Re: Ex Husband threatening and Invading Privacy
https://youtu.be/SYcYub8_9y0Tell him whatever the fuck he needs to hear and leave ASAP. After you leave the only contact you should have with him is through your attorney. You are not safe! The longer you stay the harder it will be to leave. I left with ZERO dollars to my name. You need to call a women’s shelter and get help. Can you cam from a hotel? I can’t imagine going through this with COVID.
Safety plan
http://www.ncdsv.org/images/DV_Safety_Plan.pdf
Re: Ex Husband threatening and Invading Privacy
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moneybags
https://youtu.be/SYcYub8_9y0Tell him whatever the fuck he needs to hear and leave ASAP. After you leave the only contact you should have with him is through your attorney. You are not safe! The longer you stay the harder it will be to leave. I left with ZERO dollars to my name. You need to call a women’s shelter and get help. Can you cam from a hotel? I can’t imagine going through this with COVID.
Safety plan
http://www.ncdsv.org/images/DV_Safety_Plan.pdf
OMG yes! I too watched this during the beginning of the quarantine bc I was thinking "how in the hell am I gonna live with this person for the next god knows how long?" :(
She gives such amazing advice on everything regarding abusive relationships. I used to go out to my car & listen to her after my bf would try starting fights with me daily. It really helped me.
Re: Ex Husband threatening and Invading Privacy
One more great tip of advice if & when you do go shelter in a motel/hotel. Try changing up your schedule & become a night owl bc that's when the wifi will be much more doable for camming. I'm noticing how much more bandwith I'm getting after folks go to bed around 11 pm or so bc no one else is using the wifi :)
It's not forever but you do what you gotta do to survive right now.
Re: Ex Husband threatening and Invading Privacy
Visualize yourself OUT and fully away! Just THINK of how much emotional energy it will free up. :)
Then just make it happen. You've got this !
Re: Ex Husband threatening and Invading Privacy
Not sure where you live and what you have or there, but you might check out local motels and see if any of them will give you a good deal in this crazy economy. Also garage apartments advertised in Craigslist, Greensheet, and other free places can be cheap.
Re: Ex Husband threatening and Invading Privacy
Bambi, I don't have much to add, but I sure wish you the best, girl! Hugs.
Many years ago, I was in your situation, I gradually moved my stuff out, & waited to his 1 long day at work to finish up moving.
It was hard, scary but it worked out.
You take care love, if you ever need to pm me, I'd even give you my #.:-*
Re: Ex Husband threatening and Invading Privacy
Re: Ex Husband threatening and Invading Privacy
Take it a day at a time but have your escape options in place. Sounds like you have taken up residence with one of those human time bombs that needs to be medicated.