What is your typical lap dance routine?
I’m not asking for youtube tutorials, I want to know the routine you typically do. I feel like most of us have a memorized routine we automatically do.
currently mine goes like this:
1 slowly put each leg on their sides so I am straddling them.
2 rub their arms and chest, then rub my chest and stomach
3 slowly drag tits across their face chest while putting face in neck, then switch to other side of neck
4 turn around and shake ass
5 put legs on their sides to straddle backwards and continue shake ass
6 bend and put hands on floor and shake ass
7 slide each leg down their crotch and turn with my tits on their crotch and by this time the dance is done and I ask if they want another. Most do not :(
it sounds pretty sexy right but I am rarely getting multiple dances! I avoid eye contact (awkward) and too much grinding or pussy/ass in their face action so maybe that’s my problem but I want your routine that always gets you multiple dances!
Re: What is your typical lap dance routine?
I feel like this depends on the customer.
If he is the shyer and sweeter type, then I think eye contact is good. If it’s the guy who had bottle service and is in a WOO mood, then adjust your body so that you’re shaking your goodies at him and it’s more visual than physical. If it’s a handsy dude, change positions a LOT. Just more basic stuff I feel like this can be broken down way more.
Oh yeah, and also this changes depending on what club I’m at and what are the norms and rules. I’ll give a way different dance in (for example) Texas versus Minnesota.
Re: What is your typical lap dance routine?
1. don't ask if they want another. tell them "I want to do another. what about you?"
2. talk to them. " do you like that?" " mmmm, that feels nice."
3. you need to get comfortable with eye contact.
4. when faced away from them doung booty bounces, look slightly over your shoulder
and let them see you smiling.
5. make small sounds of pleasure occasionally. soft sighs, hmmms, ahhhs, stuff like that.
6. slow down and really focus on the smaller stuff-- holding hands, hugging, rubbig his neck,
tugging his hair, kissing his neck, scratching his chest.
7. make a game of coming up with new ways to ask for that second dance. don't just default
to the "wanna ('nother) dance."
Re: What is your typical lap dance routine?
^ omg I used to do all that shit when I was new now I kinda just don't give a fuck and do whatever the fuck I feel like doing that moment. all that is too much effort anymore I'd rather save that high level of effort for raping their wallet in the private room although I am still somehow decent at stacking dances in low or moderate contact cities despite my IDGAF attitude. I just can't stack for shit if I don't feel like being touched in some fucking wasteland cess pool pos creeper hick area like Des Moines.
like obviously i am not gonna twerk my ass off for a dude that is clearly not into that. or be slow and sensual for a dude that wants you to twerk your ass off. and I won't give all ass to a dude that is all titty. Like, idk it is common sense type shit. I mean I am not a fucking mind reader so generally I ask what the guy's favorite feature in a woman or on me is, however you wanna word it.
OH ALSO. ime the best way to stack hella hella dances is either luck out and some dude is totally into u no matter what. or b) talk. then talk some more. then talk. keep the convo going. if he is falling in love iwth ur personality you basically sit on the dude and give him some good visuals and talk and talk and talk and if u think u are talking enough no ur not.
Re: What is your typical lap dance routine?
^ ah....the last few places I've worked at only do lapdances in the VIP room (which has benefits but also can suck sometimes for time.) so that's partly why. but yes for floor dances, that's too intimate. so it's more go go and seeing who is looking and enjoying so I have a list of people to approach after I'm done with the current guy. but floor dances are much more upbeat, fun, jokey, and silly.