Why do girls hate on blondes for having hair extensions tan etc?
Hi guys I really hope this is in the correct thread i am really confused here let me just start by saying my hair is naturally brown and is bleached platinum for the past decade quite short naturally as you can imagine having hair bleached that long and I wear 28 inch extensions to have extra long hair with a spray tan done most of the time I like to work out and wear shorts in summer or going clubbing with friends everyday I’m just a leggings type of girl however I seem to get a lot of dirty looks or stares from girls weather it be in a shop or if people are behind me sometimes if I am around a group of girls I get nervous In fear of judgement from them.
I’ve always been a confident girl and just let the dirty looks not bother me. One time on my instagram page I had someone create a fake page of me now I don’t have a huge following maybe over 2k but she took photos and captioned them saying look at how bad my broken ass hair is look at my cellulite look at my crooked teeth and granny flat ass bitches be jealous of me.. After that I feel my confidence took a big knock I had photos of me in the strip clubs and this person went about herself to try and make me feel like a piece of shit every time she could over being a dancer also one time I entered a pageant and when I advertised it publicly she went about it to contact them personally and tell them they don’t want a hooker in a pageant.
Now for years I pick myself back up but after that I just felt like shit and my self confidence took a huge knock. I have since even got braces as I was paranoid about what she said about my teeth. I don’t know how to get my confidence back I feel like a joke sometimes and that everybody hates me or laughs at me. I also have a friend who has the same image who deals with the same backlash from girls does this happen to anyone else?
Re: Why do girls hate on blondes for having hair extensions tan etc?
This happens to everyone. In fact comedy clubs do "roasts" (where they invite someone and insult him or her all night) ...I personally don't think that's funny at all. But it's a thing, social media culture made it a hundred times worse b/c you can insult people anonymously or easily brigade other people into doing it too.
I've always been jealous in a NICE way of blondes b/c my skin tone and appearance don't work with blonde. I can't really do it (I tried.) & Let's face it blondes make money in the adult industry.
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SugarHoney have you been back to this thread to read all the wonderful advice you were given? It might make you feel better.
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...80#post3135280
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I would just ignore your online troll.
If you maintain an IG to boost your sex work sales just keep doing it and ignore that horrible person. Hahaha.
Your look seems to be the " standard " for sex work so I would just keep doing it if you are making $$$.
I am 99.9999% sure that whoever your troll is they would not be hired at any clubs or be able to make $ in sex work.
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carmen_b
I am 99.9999% sure that whoever your troll is they would not be hired at any clubs or be able to make $ in sex work.
^ THIS ^^^^^
Also I follow a musician on social media, and he does "[Musician] strikes back" comedy on his feed when trolls target him and his band. He turns a negative into a plus. Of course in your case it's better to just ignore the troll and focus on making money.
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So I'm "high maintenance" looking in a different way (colored hair, piercings, instagram makeup, long bold nails, alt/eccentric but fancy clothing) and I am openly a stripper. Lots of women are envious, talk shit behind my back, but many are kind and compliment me as well. Some women have serious internalized misogyny (look up "not like other girls" memes or "tweet like a pick me challenge"). As women we are told from early on to not be "fake" "sluts" "high maintenance" or "too outspoken", mostly to appeal to men. So when they see women like us living our lives, minding our business and loving life, they get envious because they followed the "good girl" rules and you didn't but you're the one winning and living how they wish they could. My takeaway from this, is; They are jealous. Take it as a compliment. Confident, happy people don't feel the need to do that. Imagine how miserable someone must be with themselves to anonymously bully an internet stranger to that point? Report the account or better yet, comment on all her posts with links to your page and content. Sales boost galore! Take the negativity and turn it into positivity. I bet for as many bitter women staring and thinking nasty thoughts, there's happy ones looking at you and thinking you look beautiful (hell, I've done it before!). Keep doing you, make your money, and don't concern yourself with the opinions of sheep. ;D
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Re: Why do girls hate on blondes for having hair extensions tan etc?
Sounds like you have a serious hater. Just report the comments and if it gets out of hand, then disable comments.
Re: Why do girls hate on blondes for having hair extensions tan etc?
Actually, I'm in love with blonde hair. They look very feminine.