a good shopper you can get what you need to blend in on a budget . You do not have to wear an original Valentino or Vera Wang. In Manhattan there are a couple high end thrift shops where the wealthy donate clothes or sell on consignment. Some wealthy women refuse to wear any dress twice.
I personally know a few escorts who get regular invitations to high end events with the contacts and benefits that naturally flow therefrom. It's a bigger world than one of Dan Bilzerian's pot parties. Fun though his events may be.
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^^This - When I first went to the Met Gala in 1997 (it was honoring Versace that year) there were at least 50 major celebrities. The two women I was with got hit on by Steven Tyler, who then lost interest in them and talked to me. To make up for it I hit on Elizabeth Hurley. The less said about that the better. I also got blown off by Donna Karan when I tried to compliment her line. That was the first time I met Madonna.
But enough about celebrities: There was a guy there named, I kid you not, Chappy Morris, who was considered the "bachelor of the year" -- I remember meeting him, he had an acne scarred face but a perfectly tailored jacket. He's still wealthy, and still an attention seeker. There were tons of them there, and most of the women were absolutely stunning, all with ball gowns or couture.
It's gotten a little more downmarket since then, but there are still hundreds of very wealthy guys there. That is but one example. Usually the hostess works from memory but she'll have one or two publicists and promoters on call. They provide lists and those lists get invited based on room. Get on those lists with a well known publicist or a promoter (a real one, not a poser) and you'll be invited to 20 parties a year.
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I was a sugarbaby for almost ten years. Unless he's super rich, you'll need more than one. Mine financed my life for many many years. I had my own credit card and all. It's a numbers game. Most wannabe SBs focus on the wrong things. Try to attract a guy making $500k a year before aiming for the billionaire. Ask yourself, what do you have than others don't? I'm not talking about what you can offer sexually. Honestly when it comes to men with money and women once you've fucked a few supermodels, you've fucked them all. Personality is the name of the game. My ex bought me cars, a boob job , paid my bills... NOT because I'm the hot (even though I'd stay i'm very attractive) but because I'm fun and have a kick ass personality to match.
If you're one of those that think plastic surgery and adopting a plastic personality will land a whale, you'll lose each and every time. EVERYONE i know was like ok yeah you're cute but how have you been able to keep him so long. Decency, personality, kindness and when a man knows that you got his back, he'll give you the whole world. Not saying looks doesn't matter but ... men with money have access to beautiful woman. You need more than that to really land someone that's going to STICK.
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But enough about celebrities: There was a guy there named, I kid you not, Chappy Morris, who was considered the "bachelor of the year" -- I remember meeting him, he had an acne scarred face but a perfectly tailored jacket. He's still wealthy, and still an attention seeker. There were tons of them there, and most of the women were absolutely stunning, all with ball gowns or couture.
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https://www.nytimes.com/2008/06/15/f...15melissa.html
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Thanks, this was a neat read
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That's him! believe it or not they still have a publicist. And he um, still works the field. But she doesn't seem to care.
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That's him! believe it or not they still have a publicist. And he um, still works the field. But she doesn't seem to care.
Based on what you know about them food the age gap provide any difficulties? Asking because you don't see age gaps like that often and I would like to look at other relationships to avoid pitfalls in mine.
I wonder if the email on her blog still works.
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Based on what you know about them food the age gap provide any difficulties? Asking because you don't see age gaps like that often and I would like to look at other relationships to avoid pitfalls in mine.
I wonder if the email on her blog still works.
Well, they have an arrangement of sorts. That helps with age I suppose. But remember, these guys come in all types. The idea was, he was out there and so are the others. Rich women (inheritors) like it when they can have hot women around. That is the currency at their parties.
Marrying these characters is a lot bigger job than making them an SD.
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curiousnewb
I was a sugarbaby for almost ten years. Unless he's super rich, you'll need more than one. Mine financed my life for many many years. I had my own credit card and all. It's a numbers game. Most wannabe SBs focus on the wrong things. Try to attract a guy making $500k a year before aiming for the billionaire. Ask yourself, what do you have than others don't? I'm not talking about what you can offer sexually. Honestly when it comes to men with money and women once you've fucked a few supermodels, you've fucked them all. Personality is the name of the game. My ex bought me cars, a boob job , paid my bills... NOT because I'm the hot (even though I'd stay i'm very attractive) but because I'm fun and have a kick ass personality to match.
If you're one of those that think plastic surgery and adopting a plastic personality will land a whale, you'll lose each and every time. EVERYONE i know was like ok yeah you're cute but how have you been able to keep him so long. Decency, personality, kindness and when a man knows that you got his back, he'll give you the whole world. Not saying looks doesn't matter but ... men with money have access to beautiful woman. You need more than that to really land someone that's going to STICK.
Mega Bingo !
I agree with every word you posted doubling down on "Be yourself". And that self should be a good , decent , HONEST , caring and considerate person. The last one will get you a long way and build up a lot of good will. It's not just personality. It's CHARACTER that counts.
But a shapely figure and a nice pair of tits never hurts lol.
The Chappy Morris story raises a great way to meet rich men - be a trainer at the New York Athletic Club or other swanky , high end gym. Chelsea Piers maybe. Focus on where the guys work out. Think free weights and CrossFit more than Fitness 305 or Zumba.
Bartending at a private club ? VERY hard to get.
Waitressing at a high end "power" restaurant ? They are fading out and the jobs are very hard to get.
Just trying to think outside the box a bit.
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Eric Stoner
Mega Bingo !
I agree with every word you posted doubling down on "Be yourself". And that self should be a good , decent , HONEST , caring and considerate person. The last one will get you a long way and build up a lot of good will. It's not just personality. It's CHARACTER that counts.
But a shapely figure and a nice pair of tits never hurts lol.
The Chappy Morris story raises a great way to meet rich men - be a trainer at the New York Athletic Club or other swanky , high end gym. Chelsea Piers maybe. Focus on where the guys work out. Think free weights and CrossFit more than Fitness 305 or Zumba.
Bartending at a private club ? VERY hard to get.
Waitressing at a high end "power" restaurant ? They are fading out and the jobs are very hard to get.
Just trying to think outside the box a bit.
I had an SB who was my trainer. Very difficult to resist. Also they see you when you're vulnerable. Also you work your ass off. Mine told me, "to look at, your shoulders are so beautiful but... that's all you can overhead press?" Left handed insult makes you try harder, and want to bang her on the gym floor. I've had every kind of trainer and she was the best. You get worked up into this testosterone frenzy where you throw the weights around like feathers and instead of using the door just walk through the wall.