When you get to THIS point, what happens?
Hi everyone: you know that story... client gives you a super fat tip... you see potential... he's clearly into you so you say you can TOTALLY hang out and give him your "number"... you guys text, and, couple days later comes the "so when can we hang out?". What do you do at this point? I have been saying I'm too busy/work every night and later insinuate they are welcome to come see me at the club but I really want a different approach. /:O This feels too obvious/aggressive to me.
Re: When you get to THIS point, what happens?
Those "when can I see you" types really aren't trying to come spend more money in the club.
Re: When you get to THIS point, what happens?
If you strictly only want to see your clients inside the club, be honest and tell them that. Say I really don’t have the free time to hang out with you outside the club, I live a very busy life. They can either respect that and come to your work to see you, or move on. If you are at all open to seeing them OTC, you can have them be your Sugar Daddy! But if they still pester you after you clearly told them no, you need to be more assertive and tell them to respect your decision and your time.
Re: When you get to THIS point, what happens?
For next time. Always make sure to answer “so what do you do for fun?” Or “what do you do when you’re not working” with “I work at my other job, then I take classes to become a XXX, I need hours to become certified so I’m also at XXX this many hours a week so I can get certified, I’m also an equestrian which takes up a lot of time. In between that I try to have as much fun as I can. You’re only young once”. Edit it so it fits you. Just don’t drag it out too much, just mention it like it’s nothing. This way if you want to see someone oct they already know you have little to no time so if you got together it would be extremely pricey, if you don’t want to see them but don’t lose them at the club you have very good reasons for politely turning them down.