When I first started camming I'd let guys sit for hours and take up my time for free. Years passed and something must of snapped because I started telling them that I'd love to continue talking but if you want more of my time you'll have to tip or go pvt. More years passed. I hated guys telling me what to do in freechat and pvt, I realized I wasn't submissive so I become a domme/findom.
My pleasantry was a wrap at that point, I'm become a bit of a "bitch" I guess. I'd give each person like 3-5min before I pushed for a tip or pvt. Once I pushed for a pvt and they started to waste my time I'd ignore them or kick them. To break it down even more though....
If guys came in just to say hi I'd tell them "no you didn't, you came in to jerk to me isn't that right?".
If they tried to chit chat with me I'd tell them straight up that I'm not here to chit chat I'm here to make you jerk your dick to me.
If they wanted to get to know me or whatever I'd tell them I only talk about personal things in pvt.
If they said they were at work I'd tell them well if you can sit there and talk to me in freechat then you can tip me or go pvt. If they continued to say but I can't go pvt because I'm at work I'd tell them well I'm sure there's a closet or bathroom you can hide in in order to jerk to me. Or I'd tell them that if you didn't want to jerk to me you would've never came into my room while you were at work. They'd either leave, find somewhere to hide lmao, or try to drag out the convo even longer. If they tried to drag out the convo I'd tell them straight up that they need to tip, go pvt, come back when they're ready to go pvt or I'd kicked them.
If they were the type to chit chat and only spend a little bit in tips or pvt once to every few months, I'd tell them they need to tip more or go pvt because there's ton of people that require my attention who are whiling to give more for my attention and time (aka if you don't spend more I'm ignoring you). Sometimes I've even been like its time to tip some more, I'd remind them like every 3mins lol.
If they tipped or went pvt previously but repeatedly came into my room day after day without tipping or going pvt (whether they'd try to speak to me or not) I'd give them like 1-3 chances to spend again. If they didn't spend after the 1st or 2nd chance I'd kick them to try to give them another chance and then I'd finally block them.
I don't really engage in freechat anymore. Now I only give my attention to those who tip or go pvt first. When I did engage regardless of what the guys excuses or shenanigans were I'd let them know that my time and attention wasn't for free. They were either going to pay me or gtfo. I was straight to the point but I was also flirty and seductive about it. We say it time and time again on here that you really have to train these guys. If they think that they can talk your ear off and drain you of your time and energy without giving 1 single penny they will.
Everyone has their own hustle like someone else mentioned, for me I have no qualms with letting these guys know that I'm all about their money. They can say hi to me, they can have a conversation with me, they can have fun with me, they can get to know me, they can tell me their deepest secrets, they can ask me advice about their girlfriend/wife, etc but they're going to take my ass pvt in order to do it or at least tip me a decent amount because I am online to make money. These guys think that just because they aren't asking for tits, ass, dirty talk, etc that they're entitled to our time, attention, energy and patience.
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You're going to pay me for anything and everything that I provide to you. It took me years to put my foot down but I'm glad I finally did because giving each dude 10, 20, 30, etc minutes of your time for free is for the birds. If you want to drain me of my time, attention, energy and patience go ahead but I'm going to drain your wallet in return. I like your money first and then you. We can be friends and chit chat buddies after you pay me.
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