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Keep getting turned down :( WPB area
I’m a brown skin girl in an all white area I’ve went to cheetahs filled out my application then they told me they will call if interested and then I went to rachels the girl had me fill out an application and basically told me the same thing and I’m really stressed out I have to pay for school and I live in is like west bubba fuck I dont have a car I want to go freaking nuts. I think it’s cause I’m black and I didnt wear heels idk but i just went straight from school thats why i didnt dress up. Do you think I should wait for them to call me? also I live in west palm beach florida and its all old people here. Should i go to miami or pompano?
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Re: Keep getting turned down :( WPB area
It could be racism, or it could be that they just didn't like your look. It's hard to tell without seeing what you look like. Always go in with your hair done and a full face of makeup on, wearing a nice outfit that shows off your body and heels. If there are other clubs you can get to, you could try those, or try the club you already applied at and if they don't hire you on the spot, ask them if there's anything that you could improve on. Clubs saying that they will call you is usually their way of turning you down-every place I've been hired at, I've been hired at on the spot and I've never had a club call me after saying they will call.
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Yeah. I think it’s cause I have short bob hair and didn’t wear makeup plus I look very young but I’m 20. I’m going to upload a picture. So you think I should try again? there’s a little bit of clubs and I want to do dayshift.
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Hey doll. Sorry that happened, but it’s definitely best to go into the club looking as if you’re starting work that night. Full hair & makeup, mani/pedi, heels, and something that accentuates your figure as blondhottie said. Rachel’s can be difficult for any WOC esp new to the industry. I’ve been rejected there as well so don’t feel bad about that one, I could see your look @ Cheetahs though. You mentioned that transportation may be an issue, but your best bet may be pompano/Hallandale/north Miami. Also keep in mind it’s slow season in FL, so that may be a factor as well. Obviously things pick up October-ish when the snowbirds return. If you can, try the playhouse but make sure you dress to impress and have everything you need for the audition. I know things are rough right now, keep your head up and keep pushing forward
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Thank you. I will try them the manager told me that I’m good and I can come in a long time ago but I didnt get a chance to go. I think I will go out there. ❤️
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Playhouse is good, I’m in Broward but haven’t danced in a few months, getting back into it, I’m gonna check out the body in Miami. I got rejected from cheetahs/booby trap/diamond dolls all white clubs. Pink is a good go to as well.
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Yea this state some shit. It’s better up north or atl. And I hope you get it :)
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Westindi
Yeah. I think it’s cause I have short bob hair and didn’t wear makeup plus I look very young but I’m 20. I’m going to upload a picture. So you think I should try again? there’s a little bit of clubs and I want to do dayshift.
sorry but why would you not wear makeup and try your hardest when you show up? you need to look your personal best when you go there. you answered your own question...
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crystalize
sorry but why would you not wear makeup and try your hardest when you show up? you need to look your personal best when you go there. you answered your own question...
I clearly said what was going on in my life and why i did what i did in the thread and I was trying to find the fastest way to get money cause I had shit going on. On top of that i didn't ask that question but I did ask if I should GO to the same club again obviously wearing makeup or try a new one. :) you live and learn now pls gtf
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Are you talking about playhouse in hollywood or wpb?? And have u heard of club 1152 i think it was called rain before
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Lovelyblossom
Playhouse is good, I’m in Broward but haven’t danced in a few months, getting back into it, I’m gonna check out the body in Miami. I got rejected from cheetahs/booby trap/diamond dolls all white clubs. Pink is a good go to as well.
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I’ve dance at the one in Hallandale...I wanna go to WPB But I don’t have the $$ for a license rn. I had a friend that work at Club rain, she would always make a bag at night shift but usually with her dance partner.
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Westindi
I clearly said what was going on in my life and why i did what i did (reread it since you got my dick in ya mouth) in the thread and I was trying to find the fastest way to get money cause I had shit going on. On top of that i didn't ask that question but I did ask if I should GO to the same club again obviously wearing makeup or try a new one. :) you live and learn now pls gtf
okay since you got it all figured out, go ahead keep trying without any luck to get hired anywhere in south Florida! lmao! I wasn't the one looking for advice cause I cant get hired
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Crystallize is already hired at multiple clubs IIRC, she was just asking about trying a new area, not because she can't get anywhere to hire her.
She was asking a legit question, this industry is based at least 80% on looks so asking why you wouldn't wear makeup is perfectly reasonable. There is also no reason you could not at least pop on some heels in your car. I have changed entire outfits in the car before. Strip club managers have more girls than they could ever need trying to get hired AND have heard every sob story in the book, they don't care about excuses for not looking your best.
Additionally, I would venture to guess that if your normal speech sounds like what you just posted, that could be part of the issue. A lot of clubs are hard enough for dark skinned ladies to get into and if you talk like that, they will be even less inclined to hire you.
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But I really don’t care about what she does that’s cool and I wasn't saying that she can’t get hired but don’t act like you haven’t made mistakes before. I’m new and trying to figure it out it’s way to talk to people y'all are all looking on the outside in. We already established that what I did was dumb and wrong so like next..... But like I said in the post I don’t have a car so there was a reason I didn’t change into an outfit:) And Sweetie no I did not go in there with a sob story wtf ���� I just went in there and they told me fill out an application and they said they will call and I said okay. I dont know what post you’re referring to either but no I do not talk how you think I do lol and i am not darkskin. Thanks for your input though
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Selina M
Crystallize is already hired at multiple clubs IIRC, she was just asking about trying a new area, not because she can't get anywhere to hire her.
She was asking a legit question, this industry is based at least 80% on looks so asking why you wouldn't wear makeup is perfectly reasonable. There is also no reason you could not at least pop on some heels in your car. I have changed entire outfits in the car before. Strip club managers have more girls than they could ever need trying to get hired AND have heard every sob story in the book, they don't care about excuses for not looking your best.
Additionally, I would venture to guess that if your normal speech sounds like what you just posted, that could be part of the issue. A lot of clubs are hard enough for dark skinned ladies to get into and if you talk like that, they will be even less inclined to hire you.
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Westindi
But I really don’t care about what she does and I wasn't saying that she can’t get hired but don’t act like you haven’t made mistakes before. I’m new and trying to figure it out it’s way to talk to people y'all are all looking on the outside in. We already established that what I did was dumb and wrong so like next..... But like I said in the post I don’t have a car so. And Sweetie no I did not go in there with a sob story wtf I just went in there and they told me fill out an application and they said they will call and I said okay.
I think we we all need to chill since this forum is a safe place (just trying to neutralize the tension). I can understand why you would get offended at the criticism. We’ve alllllll been there. Since your new I can understand how that can trigger you because I went through the same thing. But now that you know what they’re looking for execute the look with everything you have. This industry will definitely have you in your feelings but it will toughen you up to not take rejection or criticism so personally. Also, it will have you take accountability for your own mistakes. Learn from it and apply it in the future. Good luck with your auditions and claim it ahead of time.
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Thank you for understanding 💕
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LolaLang25
I think we we all need to chill since this forum is a safe place �� (just trying to neutralize the tension). I can understand why you would get offended at the criticism. We’ve alllllll been there. Since your new I can understand how that can trigger you because I went through the same thing. But now that you know what they’re looking for execute the look with everything you have. This industry will definitely have you in your feelings but it will toughen you up to not take rejection or criticism so personally. Also, it will have you take accountability for your own mistakes. Learn from it and apply it in the future. Good luck with your auditions and claim it ahead of time.
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Yep, you have to wear heels and makeup next time. I definitely think it's harder for black women to get hired so that could be part of it too. There's definitely a lot of racism and managers who don't want to hire "too many" black girls.. Sometimes even Hispanics. Did you ever post a photo?
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The clubs I went to that turned me down I didn’t see any other races I don’t know if it was because of dayshift or what. I would try it again looking up to par but I think the club I went to last night wants me so we will see
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Yea It’s def because I didn’t wear makeup and I didn’t see any other races. But the one I went into yesterday (that told me i could stay) I can tell it’s a little more mixed the bartenders were hispanic and I saw two older white women and then one younger girl I think she was Hispanic. I went to spearmint rhino dressed up they turned me down right away he told me try again in a couple months
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KenzieJ
Yep, you have to wear heels and makeup next time. I definitely think it's harder for black women to get hired so that could be part of it too. There's definitely a lot of racism and managers who don't want to hire "too many" black girls.. Sometimes even Hispanics. Did you ever post a photo?
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Well you definitely look attractive so im not sure why you're getting rejected.. Lame
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Thank you! I believe it’s cause I didn’t wear makeup and I look 12 without makeup haha
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KenzieJ
Well you definitely look attractive so im not sure why you're getting rejected.. Lame
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I want you to check out this video but don't let it dissuade you. This is only to let you know you are not alone and you can find your right club!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNXp...A&index=4&t=0s
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this post is a few months old, but op i hope you have found a club and that things are better for you
racism is real when it comes to hiring and i have had this same exact when i was living in arizona two years ago. even if you go in looking you're very best, they still turn you away.
i hope you found out a spot and all is well.
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KenzieJ
Well you definitely look attractive so im not sure why you're getting rejected.. Lame
it's called "anti blackness", hun
we could have the baddest weave, our nails n outfit on fleek, and having our face beat and management can still shoo us away.
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Hey WestIndie..
Have you checked out the other WPB threads?
I found this, in the Club Chat section, maybe some ideas of other clubs, in case you want some other choices.
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...hels+West+Palm
I'm watching that video, interesting as I, as an older chick find a type of difficulty as well.
I hope you find a place you like, to work at, best to you!