What to do in private rooms?
So this past weekend i sold my first two rooms and Just want to know like what you guys do in the room that like make it “worth buying” bc like customers always ask that and i never really know what to say besides that “it’s more personal. so i just want to know like besides dances what else could i do? Also bc in both the rooms i let the guys touch my boobs which i usually never let customers do and it made me so uncomfortable so Ik I won’t let anyone do it again. But like do u think it’ll put them off? Idk i just kinda need advice on like how to take control of my room Without putting them off & like what to do and what not to do.
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This will all depend on how lax your club is and what you can and can't do. Of course you can say its private one on one time, but it depends on the rules. Where I've worked touching and all kinds of other things are common in VIP.. So that's usually what customers mean if they ask "what goes on upstairs" or "what makes the room better than downstairs?". Also, it depends a lot on what you're comfortable doing. Privacy is a good incentive. Make sure to word things carefully just in case people are undercover cops.. There's certain things that are illegal to say. I know someone that went to jail just because she worded something wrong. (Had to do with the hour and how much the room would cost)
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Don’t worry about what to do in there just GET him there. When you start your sale, sell the regular single songs as “couch dances” or “open dances” and the VIPs as the “private dances” which are longer, more private and anything can happen ;)
But in there just take your time since it’s longer don’t get tired the first 3 minutes. I’ll slowly straddle myself on them, ask them if there’s anything in there pockets, slowly touch myself and them, then I’ll do one dance position for like 2 mins and slowly transition. Yeah just let it come naturally just focus on GETTING them in there
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KenzieJ
I know someone that went to jail just because she worded something wrong. (Had to do with the hour and how much the room would cost)
That was a mercyful cop. Usually they take the girl back there and molest her before whipping out the badge. He musta been in a hurry that day
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Yes please be explicit about it being dances only, Please don't say "anything can happen". Saying any ol "wrong" & vague thing can get you in big trouble on the right day. Be clear & straight forward about what you will & won't do and if they don't want the dance then they were never your targeted audience. No matter how much BS you'll go through with Setting boundaries just know there's a guy waiting for a girl like you and willing to comply. :)
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Midwest-Mistress
Yes please be explicit about it being dances only, Please don't say "anything can happen". Saying any ol "wrong" & vague thing can get you in big trouble on the right day. Be clear & straight forward about what you will & won't do and if they don't want the dance then they were never your targeted audience. No matter how much BS you'll go through with Setting boundaries just know there's a guy waiting for a girl like you and willing to comply. :)
A hundred percent agree!
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The only difference between a floor dance and a vip dance is you deserve to be making hundreds of dollars vs 20 bucks.
The customer doesn't know this, but you're going to need to sell it as if it's some amazing place where he needs to be. Lead him to a fantasy. Call it the "naughty room" (Cause its a room, where you're topless. That's naughty) and that you feel great when you're in there (which you do, cause you're getting paid). He's going to have the time of his life in that vip room. (because you're a fun person to be around)
The whole "its more intimate and private" is SO. Freaking. Overused. You and a hundred other girls use that same bullshit line and any guy who's been around the strip club scene is going to roll his eyes at you.
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i usually get them to talk about their feelings until they start crying. They'll be too embarrassed to go outside that they will have to extend till the end of the night.
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Carmen Elixer
That was a mercyful cop. Usually they take the girl back there and molest her before whipping out the badge. He musta been in a hurry that day
Yes! I've heard of this too. Strangely enough, our city used to get raided so often when I first started. Stuff like this was very common. The clubs I've been in recently haven't been raided Ina long time. If they come in looking for girls it's usually due to a warrant or something else. Still, you can't trust cops. They are probably waiting for us to get comfortable and catch us off guard
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What’s going above and beyond at one club is going to be ripping off customers at another (in their minds). Idk how things are at your club, but just keep selling them and figure it out for yourself what the happy balance is. Dudes love an innocent girl, so even in the extreme case girls are fucking—at least temporarily—I don’t think it will be a problem for you. And they might end up taking up VIP time for you by mansplaining how to do your job.
Sometimes, one might err on doing too much or too little—so feel free to err on too little until you see how it goes. If you don’t like being touched, but are okay with touching, then maybe watch some videos on how to give back rubs. Then he will probably be too relaxed to think about touching.
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Valerybloom
i usually get them to talk about their feelings until they start crying. They'll be too embarrassed to go outside that they will have to extend till the end of the night.
That's fucking great wow LOL
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Valerybloom
i usually get them to talk about their feelings until they start crying. They'll be too embarrassed to go outside that they will have to extend till the end of the night.
You're my she'ro. Haha
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Valerybloom
i usually get them to talk about their feelings until they start crying. They'll be too embarrassed to go outside that they will have to extend till the end of the night.
I'm pretty sure one of the VIP queen strippers I knew did this. She just had that knack to be able to pull it off.
I was gonna suggest offering to read his palms or do a back massage or hand massage (a nice thing for an office worker.) Talking and drinking a lot is important too, it eats up time and gives you rest from dancing.
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First, they almost always expect extras so the whole object of the game is to distract him away from them. You gotta make a whole spectacle of the choosing of champange you guys will be drinking together, also order shots. You want to talk his ear off while/in between dancing. Ask him lots of questions about himself. Get him talking. Stop for some Champagne, make a toast, talk, give him a back rub, call another girl in to break up the monotony, dance, etc. The object is to make the time go really fast and renew the hour. Ask for tip every hour. If he has to go to the bathroom, go together, never let him go alone.
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^^ once or twice when I called another girl into the room she would immediately escalate the whole thing by touching his dick over his pants and whispering in his ear and before I knew it he was asking the host to renew the room with her and not me. I guess if you're an extras girl you wont be in this scenario but idk...I just always felt like in the end I did better if I worked alone because the whole teaming up and working together thing never seemed to be more favorable than working alone...
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reginanew
^^ once or twice when I called another girl into the room she would immediately escalate the whole thing by touching his dick over his pants and whispering in his ear and before I knew it he was asking the host to renew the room with her and not me. I guess if you're an extras girl you wont be in this scenario but idk...I just always felt like in the end I did better if I worked alone because the whole teaming up and working together thing never seemed to be more favorable than working alone...
If you pull the girl you know is a non-extras girl, you shouldn't have this issue.
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reginanew
^^ once or twice when I called another girl into the room she would immediately escalate the whole thing by touching his dick over his pants and whispering in his ear and before I knew it he was asking the host to renew the room with her and not me. I guess if you're an extras girl you wont be in this scenario but idk...I just always felt like in the end I did better if I worked alone because the whole teaming up and working together thing never seemed to be more favorable than working alone...
Not every girl is a piece of shit like that. Just don't work with that skank anymore. You can make good clean money with a/few team players in a room. Just gotta be on the same page, etc.
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Exactly, you gotta find girls you trust!
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arielbriel
First, they almost always expect extras so the whole object of the game is to distract him away from them. You gotta make a whole spectacle of the choosing of champange you guys will be drinking together, also order shots. You want to talk his ear off while/in between dancing. Ask him lots of questions about himself. Get him talking. Stop for some Champagne, make a toast, talk, give him a back rub, call another girl in to break up the monotony, dance, etc. The object is to make the time go really fast and renew the hour. Ask for tip every hour. If he has to go to the bathroom, go together, never let him go alone.
Thank YOU for this info, you're always super helpful!:-*